Ubhala njani uMsitho Wakho Womtshato

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Eyona mitshato ilungileyo yeyokwenene. Kwaye ngelixa kukho isigidi nenye yeendlela zokubeka isitampu sakho sodwa ngalo mhla, akukho nto ibaluleke kangako – ngohlobo olukhulu, olukhoyo-njengamagama owavayo, awathethileyo kunye nokwabelana ngexesha lomsitho womtshato. Kwaye andithethi nje ngezibhambathiso – ungabhala wonke umboniso ukusuka ekuqaleni kuye esiphelweni ukuba uyafuna.



Ukuba unethuba, ixesha kunye nokuzimisela ukufumana i-elbow enzulu kulwandle lwamagama, ukubhala umsitho wakho womtshato kunokuba yeyona projekthi ye-DIY inomvuzo oyenzayo kusuku olukhulu. Ukubhala umsitho womtshato wethu kunike umyeni wam kunye nam ithuba lokufaka ezethu intsingiselo kwizithembiso esizenzileyo ngala mini. Sikwazile ukwabelana ngenkolelo yethu ekwabelwanayo ngayo yokuba kwakungekho magunya omlingo ekutshintshisaneni ngezibhambathiso, kwaye asizanga sonwabile kunye, endaweni yoko senza ukhetho oluqinisekileyo lokuba kunye. (Side sabhala kancinci phaya malunga nokuba ibaluleke kangakanani ingcwele yekhaya kuthi-kakhulu iTherapy Therapy, ndiyacinga.)



Unokuvumelana nemvakalelo yethu, okanye hayi. Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba nina, njengabantu abatshatileyo, nisebenzise umsitho wenu njengethuba lokuzibophelela kuhlobo lwenu lwezinto ocinga ukuba umtshato kufuneka ube malunga nazo. Nantsi indlela yokwenza ukuba kwenzeke:





Funda iiNxalenye zoMsitho woMtshato

Kukho i-cadence esekwe kunye nolwakhiwo olwenza umsitho womtshato ube ngumsitho womtshato. Unako, ewe, ukudlala ngeenxa zonke ngayo okanye encinci njengoko ungathanda, kodwa njengaye nawuphi na umculi obalaseleyo kufuneka uyazi imigaqo ngaphambi kokuba uyaphule. Ekuphela kwento oyenzayo ngokwenene imfuno ukuba nombuzo wenjongo (ndenza inxalenye) ukuyenza ibophele ngokusemthethweni.

Zininzi izibonelelo ezikwi-intanethi eziza kuthi zichaze iinxalenye zomsitho womtshato, nganye inokuba yahlukile kancinane kunabanye. Kodwa nalu ulwandlalo olubi endilufumene kumagosa ethu omtshato Get Wed ngu Ed kumsitho wesintu waseNtshona:



  • Inkqubo: Apho wonke umntu ehamba ezantsi.
  • Ukubulisa, amagama okuvula, kunye nokwamkela: Unokuba mfutshane nje ngombulelo olula, okanye ukwazisa ngemvelaphi, malunga nokuba umtshakazi nomyeni baba sisibini njani.
  • Isibhengezo semvume (Ukunika uMtshakazi kude)
  • Ingxelo okanye umbuzo wenjongo (Endizenzayo)
  • Ukutshintshwa kwezifungo zoMtshato
  • Ukutshintshiselana kweMisesane yoMtshato
  • Isibhengezo, Isibhengezo somtshato kunye neKiss
  • Intshayelelo kunye neNgeniso yesi sibini sisandul 'ukutshata
  • Ixesha lokuPhumla

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Isikhokelo esipheleleyo semitshato yanamhlanje.

