Ingcaphephe yokuhlamba iimpahla isixelela ukuba uhlala ufuna kangakanani ukuhlamba iipilo zakho zokuphosa

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Ukuba uyinto enjengam, emva koko unesibetho sokuphosa umqamelo ebhedini yakho nakwisofa oza kuwanga kuyo. Kodwa ngayo yonke into emanyeneyo yasebusuku yokuqubha, kunokuba nzima ukufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuyeka intanda yakho oyithandayo uyiphose umqamelo kwaye uyiphose kwindawo yokuhlamba ukuze ucoceke kakuhle.



Ngethamsanqa, sinengcali yokuhlamba impahla uJohn Mahdessian, umseki we Madame Paulette ukubiza uncedo. Sacela ingcebiso yakhe malunga nendlela kaninzi-kwaye yeyiphi indlela yokusebenzisa-ukucoca imithwalo yethu esiyithandayo kwaye nantsi into ayithethayo.



Kukangaphi sinyanzeleka ukuba sihlambe imiqamelo yethu?

Uwuhlamba kangaphi umqamelo wakho wokuphosa kuxhomekeke ekubeni unaso na isembozo esisuswayo, utshilo uMahikazikazi. Iimvalo zinokuhlanjwa rhoqo, malunga neeveki ezimbini ukuya kwezine kuxhomekeka ekubeni uzisebenzisa kangaphi.



Ukuzaliswa uqobo, nangona kunjalo, kufuna ukuhlanjwa ubuncinci qho ngenyanga, uyongeza. Ke ukuba isiciko asisuseki, qiniseka ukuba uyakhumbula ukucoca umqamelo wakho wokuphosa inyanga nenyanga okanye njalo, kuxhomekeke ekubeni ungcoliswe kangakanani isiciko.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Arlyn Hernandez)



Ke, ndingabajula nje kwiwasher ukuze bacoce?

Okokuqala, jonga izinto ezisuswayo kwaye uqiniseke ukuba ayifuni ukucoca okwomileyo, utshilo uMahikazikazi. Ukumanzi okucocekileyo okucocekileyo kuphela komqamelo kunokubangela ukuba oku kugxunyekwe kuze kuphulukane nemilo yayo.

zithetha ntoni i-999

Ukuba ukugxotha kuphuma, qala ngokuhlamba ikhava kumjikelo wobulali emanzini abandayo ukufudumala. UMahikazikazi ucebisa ngokuqaqamba kwemibala, ukubanda kwamanzi.

Ukuba uhlamba umqamelo wonke ngaxeshanye, ncamathela kubushushu obufudumeleyo (uya kufuna ukucoceka okucokisekileyo ukubulala iintsholongwane kunye neebhaktiriya) kumjikelo obuthathaka, utshilo. Okanye ukuba umqamelo wakho unento ebuthathaka kakhulu, yihlambe ngesandla emanzini ashushu kwaye uxhome womile.



Kuthekani ngokomisa?

Gwema ubushushu obugqithisileyo xa usomisa iipilo zakho kwaye uzigubungela ngazo zonke iindleko, utshilo uMahgadian. Soloko ubomise ngesibetho esisezantsi kubushushu obuphakathi ukuya kuthi ga ngokuphakathi, kwaye kufanelekile ukufuma okuncinci ukuba isomisi sakho sinesimo saso. Ukuba akunjalo, yikhuphe imizuzu embalwa ngaphambi kokuba yome ngokupheleleyo ukunqanda ukuncipha.

Angel amaphiko emafini

Kananjalo, ukuba uhlambe ngesandla umqamelo wakho kwaye ufuna ukuwuthoba kancinci, vele unamathele kwisitya sokumisa imizuzu embalwa kubushushu obuphakathi-ngelixa kusisixhongo esincinci -ukuwucofa ungawunciphisi, yena uyongeza.

Funda ngokugqithisileyo: Ngaba kukho into enje ngokuba iipilisi ezininzi kakhulu? EKUPHANDENI (Uhlobo)

UCaroline Biggs

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UCaroline ngumbhali ohlala kwisiXeko saseNew York. Xa engagubungeli ubugcisa, izinto zangaphakathi, kunye neendlela zokuphila zabantu abadumileyo, uhlala ethenga iiteki, ukutya iikeyiki, okanye ukuxhoma imibhinqo yakhe yokuhlangula, iDaisy kunye neDaffodil.

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