Ukuhla ezantsi kwibhloko okanye ngaphaya kwedolophu luxinzelelo ngokwaneleyo, kodwa akukho nto ithelekisa nokuhamba umgama omde. Le misebenzi yeHerculean ihlala indikhumbuza ngezinto ezithandekayo I-Hyperbole kunye nesiqingatha sehlaya : Umbhali u-Allie Brosh uchaze ngokugqwesileyo ukusuka kwakhe eMontana esiya e-Oregon phantse ukuba uxinezeleko kwaye ulilize njengokuzama ukubaleka udaka lwentaba. Ukupakisha zonke izinto zakho yinto enye. Ukufudusa phantse yonke into kubomi bakho abadala-izixhobo, ubuhlobo, imisebenzi, njl-luhlobo olukhethekileyo lokuhlushwa.
Uninzi lwezi zinto ekugqibeleni ziwela endaweni. Kodwa kukho into emangazayo abantu abavakalelwa kukuba ayinakubuyiselwa: iinwele zabo.
Oku kuvele kudliwanondlebe lwam lwamva nje no-Ali Wenzke, umbhali we Ubugcisa bokuHamba oNwabileyo: Indlela yokuDibanisa, ukupakisha, kunye nokuQala kwakhona ngelixa ugcina iSanity yakho kwaye ufumana ulonwabo . Njengophando lwencwadi yakhe, wenza udliwanondlebe nabantu abaninzi abasandula kuhamba. Uninzi luye lwaza lalahleka i-hairstylist yabo kwaye babenexhala lokufumana entsha.
Xa wandixelela oku, ndahleka kakhulu ndaza ndavuma. Ekuqaleni kwalo nyaka, ndasuka e-NYC ndaya eNashville. Inxalenye yoluhlu lwam lokuhlola ngaphambi kokuhamba yayikukufumana iinwele zokugqibela ezivela kuLily, owayengumlungisi weenwele zam eBrooklyn. Sele ndinobuhlobo obude beentlobo naye. Ndiqale ndaya kuye xa ndandihambisa eWilliamsburg iiveki ezintandathu emva kokufudukela esixekweni. Ndaya eHarlem kungekudala emva koko, apho ndahlala khona iminyaka emithandathu. Ukwenza olo hambo lwemizuzu engama-45 (ukuba indlela ehamba ngaphantsi komhlaba iyasebenzisana) sele uziva ngathi uya kwisixeko esahlukileyo. Kodwa uLily wayeziqonda iinwele zam kunye nento endiyifunayo, ke lwalulifanele uhambo.
Ekutyunjweni kwam okokugqibela, ngokuqhula (?) Ndaqala ukwenza amayelenqe okubuya ndibuyele e-NYC malunga nemihla endifuna ukubanjwa ngayo.
Uyazi ukuba kukho iisalon zeenwele eNashville, akunjalo? ULily ubuzile.
Khange ndikwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ndiziva ndikhathazekile malunga nokufumana umchebi omtsha kunokuba wayenokulahlekelwa ngumthengi.
Ukuba ndibhabhe ndibuyele e-NYC ngenwele, ngekhe ndindedwa: UWenzke uthi abantu abaninzi abangathandekiyo ukufumana iinwele ezintsha bazokucwangcisela ukubuyela umva, bekhama kwinwele. Ngapha koko, uWenzke uthe intatheli ese-Vancouver isandula ukumxelela ukuba uthathe uhambo oluya rhoqo e-NYC ukuya kubona i-hairylist yakhe, uVal.
Ndamqinisekisa ukuba uyakufumana umntu eVancouver naye amthandayo, utshilo uWenzke.
Ndadibana noCaroline Kraft, umnini we Isaluni yeYure yeGolide eNashville, ngenxa yeengcinga zakhe kule ithiyori yokuncamathisela engalindelekanga. UKraft wahleka. Naye, naye, unabathengi abambalwa abaye bafuduka kwaye basabuyela ukusika kunye nombala xa bebuyela eNashville.
Ndiziva ndinethamsanqa ngenxa yaloo nto, utshilo uKraft, esongeza ukuba ufumanisa ukunyaniseka kwabaxumi bakhe kuthobekile kwaye kuyathandeka.
Izizathu zobungqina bokufumana iinwele ezintsha zinokuziva ngathi kukuzibophelela okukhulu kuba ukuthembana okuninzi kuyabandakanyeka. Ngokucacileyo, iinwele zinokuphinda zidaywe okanye zisikwe kwakhona, kodwa ukuzilungisa kungabiza kakhulu. Kwaye kwimeko yokusikwa okufutshane kakhulu, akukho nto inokuyenza ngaphandle kokulinda. Ke xa abantu befumene umntu olungisa iinwele abathembayo, bayaqina.
Esinye isizathu sokuba uKraft acinge ukuba abathengi banyanisekile? Izinwele zinde. Ukufumana nabani na oziva ukhululekile ukuncokola okanye uhleli uthe cwaka kunye naye kangangeyure okanye nangaphezulu — ngaphandle kokujonga ifowuni yakho — yinto enkulu kule mihla.
Nangona ubudlelwane bemigama emide bunokuzinza ixesha elifutshane, uKraft uthi nabona bathembeki bakude bakude baya kuthi ekugqibeleni bafumane umchebi weenwele.
Ukuba ukule ngxaki, uKraft uneengcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nokufumana i-hairstylist entsha, ethembekileyo:
Ilizwi lomlomo yeyona ndlela inokuthenjwa, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu osele enesangqa sentlalontle xa ushukuma. Ukuba awunabahlobo ukuba ubuze okwangoku, uKraft ucebisa ukuba uye emntwini onesitayile seenwele osithandayo kwaye ubabuze ukuba ngubani umntu olungisa iinwele zabo. Kuyavunywa, oko kuthatha isibindi. Ukuba uziva usoyika kakhulu, i-Instagram yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumana iisalon zalapha. Ngapha koko, uKraft uthi uninzi lwabathengi bakhe abatsha bafumana iyure yeGolide nge-Instagram.
Ukuthatha uxinzelelo, uKraft ukwacebisa ukucwangciswa kothethwano ngaphambi kokubhukisha iinwele. Ukuthatha imizuzu eli-10 ukuya kwengama-15 uxoxa ngento oyifunayo kwizinwele zeenwele kunokunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo. Le ntlanganiso yangaphambi kokunqunyulwa ikunika lula ukuba awuthandi ukuziva kwesalon. Ukuba uthethwano luziva lungeyomfuneko, uKraft ucebisa nokuba ucwangcise nje ukuqhushumba. Inkonzo ihlala ixabisa kuneenwele kwaye ikuvumela ukuba ufumane umbono wokuba ngubani oza kusika kunye nokuhombisa iinwele zakho. Ukubethwa kukuzibophelela okuphantsi, kwakhona: Ukuba awusithandi isitayile ekupheleni kokuqeshwa, ungaya ekhaya kwaye uyihlambe.
Kodwa leliphi elona cebiso lilungileyo likaKraft lokufumana inwele entsha?
Vulela nje utshintsho, utshilo. Umgcini wezinwele wakho omtsha usenokungasebenzisi izixhobo okanye izinto ezifanayo nezakudala. (Uthi unabaxhasi abatsha bezisa imixube yedayi yeenwele kwi-salon yabo yakudala.) Kodwa ekugqibeleni, olunye utshintsho lunokuba lolungileyo. Khumbula, ukuba ungasinda ubaleka kudaka lwendadi ngokuqubha, ngokuqinisekileyo ungakhalipha kumntu ongamaziyo onobuhlobo ophethe isikere nedayi.
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