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Iiholo zihonjisiwe, izipho zigqunyiwe, kwaye imibhiyozo ibhiyozelwa-nangona ku kancinci ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunesiqhelo kulo nyaka. Ngoku, usenokuba uzifumene unezipho ezimbalwa ezivela kwizalamane ezineenjongo ezintle nabazala bakho obaxabisayo, kodwa musa nje uthando. Ewe, yingcinga ebalulekileyo, kwaye ukufumana isipho komnye umntu kuhlala kukhethekile kwaye kushushu-entliziyweni, kodwa wenza ntoni ngezipho ongazukuzisebenzisa ngokwenyani?



Kuqala, khumbula ukwamkela isipho ekubhekiswa kuso ngobabalo nangengqiqo. U-Elaine Swann, umseki we ISwann School of Protocol , Ucebisa ukuba ubhale inqaku lakho lombulelo macala omntu ukunika Isipho hayi isipho esikhoyo. Gxila enkosi yakho ngakumbi kwimigca yobabalo, ububele, kunye nokucinga ngokuchasene nesipho uqobo. Gxila ngakumbi emntwini ngokwakhe, utshilo. Nokuba ayisiyondlela yakho, baya kuziva iifuzzi ezifudumeleyo zombulelo wakho, ongumboniso ngokwawo.



Nje ukuba ubonge umniki, ungaqala ukwenza isicwangciso sokwenza ngesipho. Nazi iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezivavanyiweyo zezipho ongazithandiyo-ukuqala ngento enye ongafanele ukuba uyenze.



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Ukuba kuvela imeko enzima, thetha ngobuchule nangokunyaniseka. Yamkela i-awkward kwaye uyityhale uyidlule. Yazi ukuba kuya kuba nzima kwaye kuyinyani, izabelo ze-Swann. Xelela umntu ukuba unombulelo kakhulu ukuba bacinge ngawe kwaye okwangoku wenza ukucoca izinto ezizezakho kwaye le yenye yezinto ezixineneyo kuluhlu. Ingcebiso yakhe kukumazi lo mntu kunye nokucinga kwakhe kwakhona, kwaye naziphi na iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu kufuneka zilungiswe.



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Yitshintshe. Ukuba umniki-sipho ubandakanye irisithi, akukho ngenene akukho bubi ngokutshintshela lo mbuzo ungumbuzo wento engakumbi kunencasa yakho. Ukuba irisithi ifakiwe, lowo ukunikayo wayesazi ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba unokufuna ubungakanani obahlukileyo okanye isimbo okanye enye into ngokupheleleyo! Ngebengazange bakunike isipho ukuba abafuni kukonwabisa.

Buyisela kwakhona… ngocoselelo. Ngokuka-Swann, ukubuyisa kwakhona kwamkelekile ngokupheleleyo kunye nemiqolomba embalwa. Isitshixo sokukhumbula kukuba ungaphinde ubuye kwisangqa esinye sabantu. Umzekelo, ukuba ufumana isipho kumntu osebenza naye kwaye ufuna ukusibuyisa, ngekhe usibuyisele kubantu osebenza nabo, uyacebisa. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba kuya kufuneka ubuyise kuphela izinto ongazisebenzisanga. Qiniseka ukuba [into] ikwipakethe yayo yoqobo kwaye uyibeke kwesinye isikhwama sesipho okanye usongele kwakhona kwiphepha elitsha.



Cinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi-ngokoqobo. Mhlawumbi ngekhe usebenzise eso sitya senziwe ngokomfuziselo njengenxalenye yokutya kwakho kwemihla ngemihla, kodwa ngaba kuya kubonakala kupholile kwitafile yakho yekofu, okanye mhlawumbi kwigumbi lokuhlambela ukuze ubambe iqhina leenwele kunye neebhalam zomlomo? Ukuba olo shicilelo lobugcisa aluhambi ngokwenene kunye noyilo lwakho lwangaphakathi, kuthekani ukuba utshintsha isakhelo esangena? Ngaba ungayinxiba itanki ephezulu kwiklasi yokujikeleza? Yenza ubuchule kwaye ungafumanisa ukuba into ongakhange ucinge ukuba uyayifuna iba yinxalenye yobomi bakho bemihla ngemihla ngendlela emangalisayo.

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Thengisa amakhadi ezipho kwi-Intanethi . Ngaba ulifumene ikhadi lesipho kwivenkile ongayithengi kuyo okanye kwindawo yokutyela ongayi rhoqo? Ungayithengisa kwi-intanethi, kwaye kulula kakhulu. Khulisa.com kwaye ICardpool ziindawo ezintle ukuqala; ungathengisa amakhadi ezipho kunye nokugcina ikhredithi kwaye uhlawulwe nge-PayPal, idiphozithi ngqo, okanye itsheki. Kwaye ke, kusoloko kukho Craigslist! Awunakufumana ukulingana kwemali ezinkozo, kodwa ukuba ikhadi lesipho lithatha indawo kwisipaji sakho, zenzele inceba kwaye ulitshintshe ngento oza kuyisebenzisa.

Fumana into kwikhaya elinothando. Ngaba uSanta wakho oyimfihlo wakunika incwadi osele uyifundile, igajethi yekhitshi uyazi ukuba ngekhe uyisebenzise, ​​okanye isiqholo esingeyonto yakho? Inokuba ilungele umhlobo, umntu osebenza naye, okanye umntu owakha naye! (Ukuba awubazi abamelwane bakho, yile nto ibhokisi ESIMAHLA kwigumbi lakho lokungenisa.) Unokuthathela ingqalelo ukugcina isipho kude kube kuphinda kuvumeleke iintlanganiso zokuzonwabisa, emva koko ubambe itheko lokutshintsha isipho nabahlobo okanye abamelwane, apho wonke umntu uzisa isipho sokutshintsha; Unokunikela ngayo nantoni na eseleyo kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya okanye umbutho osweleyo.

Nikela ngayo — ngenkathalo. Ukuphinda ungene kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya kubonakala kuzinzile, kodwa njengoko IGreen America ibika , malunga nezigidi ezithathu zeetoni zamalaphu anikelweyo ziyatshiswa kwaye iitoni ezili-10 lezigidi ziphelela ekugcwaliseni inkunkuma nyaka ngamnye. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze uhambo oluya kulondolozo, cinga ngento oyiphayo: Ngaba ungabona omnye umntu usebenzisa le nto? Ngaba ilixesha elifanelekileyo lonyaka kunye nemozulu? Ukuba into yakho ngamanqaku apheleleyo, zive ukhululekile ukunikela ngayo-kodwa ukuba umngcipheko wokuhlala kwishelufa, zama ukufumana enye indlela yokuyinika ubomi obutsha ngokuphanda ezinye iindlela kwivenkile ethengisa izinto.

Ukuba ufumene iimveliso zobuhle uyazi ukuba ngekhe uzisebenzise, ​​zigcine kwiipakethe zazo zoqobo kwaye unikele ngendawo yokuhlala yamanina okanye umbutho wesinxibo sempumelelo. Ukuba unikwe izincedisi zemozulu ebandayo eza kuthi zithathe indawo yokugcina exabisekileyo kwigunjana lakho, cinga ukunikela kwindawo yokuhlala engenakhaya okanye uzigcine emotweni yakho ukuba uzinike umntu okhangeleka ngathi uyazidinga.

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