Ukuziva unostalgic kwabo Iminyaka Emangalisayo vibes yobumelwane, okanye ulwalamano oluhle lwe Abahlobo Iimeko zokuphila ezifanayo? Okanye mhlawumbi awazi ukuba wenzeni ngabo bonke abanye abantu abakwenzeka ukuba bahlale esitratweni sakho.
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Nokuba ujonge ukwenza i-utopia yendawo, uzama ukuphakamisa umdlalo wakho wobumelwane obulungileyo, okanye unethemba nje lokuphanzisa imeko yommelwane wakho, nazi iindlela ezingama-36 zokuba ngummelwane ongcono- kwaye mhlawumbi uncede nokudala uluntu olubandakanyekayo inkqubo.
IiNkundla eziqhelekileyo
- Ngokwenyani zazise, ngakumbi ukuba umtsha ebumelwaneni okanye kwisakhiwo.
- Yiya kwelinye inyathelo ngaphezu kwesingeniso-nika ummelwane wakho inombolo yakho yefowuni. Kwaye, kuba ayizizo zonke iingqondi ekukhumbuleni amagama, bhala igama lakho phantsi ecaleni kwayo.
- Yenza umgudu wokukhumbula amagama akho. Yongeza kuluhlu lwakho lwabafowunelwa, ubhale phantsi kwaye unamathele kwifriji yakho, nokuba kwenzeka ntoni.
- Yazi ubumelwane (okanye ubuncinci umgangatho wakho kwindawo yokuhlala) ngokuzibandakanya nabantu njengoko ubabona bephuma.
- Phuma kwindlela yakho ukuze ube nobuhlobo, nokuba aningabo abahlobo bokwenene. Kwaye khumbula awunyanzelekanga ukuba ube kufutshane nabamelwane bakho ukuze ufudumale okanye ube nobuhlobo.
- Yima ukubulisa xa uwela iindlela.
- Gcina iithebhu kwisandi sendlu yakho, njengokuqhuba abantwana okanye amaqela omdaniso we-impromptu, ngakumbi ukuba uhlala kwindawo ekwabelwana ngayo okanye kufutshane kubamelwane.
- Nika abamelwane bakho iintloko ngeziganeko ezizodwa, njengamatheko anamandla aphezulu.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: UJacqueline Marque)
Zijonge
- Yiba nentsebenzo malunga nezilwanyana zasekhaya- kubandakanya nokukhonkotha kwabo ebusuku, okanye ukukhetha kwabo ukumakisha amahlahla e-rose yommelwane.
- Musa ukuzifihla. Kuyahenda, ngakumbi ngocingo okanye ngomnyango ukukhusela, kodwa ixesha elichithwe kwindawo exhaphake ngakumbi (okanye ubuncinci ebonakalayo) iya kukunceda udilize loo mida.
- Beka ulindelo lwakho ngokufanelekileyo. Abamelwane bakho basenokungabi ngabamelwane njengawe, kwaye kulungile!
- Yiba nolindelo olusengqiqweni kumanqanaba engxolo abo bahlala ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye qaphela ukukhathazeka kwakho-ukuze uqiniseke ukuba awuzenzanga ngabom ukudala ukuphazamiseka okufanayo nakubani na onokuhlala ngaphezulu, ngezantsi, okanye ecaleni kwakho.
- Nyathela ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela. Beka imicimbi ebanzi ekuhlaleni kwikhalenda yakho, emva koko uthathe inxaxheba! Nokuba yiprojekthi yokucoca okanye isiganeko se-HOA, yenza umgudu wokwenza imbonakalo.
- Yilungelelanise, ngakumbi ukuba unikezela ukunceda ukulungelelanisa indawo yokuhlala okanye iprojekthi yendawo yokuhlala okanye umcimbi.
- Gcina izinto eziqhelekileyo. Ukuba uyafikelela, okanye ubamba indibano yobumelwane, gcina ukhetho olusezantsi, ngakumbi ukuba anazani kakuhle!
