Umama uphile malunga nesithoba ubomi-ukumkanikazi obuyela ekhaya, inkwenkwezi yebhasikithi, umama omncinci, umgcini womsebenzi ongaqhelekanga, umphathi wengingqi, umakhulu osisigxina, unkosikazi, owayesakuba ngumfazi, kwaye, kutshanje, umninimzi wokuqala ukuba neminyaka engama-60.
Emva kweminyaka yokuphuma emsebenzini, umama wam wehobe wabuyela kanye ekuqaleni kukaFebruwari, eqeshwa njengomthengisi kwivenkile yefenitshala yelizwe kwindawo ye-Oklahoma City metro-kuphela ukuba abekwe emsebenzini ngo-Matshi. Waye waqeshwa kwakhona ngoMeyi, kwaye, njengoko wayenjalo, wakhwela wabangumthengisi wenombolo yesibini kwivenkile yakhe (kwaye, ukunyaniseka, yayisisithunzela kancinci wayengenguye owokuqala).
Isigqubuthelo kunye nokuthengisa ifanitshala kwi iziqu zokoqobo , Omnye wabathengi bakamama-umthengisi wearhente yokuthenga izindlu zefanitshala -mxelele ukuba lixesha elihle lokuthenga indlu ngenxa yenqanaba eliphantsi lenzala.
Nguye owayibeke entlokweni yam ukuba ndingothuka xa ndikulungele ukufumana ikhaya, kwaye wandidibanisa nombolekisi owaziwayo kubantu abanjengam ababeyikhomishini ye-100 yepesenti-ngakumbi abasetyhini, abafazi abangatshatanga , abathenga indlu bebodwa, utshilo uLeAnn Collins (AKA mama wam).
Ke, ukuthanda ukuba nomzi kwaqala. Bendisazi ukuba nangona imarike ezithengisa izindlu nomhlaba Uluhlu lwangoku olusezantsi , imbali yakhe yomsebenzi omfutshane, kunye nenyaniso yokuba kusekho ukungalingani okuninzi kwabasetyhini abangatshatanga abathenga indlu , wayeza kufumana umsebenzi. Lo ngumfazi, owathi, emveni kwakho konke, wayenze iziqwenga zesiko ze-unicorn kuzo zonke iindwendwe zomtshato womtshana wam kunyaka wokuzalwa. Unokwenza nantoni na.
Ukuqonda ii-ins kunye nokuphuma kokuthenga indlu
Nangona umama wayenekhaya ngaphambili notata, eli yayilixesha lokuqala ukuba enze naluphi na uthengiso olukhulu eyedwa, ke kuye kwafuneka afunde yonke ingqokelela yezindlu kunye nokulandelelana kweziganeko ezenzekayo xa uthenga indlu. Ngombulelo, iqela awayehlanganisile-umthengisi wearhente yokuthengisa izindlu nombolekisi, bobabini abasetyhini- babeluncedo kweli sebe.
Bandigcina ndimpompe kwaye ndiqinisekile ngezinto. Kuhle kakhulu kuyo yonke le nkqubo, bandigcina ndazi ngayo yonke into. Bacacise kakhulu kum-izinto endingazaziyo, ezinje ngokufumana uhlolo kunye nokusayina izinto ngombane. Ngaphambi koko, ndayeka [utata wakho] ukuba ayikhathalele yonke into kwaye ndatyikitya amaphepha, utshilo.
Kuba wayesebenza nembali emfutshane yengqesho kunye nomsebenzi osekwe kwikhomishini, igosa lemali mboleko kamama kunye nommeli wearhente yokuthengiswa kwezindlu kuye kwafuneka angenise amaphepha amaninzi kunomntu ophakathi ukubonisa ukuba ungumgqatswa ofanelekileyo wemali mboleko, ebandakanya ubungqina mali kwiakhawunti yomhlala-phantsi athe wafikelela kuyo. Baye bathembela kakhulu kumanqaku akhe aphezulu okuthenga ngetyala ukuba bamtyhalele kwinqanaba lokufumana isiqinisekiso semali mboleko ye-FHA.
Ukubhida-kunye nokubhida kwakhona
Ngexesha le-coronavirus, imarike yokuthengisa izindlu nomhlaba iqinile, abathengi bafuna ukuthenga kuluhlu lweempahla ephantsi ngokwembali , Ukwenza ukhuphiswano lube noburharha ngendlela emangalisayo. Ekuzingeleni indlu kamama, wagqibela ngokufaka isibonelelo kwizindlu ezintandathu, kwaye kwindlu enye, wafaka ibhidi kabini (eyayiyiyo ekugqibeleni wayifumana).
