UAlice, Ngaba ndifanele ndixelele ummelwane wam ukuba ndimrholile?

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Alice othandekayo,



Ndisandul 'ukufudukela kwigumbi elitsha kwinyanga ephelileyo kwaye bendisandula ukudibana nommelwane wam olandelayo kwaye iintlantsi zabhabha. Sithethile ngokwenyani kwezi veki zimbalwa zidlulileyo kwaye sade saxhoma kuphahla lwesakhiwo ngobusuku obunye. Mhlawumbi sele uxelele ukuba ndinengxaki enkulu kuye. Kodwa ukuzibandakanya nommelwane wam kubonakala ngathi ngumbono ombi kuba ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuhlala apha ubuncinci iinyanga ezili-11 (kwaye ngethemba lokuba ndiza kuhlala ixesha elide). Kuthekani ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle kwaye ndibambekile ndimbona epasejini yonke imihla? Kodwa kwangaxeshanye, kukwabonakala ngathi sisimumu ukungayi ngenxa yokuba ndicinga ukuba ungumfo obalaseleyo. Ungathini?



Enkosi,



Ukutyunyuzwa

Ukuchithwa okuthandekayo,



Yenze. Uthando luhlala lungumngcipheko, nokuba imeko ithini. Ndiyakholelwa ngokupheleleyo ekuvumeleni ubomi buxakeke kwakanye kwithuba. Yiya kancinci. Qaphela ukuba ungabi namandla kakhulu kuba ukufutshane. Ukuba iyasebenza kwaye nobabini yenza qala ngokuthandana, zama ukuyigcina ihamba kancinci nangona izakulinga ngokwenene (kwaye kulula) ukubonana umzuzu ngamnye wosuku. Zama ukuseka ixesha kunye nemida yendawo yolwalamano lwakho kwasekuqaleni.

Ewe izinto zinokuhamba ngendlela engathandekiyo kwaye zibe nzima kodwa ukwahlukana kuhlala kunzima. Awufuni kushiyeka uzibuza ukuba uphoswe yintoni. Yiba krwada.

Uthando,



UAlice

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