Ukusuka ekukhathazeni ukuba yeyiphi imibala yodonga oza kuyikhetha ukuzibuza ukuba uthathe isigqibo esifanelekileyo kuloo bhedi, zininzi izigqibo zomzimba eziya kwenza ikhaya. Kulilungele ngokupheleleyo ixesha lokufunda malunga nemigaqo yoyilo, izimvo zokugcina kunye neendlela zokuhombisa- zonke izinto eziza kwenza indawo yakho ibe nokuphila ngakumbi kwaye ibe mnandi. Kodwa sukubambeka ekuhombiseni de ulibale ukufaka indawo yakho kunye enye izinto ezibalulekileyo ezenza indlu (okanye iflethi, okanye ikhondomu…) ikhaya.
Kukho umgangatho ophantse ubonakale xa ungena kwamanye amakhaya. Ndiyichazile ngaphambili njengokwamkela, ukumema, ukufudumala. Kwaye ngelixa ezo zichazi zisebenza, umgangatho endithetha ngawo kunzima ukuwuchaza ngamagama.
Ndikhe ndayithanda lonto Andazi ukuba yintoni -lity iminyaka ngoku. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ndichitha ixesha elininzi ndisebenza ekhaya. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba indlu endikhulele kuyo ayisiyiyo into endizoyithatha njengephupha lam.
Xa ndafumanisa ukuba sikhe sajikeleza ezinye iindawo ezimangalisayo - zenziwe ngabantu abanamava eminyaka beguqula izakhiwo ezingenanto emakhaya - kuye kwafuneka ndibabuze ukuba zeziphi izinto abacinga ukuba zezona zibalulekileyo ngokwenza ikhaya. Isilumko sabo-kwaye kufanelekile ukuba bakhumbule-iimpendulo (ngamazwi abo) zingezantsi:
Ikhaya lakho kufuneka lixele eyakho ibali
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Liz Calka)
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Xelela ibali lakho. Yila kwaye uhombise indawo yakho ngezinto ezizezakho ezikonwabisa. Uyilo alunyanzelekanga ukuba lube lusiki kakhulu kwaye lubi. Musa ukoyika ukuba umsebenzi wobugcisa awuzukuhambelana nefenitshala okanye ngokuchaseneyo. Imalunga nokudityaniswa kunye nokuthelekiswa okusekwe esikalini, kumgca, kumbala nakwimvakalo yokwenza ukuhlangana okungapheliyo, ngokungafaniyo nezambatho zikaIris Apfel xa exuba iTrift Store ifumana neCouture Fashion yohlobo lweCurated Eclecticism. Wonke umntu uneliso; yiqeqeshe, ithembe kwaye uyilandele. Ekugqibeleni, ikhaya lakho kufuneka libalise ibali lakho kwaye lingabi malunga namaphepha avela kwikhathalogu. Ukucaphula uGloria Vanderbilt, ' Ukuhombisa ngu-Autobiography . '
- Irwin Gueco , umyili wezinto ophumeleleyo kunye noyilo langaphakathi, usebenza kwigalari yesizwe yezobugcisa eWashington, DC. Sihambele ikhaya lakhe leenyawo ezingama-495.
Ikhaya ngu into eyenziwe
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: U-Lauren Kolyn)
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo 'ngokwenza' ikhaya yile… ..ukuba 'ikhaya' ngokwenene yinto 'eyenziwe'. Ngokoluvo lwam, ikhaya yinto eyenziweyo kwaye yinto ekufuneka ilungiswe ngononophelo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Isenzo sokwakha ikhaya sisifundo esizimeleyo nesisondeleyo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ikhaya lakho kufuneka ligcwaliswe zizinto ozithandayo. Izinto ezikukhumbuza ukuba ungubani, apho ukhe kwaye nokuba ufuna ukuya khona. Kule meko, ikhaya kufuneka lihlale liguquka ngokuhamba kwexesha.
- A. J. Berne Unomdla woyilo noyilo lwangaphakathi olubonakalayo kwikhaya lakhe leenyawo ezingama-645 eToronto.
Phatha ikhaya lakho njengangaphakathi kwengqondo yakho
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: UWilliam Strawser)
Ikhaya lihlala malunga nentuthuzelo kum kwaye ukungqongwa zizinto nabantu endibathandayo. Ikhaya lam alisahlali lide ixesha elide. Ndihlala nditshintsha, ndilungisa, ndihamba, ndicinga kwakhona ndisebenzisa indawo yam. Ukuba ucinga ngayo, ikhaya kuphela kwendawo apho unolawulo olupheleleyo lwazo zonke izinto. Kuba amakhaya ethu afana ncam nathi, ukuba simoshekile, amakhaya ethu anezothe. Ukuba sonwabile, amakhaya ethu onwabile.
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Bendihlala ndiliphatha ikhaya lam ngokungathi ibingaphakathi kwengqondo yam. Ndicoca ubucukubhede, ndothula iindawo ezifuna uthuli, ndithenge iintyatyambo kunye nezityalo zobomi obuhlaziyiweyo kwaye ndikhanyise iindawo eziyifunayo. Ikhaya yeyona ndawo ibaluleke kakhulu kum. Kulapho ndikhulisela khona abantwana bam, ndenze iinkumbulo kwaye ndigcine usapho lwam lukhuselekile. Njengokuba ndikhula kwaye nosapho lwam lukhula, ikhaya liyatshintsha ukuxhasa olo thando kunye nokukhula. Ikhaya lam lihlala litshintsha kwaye lihlala liguquka ngenxa yendlela ubomi obuguquka ngayo kunye neemfuno zethu eziguqukayo.