Ngamanye amaxesha bekungaphelanga mizuzu izindlu iarhente yam yokuthengiswa kwezindlu kunye nomhlaba ukuba indibone ukuba iphelile. Ndandinomhlangano wokuya kubona amakhaya amabini ngenye imini, kwaye bendisendleleni eya eyokuqala kodwa umthengisi wam wandixelela ukuba ndijike kuba yayisele iphantsi kwesivumelwano, utshilo.
Umthengisi wearhente yokuthengisa izindlu nomhlaba uwuchwechwele lo mngeni ukuya kubathengi abaninzi basebenzisa inzala ephantsi, kwaye abantu abaninzi bathenga kuluhlu lwamaxabiso kamama, ubukhulu becala olwalunamakhaya okuqala. Nangona wayeqhubeka nokukhutshwa (abanye abathengi bade banikele ngemali epheleleyo), umama wagxininisa. Wayezimisele ukungena kwindlu eyeyakhe kanye emva kwayo yonke le minyaka — nkqu nangexesha lobhubhane wembali kunye nokudodobala koqoqosho.
Ukujongana nemiqobo ye-COVID-19
Ukongeza kumakhaya abhabha aphuma ezishelfini, i-COVID-19 yazisa omnye umqobo kumama kunye nearhente yakhe: Ixesha elinqongopheleyo lokuhamba endlwini, oko kwakuthetha ukuba akaboni wonke umsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe ukupeyinta, ukucoca umsebenzi onzima, kunye nophahla lomsebenzi ekufuneka ugqityiwe. Ngaphezulu kwalonto, wayengafuni ukuchukumisa nantoni na-enje ngeengcango zekhabinethi, amaqhina eminyango, kunye nokutsala iidrowa.
Ukuba ibikumaxesha aqhelekileyo andazi ukuba bendizakubeka isithembiso kweli khaya [ndathenga]. Khange ndibenalo ixesha lokujonga ubumelwane kunye nemeko yekhaya njengoko bendifanele ukuba ndinjalo, kodwa ke kwakhona ndinokukwazi ukuhlawula kakhulu. Kuya kufuneka uzobe umgca kwaye ubone ukuba yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi. Ujonge ukubanakho kwekhaya. Unamathambo alungileyo, kodwa ngumsebenzi omninzi, utshilo.
Ngeyure yeshumi elinanye, elinye ibump endleleni: Umama wam ekugqibeleni wayephumelele ibhidi kwindlu emva kokuba umthengisi wayemalile ngaphambili, kodwa xa wayesiya kusondela, iarhente yakhe yokuthengisa izindlu nomhlaba yehla ne-COVID-19 kwaye walaliswa esibhedlele iveki yonke.
Kwangoko wacela omnye wabantu ababesebenza naye ukuba atyikitye nam okokugqibela kodwa oko kwasidanisa sobabini. Besidlulile kwezi nyanga zintathu sikunye, kwaye akazange abone ukuphela, utshilo.
Kodwa nasemva kwawo onke amakhaya angakhange aphumelele kuwo, yonke imiboniso akazange ayifumane, kwaye engenayo iarhente yakhe ethembekileyo yokuthengisa izindlu nomhlaba ecaleni kwakhe ekusayinweni, ebekhona. house kwaye ndinazo izitshixo. Ebegodukile — kwaye uzenzele yedwa.
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Ukuba umama wam ebedibanise iingcebiso zakhe malunga nokuthenga ikhaya kubafazi abangatshatanga abakwiminyaka ethile, ibiya kuba ligama elinye: unyamezelo. Wayenenjongo ephezulu yokufezekisa le nto ibalulekileyo, ngakumbi kamva ebomini.
Ngamaxesha athile ndiye ndicinge, ‘Wena mfazi usileyo. Uza kubhubha ngaphambi kokuba uyihlawule, ’kodwa ndijonga ngale ndlela: Ndakha ubulungisa ekhayeni. Ngenye imini iya kuba yeyabantwana bam. Yinto ebaluleke kakhulu leyo kunam-ukuba ndiza kubashiyela abantwana bam into, utshilo. Ndixelelwe ngumntu ukuba awudingi ukushiya nantoni na kubantwana bakho-ngumsebenzi [kayise] lowo. Yiyo inkunzi **. Kutheni kulungile ukuba ayenze hayi mna?
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