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Thatha isigqibo sokuba loluphi uhlobo loMsitho oLifunayo

Ngokuchanekileyo, gqiba ngento oza kuyenza sukuyenza Ndifuna. Zibuze imibuzo malunga namasiko, amasiko kunye nolungiselelo:

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  • Ufuna ukuba kude kube nini umsitho?
  • Ngaba umsitho kufuneka uzive ulunge ngakumbi okanye ungakhathali?
  • Zeziphi izithethe zonqulo, ukuba zikhona, ofuna ukuzibandakanya?
  • Ngaba uyafuna ukudibanisa naziphi na ezinye izithethe ezinjengekhandlela lobumbano, ukubambana ngesandla okanye umsitho wesanti?
  • Ngaba uya kuba nokufundwa okanye amanye amabali afakwe kulo msitho?
  • Ngaba ufuna ukuba iindwendwe zakho zithathe inxaxheba okanye zibukele nje?

Ukwazi iimpendulo zale mibuzo kuya kukunceda ukukhokela zonke izigqibo ozenzayo malunga nomsitho.



Qokelela Imisitho Ethetha Nawe

Ngoku lixesha lokufuna imizekelo yesicatshulwa somsitho womtshato, kokubini kwi-Intanethi nakwisiphathamandla esenza umsitho wakho. Khangela imithendeleko ehambelana neenkolelo zakho, nokuba yeyiphi na. Emva koko khuphela kwaye uncamathisele iindawo ezivakala zilungile kuwe kuxwebhu kwenye indawo kwikhompyuter yakho, kwifowuni yakho okanye kwilifu. Uya kufuna ukugcina naziphi na iikowuti ezipheleleyo okanye ufundisiso oluthandayo, kodwa kunye nokujika okulula kwebinzana okanye amagama angatshatanga abamba imo oya kuyo. Ngamazwi nangezenzo. Cola. Akukho nto ingako oyithethayo ukuba awukayiva. Cola.

Injongo kukuqokelela nje la manqaku kunye, nokuba athandana okanye ayimveli okanye ahlekisa nje (ukuba isitayile sakho eso). Inqaku lam endilithandayo kumsitho womtshato wam yayileli:

Olona hlobo lubalaseleyo endakha ndeva umntu osebenzayo esithi Ukuba kukho nabani na onezichaso zokuba kutheni aba babini bengafanelanga ukuba batshatile, ngoku ayiloxesha. Uneminyaka ekhokelela kule ndawo, kodwa nceda undifumane emva komtshato kuba ndiyayithanda intlebendwane.

Khange sigqibe siyisebenzisa, kodwa ndiyagigitheka xa ndicinga ngayo.

Yijonge konke kunye

Ngexesha elithile phantsi kwendlela, kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi komtshato, kuya kufuneka udibanise uxwebhu lwakho lwaseFrankenstein kumsitho wenyani. Qala uxwebhu lwesibini ngezihloko ezihambelana neenxalenye zomsitho (ukusuka phezulu), kwaye uqalise ukunamathisela iziqwenga zakho endaweni. Uya kuqala ukuhlela yonke into phantsi, udibanise iinxalenye ezabelana ngendlela efanayo kwaye ushiye naziphi na izinto ezingafunekiyo. Eli lixesha lokongeza owakho umbhalo wokuqala, naye. Thatha ezakho iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo malunga nesithembiso osenzayo, kwaye ucele umtshakazi okanye umyeni wakho ukuba enze njalo. Funda uphinde ufunde into onayo amaxesha ambalwa, uyihlele njengoko usiya.

Yipolishe ngaphandle kweGosa

Kulapho konke kuhlangana khona. Igosa lakho liya kuba sisibonelelo esingaxabisekanga xa kufikwa ekunciphiseni zonke izimvo zakho kumnyhadala odibeneyo onengqiqo, ohamba kakuhle, kwaye (mhlawumbi okona kubaluleke kakhulu) kukude nje ukuba ufunde njengoko ufuna ukuba umsitho wakho uhlale.

Ngaba ubhale umsitho wakho? Ngaba unazo naziphi na iingcebiso zokwabelana?

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