Ngenye imini, ndadibana nomfazi olunge kakhulu owathetha into enje,… ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke umsebenzi. Sasingenalo ixesha lokuncokola ngakumbi- kwaye ndandingafuni ukufunza— ke ndashiyeka nge yezigidi imibuzo. Ndingathanda ukuva ukuba bunjani ubomi kuni nonke nina makhaya apha phandle.
Eminye yemibuzo emininzi ebihamba engqondweni yam yile:
- Ngaba unoluhlu lwemisebenzi oza kuyenza yonke imihla / iveki / inyanga? Ngaba uze nayo ngokwakho okanye ngaba wena neqabane lakho nigqibe kunye?
- Ngaba iqabane lakho likhe longeza izinto kuluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza? Kwaye ukuba uliqabane eliqeshiweyo, ngaba ukhe wanqwenela / wacela ukuba iqabane lakho lokuhlala ekhaya linyamekele into abangayenziyo?
- Wenza ntoni ukuba uziva kuninzi kakhulu kwipleyiti yakho? Kwaye benza ntoni amaqabane aqeshiweyo ukuba iziseko zisoloko zityeshelwa (izitya / ukuhlanjwa kungenziwanga)? Uhlangabezana njani neemeko ezinjalo? Ngaba kukho umphathi / umqeshwa oziva kwiingxoxo?
- Ngaba iqabane eliqeshiweyo livakalisa ukhetho- Ndiyazithanda iimpahla zam ezixhonywe ngolu hlobo kwaye itafile ibekwe ngoluhlobo- kwaye ngaba umninikhaya akazinaki, uzithatha njengeziphakamiso ezinobubele, okanye uhlala ebambelela kuzo?
- Ugqiba njani xa ugqibile ukusebenzela usuku? Xa iqabane lakho lenziwe? Xa uluhlu lwakho lwemisebenzi lugqityiwe? Ukuba iqabane lakho lineveki ende, enzima emsebenzini, ngaba uyithathela kuwe ukugqibezela iiprojekthi, okanye ngaba unamathela kumthwalo wakho wesiqhelo?
- Umzi wakho uqonde njani ukuba uza kuba nakho ukuhlawula omnye wenu ukuba ahlale ekhaya? Ngaba ninazo iintlanganiso zonyaka zokuphonononga uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali?
- Ngaba niyayenza into encinci ngenxa yokuba kufanelekile kuni nobabini ukuba omnye wenu ahlale ekhaya, okanye niyakwazi ukuhlala kwaye nonge kamnandi- okanye nangobunewunewu- kumvuzo omnye?
- Ngaba unayo indlela yokwenza imali manqaphanqapha, nokuba uyakwazi ukubanako ukufumana izinto zikaxakeka, iindleko ngamanye amaxesha njengezipho zeholide, ukuphatha usapho lwakho, kunye / okanye ukuzenzela ngokwakho?
- Ngaba unayo imali yakho esekwe ngendlela yokuba ukwazi ukuzimela ngokwezezimali? (Ndiva ngathi kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho awona mabali mabi emeko apho ..)
- Ukuba iqabane lokuhlala ekhaya liqala ukulandela izinto ezingahlawulelwayo ezinje ngokuzithandela, uqeqesho lweetrayethloni, okanye ukufunda isixhobo, ingaba wonke umntu uyavuma ukuba imisebenzi ethile yasekhaya inokubekelwa bucala? Okanye ngaba iqabane eliqeshiweyo lingena?
- Abenzi bamakhaya, leliphi icandelo lokuhlala ekhaya elinzima kakhulu kuwe? Ndingacinga ukuba u-monotony, i-cabin fever, ukuziva ungaxatyiswanga, ukunqongophala kokuzimela kwezezimali, kunye nezinye iindlela zokugweba abanye ezinokuba nemiceli mngeni.
- Kodwa masiphele kwinqaku eliphezulu: abenzi bamakhaya, yeyiphi eyona nto uyithandayo ekusebenzeni ekhaya? Kwaye amaqabane aqeshiweyo, yeyiphi eyona ndawo ilungileyo kulungiselelo lwakho?
Ndijonge phambili ukuva konke malunga nobomi bakho kunye namakhaya akho!
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