- UChristine Alcalay ngumyili wefashoni kunye nomnini weevenkile ze IKIWI kwi-NYC. Ngo-2011, wazisa umgca wokulungela ukunxiba. Simkhenkcezile Ikhaya leZen le-Mid-Century eBrooklyn .
Inqaku kukuziva ukhululekile
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: U-Lauren Kolyn)
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Kum, i eyona nto ibalulekileyo yintuthuzelo. Ewe ndinayo ipenchant yefom ngaphezulu komsebenzi, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ndiyayicaphukisa. Okanye kungcono, fumana izinto ezidibanisa ezona zibalaseleyo. Jongana nayo, uchitha ixesha elininzi ekhayeni lakho. Ukuba awungekhe wonwabe kwaye ukhululeke apho, uzive upholile kwaye ushushu, umxholo kwaye wonwabile, yintoni ke inqaku?
- UTim Tripp Unomdla kwimbali yokuhombisa kunye noyilo olukhoyo kuyo yonke iloft yakhe yaseToronto esiyihambileyo.
Ziyolise kuqala
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Emma Fiala)
Kuya kukuvuyisa, ngokobuqu. Bamba abantu ngemoto yakho okanye ubucwebe bakho ukuba uyafuna, kodwa indlu yakho yeyakho.
- UEva akoyiki umbala okanye ukwaphula imithetho embalwa yoyilo eqhelekileyo. Ubonisa le ntanda-bulumko kwikhaya elinesibindi eChicago esiye sayijonga.
Yamkela ukungafezeki
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: UHeather Keeling)
Intuthuzelo nokunyaniseka !! Le yimantra yam. Ndiyawathanda amakhaya am ndiyabathanda abahlobo bam… bekhululekile, banyanisekile, banomdla… kunye nexesha elidlulileyo. Abanye bafuna ukugqibelela emakhaya okanye ebantwini. Ndikhangela ukubanjwa kweziphene… iimpawu zobomi obuphilileyo. Kukuthuthuzela okuyinyani oko, ubabalo nobuhle. Leyo yinkcazo yekhaya lokwenene elinentliziyo, umphefumlo kunye nobuhle.
- UJudith Bigham (naye umfumane kwi I-Instagram ) ngumzobi kunye nomyili wezinto zangaphakathi, kwaye ikhaya lakhe eSeattle ligcwele ifenitshala, ubugcisa, kunye nobuncwane asebechithe amashumi eminyaka eqokelela ngothando kwaye edala.
Makubekho ukukhanya
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
Yiza ubuhle nobabalo kunye ngaphandle kokuzenzisa. Oku kuhlala kubandakanya ukuvumela ukukhanya ukuhamba ngokukhululekileyo kwisithuba sonke. Ukudibanisa iklasikhi kunye ne-quirky yongeza kwindalo, ulwamkelo lwendalo.
- UCarol Stall ngumzobi kunye nomyili wezacholo, kwaye samjonga kunye nomyeni wakhe uPhil ebukekayo ngo-1930 kwikhaya laseAustin.
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Phinda wenze umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: UMarie-Lyne Quirion)
Ndiva ukuba ukuguqula indawo yokuhlala ibe likhaya kuyayila kwakhona imeko yethu yangaphakathi. Uthando losapho, isiko, ilifa, ubuhlobo.
- USuzanne we U-Decogirl waseMontreal ngumhombisi wangaphakathi osebenza eMontreal ogqwesileyo ekwenzeni umhombiso obutofotofo. Simtyelele ekhaya laseDowntown eMontreal.
Yenza inkcubeko yoyilo
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Hayley Kessner)
Bendihleli ndiyazi inkcubeko yethu yasekhaya. Inkcubeko yethu yasekhaya ibonakalisa ukuxabiseka kwethu. Sineencwadi kuyo yonke indawo ukukhuthaza ukufundelwa wonke umntu. Sidlala umculo ukuseta ithoni efanelekileyo ekhaya. Wonke umntu olapha unokufikelela ngokulula kubugcisa kunye nezinto zobugcisa ukukhuthaza ubuchule. Siyile ubume bekhaya ukubonisa ukuba usapho lubalulekile, kwaye abantwana baxatyisiwe. Ubume bendlu bunje ukuba sibe kunye, kodwa kunganyanzelekanga ukuba sibonane. Sakha amagumbi okulala amancinci kwaye sikhuthaza konke ukudlala kunye nomsebenzi wasekhaya ukuba wenziwe kwiindawo zoluntu endlini; izithuba zoluntu zinemimandla eyahlukeneyo apho sinokuthi sisebenze kwaye sidlale ngokuzimeleyo.
- URuth de Vos (mfumane kwi Facebook kwaye I-Instagram ) ngumculi wempahla ohlala eNtshona Australia kunye nomyeni wakhe kunye nabantwana abathandathu. Saya kubona ikhaya labo elihle.
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Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Liz Calka)
Funda ngakumbi ngengcebiso malunga nokwenza ikhaya elingezantsi:
Iinyaniso zasekhaya ezingakumbi kufuneka zikhunjulwe.
Izinto eziza kukonwabisa.
* Ezi mpendulo zodliwanondlebe zilungiselelwe ubude kunye nokucaca.
