UAlice, Ndingawabiza amaPolisa? Umzala wam ngekhe ahlawule iRhafu

Kulungile, ke ndinomzala wam ohlala naye, kwaye akazukuhamba. Ekuqaleni yayinguye kunye nenja yakhe. Waqala ngokuhlala kumandlalo wam wokuvuthela kwigumbi lam lokuhlala, kwaye wahlawula ikhulu leedola. Ndabona ukuba uza kube elapha inyanga, mhlawumbi inyanga enesiqingatha. Wayesenza imali entle… enje ngeedola ezili-15 ngeyure iiyure ezingama-35 ngeveki, nto leyo entle kwingingqi yethu. Kodwa emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, intombi yakhe entsha nayo yahlala. Kwaye kwinyanga emva koko, wayeka umsebenzi wakhe wathi uza kufumana olunge ngakumbi.

Seleziinyanga ezintlanu ngoku, kwaye akafumananga msebenzi mtsha. Ngeli xesha, bendide ndimxhume ngefowuni kwisivumelwano sam- kwaye ndimxelele ukuba kufuneka ahlawule i-60 yeedola ngenyanga ngayo, engakhange ayenze. Ngoku ndidiniwe yiyo, kwaye undityala ngaphezulu kwe- $ 1,000 phakathi kwerenti kunye neefowuni kunye neemovie azithengileyo kwi-intanethi kwiakhawunti yam. Ndimxelele ukuba kufuneka ahambe, kodwa uyala kwaye athi omnye umntu endihlala naye uthi angahlala, kwaye andinakwenza nto ngako. Ngaba yinyaniso leyo? Ndingabiza amapolisa ukuba amsuse, intombi yakhe kunye nenja yakhe? Okanye ngaba ndimele ndilinde de kuqeshiso lwam kwaye ndiphume isihogo?

Oku kuvakala ngathi liphupha elibi.

Ngubani omnye umntu ohlala naye !?

I-whammy ephindwe kabini yokujongela phantsi umntu ohlala naye kunye nabanye ababini, abantu endingafuni ukuhlala nabo (kunye nenja) yenza isindululo sam sokuguqa ngamadolo kukuba ndiphume apho, kodwa ndiyaqonda ukuba ukuqeshisa kwenza ukuba kungenzeki. Ukuba ukuqeshisa kwakho kunyukile kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezizayo, kwaye unokuxhoma ngokuqinileyo kude kube lelo xesha ngaphandle kokuqhawula, ndingacebisa ukuba wenze njalo kwaye ushukume (kodwa ungatyikityi naluphi na uqeshiso olutsha nomntu ohlala naye apha! umntu ??). Kodwa ukuba isivumelwano sakho asizukuhlala ixesha elide kunoko, kulungile… mhlawumbi ungaqiqa nomzala wakho okwangoku kwaye ufumane umhlaba ophakathi (akho amanye amalungu osapho onokuthetha nawo?). Ndingacebisa ukuba ndimsuse kwisicwangciso sakho sefowuni (ukuba akunjalo ngoku, emva nje kokuba ungasahlali kunye).

Kulungile kumalungelo akho okubiza amapolisa ukuba umntu ongenatyala akazukushiya isithuba sakho, nangona umntu otyholwa ngokungafanelekanga lundwendwe olungafunekiyo okanye umqeshi wenza izinto zibe yingxaki ngakumbi ngokusemthethweni (kwaye kuvakala ngathi umzala wakho ungumqeshi wakho apha, nokuba Usemva kwirente). ndifumene izikhokelo kule posi ukuba ube nolwazi, ngakumbi eli candelo malunga nokuthetha negqwetha ngaphambi kokuba uthathe amanye amanyathelo: Igqwetha lomqeshi oqeshisa ngendawo lingakunceda uphendule nayiphi na imibuzo onokuba nayo, kwaye lingangqineka liluncedo kakhulu xa unokubiza amapolisa kwaye ucele lawo ncedisa (ngcono, cela igqwetha lakho ukuba lihambe nawe ukuya kwisikhululo sendlu, kwangaphambili, ukuyithetha yonke le nto).

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