- Ziqhelise ukulawula isandi esivakalayo xa kufikwa kumculo nakwizixhobo.
Yenza kwabanye
- Yiba novelwano kwinqanaba labo lobomi kunye neshedyuli ehamba nayo! Cinga izinto ezinje ngeentsana ezisandula ukuzalwa kunye neeyure zomsebenzi zokutshintsha ebusuku.
- Nikezela ngokugcina umntwana, ukuhlala-naphantsi, okanye ukugcina nje iso kwikhaya labo ukuba baphume ubusuku bobusuku okanye bakukhombisile kwizicwangciso zabo zeholide.
- Yabelana ngezakhono zakho zomntu ophetheyo, ukuba unayo!
- Yiba ngqo malunga nemibuzo, inkxalabo, okanye naziphi na iingxaki zobumelwane ezivelayo. Abamelwane abangcungcuthekisayo abenzeleli mntu.
- Ukuthatha isisombululo sempikiswano inyathelo elinye ukuya phambili, ukulungisa naziphi na iimbambano ngeziqu-kwaye ungaze kwiindawo zokunxibelelana nabantu njengaseNextdoor.
- Ngaba ujonge umaphuli womkhenkce? Yenza iyadi yakho yangaphambili okanye indlela yokungena imeme kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Mhlawumbi ukhanyise izibane ebusuku, okanye ude uye kuthi ga ngoku ukuseta ilayibrari yokubolekisa yendawo yokuhlala.
- Cwangcisa iminikelo emincinci: Ukutsala inkunkuma yommelwane wakho, okanye ukulahla iphephandaba labo ngaphambili.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: UDiana Liang)
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Fikelele
- Wamkele abamelwane abatsha ebumelwaneni ngokuthi unkqonkqoze emnyango, uzazise, kwaye ubonelele nangokukunceda ngokungena ukuba ulahlekile.
- Thatha ukuphatha, nangasiphi na isizathu (okanye akukho sizathu konke konke). Wonke umntu uyakuthanda ukuphatha.
- Hlala ngaphezulu kombulelo, ukuba ummelwane uzisa ukuphatha okanye ukwenzela into.
- Yabelana ngamakhadi eeholide. Ziyindlela enhle yokufikelela, vumela abamelwane bakho bazi ukuba ucinga ngabo, kwaye ubeke esinye isikhumbuzi samagama abo bonke abantu.
- Ukukhangela izimvo zeqela eliqhelekileyo? Yahlula i-CSA, ngakumbi ukuba uyazi ukuba ngekhe uyenze yonke imveliso ngokwakho.
- Yabelana ngobuchule bakho. Ngaba uyazi zonke iivenkile zokutyela ezikumgangatho oziikhilomitha ezintlanu? Nika isipho solwazi kubamelwane bakho.
- Hlela umbutho wonyaka, okanye kabini ngonyaka kwaye uqiniseke ukuba abamelwane bakho bonke banexesha kunye nomhla olungileyo.
- Misa ubusuku bemovie yobumelwane, ugcwalise ngeprojektha, iphepha elimhlophe, kunye nomnyango wegaraji okanye udonga olungenanto lwendawo eqhelekileyo.
- Yenza indawo yoluntu. Mhlawumbi yigadi encinci ngaphambili, okanye ingqokelela yemidlalo yebhodi ukuba indawo yokuhlala yakho inendawo yokuphumla okanye igumbi lokulala.
- Zama into ethile: I-croquet tournament, okanye umdlalo wegalufa jikelele.
- Yamkela iiholide. Misela i-extravaganza yeqanda le-Ista, okanye isiza-sokuza-sonke-sonke s'more isikhululo kwiHalloween.
- Yenza imikhwa ecacileyo, enokuqikelelwa, njengokuhamba nenja qho ngokuhlwa, kwaye ukulungele ukunqumama xa uncokola nabamelwane obajonga endleleni.
- Yenza uluhlu lwe-imeyile engingqini ukuze ubambe abamelwane kwiminyhadala ezayo, okanye ulungelelanise ukudibana.
