Uh-oh. Ngaba olu sana lwam lusebenze ngokwenene ukuba lungene njani kwifriji? Sele? Kwaye iikhabhathi? Ixesha lokufumana ubungqina bomntwana ngokuqeshisa kwethu. Kodwa njani, xa kuncinci kakhulu sinokutshintsha? Nantsi eminye yemiceli mngeni esijamelana nayo xa siqasha ubungqina kubantwana, kunye namanyathelo alula esinokuwathatha.
Ucelomngeni # 1: Ukufumana eyona ndawo ikhuselekileyo yosapho lwakho ukuba uyirente
Ukuba unako, qala ekuqaleni. Xa ujonga ipropathi, thetha nomnini-mhlaba ngayo nayiphi na inkxalabo yokhuseleko onayo malunga nendawo. Ngaba umninimzi ubonakala eguquguqukayo ngokubhekisele kwizinto ezijijwayo ezindongeni (njengokumisa ishelfu yeencwadi, umzekelo)? Oku kuyakunceda ukuba ulinganise ukuba ingaba ungabenza ubudlelwane obusebenzayo nalo mntu.
Ngokomhlaba ngokwawo, jonga ezi ngxaki zinokubakho:
- Ngaba kukho iingozi ezinobungozi eziwayo (njengezinyuko ezivulekileyo) ezo ayikwazi ukuvalwa ligeyithi?
- Ngaba izigubungelo zefestile zineentambo ezinde okanye iiluphu ziqhotyoshelwe? Oku kunokuba yingozi yokukhubazeka kwaye kuya kufuneka kutshintshwe, kunqunyulwe, okanye kukhuseleke eludongeni - kungcono ukujonga umninimzi kwangaphambili kunokuba uguquke ube yingxaki kamva.
- Jonga naliphi na ivumba kwipropathi. Ngaba abamelwane bayatshaya, okanye kukho umntu otshayayo kwipropathi ngaphambi kwangoku? Umsi wecuba udityaniswe ne-SIDS kwaye kufuneka uthintelwe.
- Ipeyinti ekhokelayo ikwanenkxalabo nakweyiphi na ipropati eyakhiwe ngaphambi kowe-1978. Kumakhaya amadala, jonga: Ingaba kukho ukucheba okanye ukupeyinta ipeyinti, ngakumbi kwizinyuko kunye neefestile nakwizakhelo zomnyango? Ngolwazi oluthe kratya, Nali iphepha le-EPA kwilothe emakhaya.
Ucelomngeni # 2: Ukuthintela iindawo ezinobungozi kwikhaya lakho
Emva koko ufuna isango lomntwana. Ukuqeshisa, oku kuthetha ukukhangela isango elinyuswe uxinzelelo. Oku kuthetha ukuba iidiski esangweni zijija ngaphandle ukuze zibambe isango eludongeni. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uneseti yezinyuko kwindawo yakho yokurenta, kwaye ufuna isango phezulu kwizinyuko, kufuneka ufumane isinyuko esinyusiweyo (eneneni isikere eludongeni) isango lomntwana, kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba uxinzelelo -isango elinyusiweyo lingatyhalwa. Thetha kumninindlu. Ukuba lo ngumba, cela ukugcwalisa uphinde upeyinte imingxunya eshiywe ngasesangweni, okanye uthathele ingqalelo ukuhlawula ukuze wenze oku. (Isango losana emazantsi eseti yezinyuko, nangona kunjalo, kulungile ukuba unyuswe uxinzelelo.)
Ucelomngeni # 3: Ukuthintela ukufikelela kwiikhabhathi apho zifuneka khona
Iinkqubo ezininzi zokutshixa iminyango yekhabinethi zifuna ukujijwa kwikhabhathi, kodwa ayizizo zonke. Ungazama ezi Izikhiya zemagneti ye-KidCo , enokusetyenziselwa ukunamathela, okanye ezi ntambo zokubambelela zisuka eMunchkin (oku kusebenza kwifriji yam - akusayi kuphinda kunyuke!). Ukuba unethamsanqa elaneleyo lokuphatha iingcango zakho zekhabinethi, zama isitshixo sokuphatha njenge le ivela kwiiKiscords . Ewe kunjalo, eyona ndlela inexabiso eliphantsi kukujonga nje ubeko lokugcina kwakho. Gcina iikhabhathi ezisezantsi endlwini yakho kwiimbiza, iipani kunye nezinto zeplastiki, ngelixa izinto ezaphukayo kunye naziphi na izinto ezinobungozi ezinje ngamayeza kunye neemveliso zokucoca kufuneka zigcinwe kude, kude.
Ingelosi amanani angama-555Umceli mngeni # 4: Ukuthintela abantwana ukuba bangabaleki ngomnyango wangaphambili
Le yingxaki enkulu kule ndlu ndihlala kuyo. Sineziphatho ezingacacanga zokuba akukho siqinisekiso somntwana esibonakala ngathi silungile, kwaye abahlali betshixiwe ukuba bajike ngaphakathi. Oko kuthetha ukuba, nje ukuba umntwana wam oneminyaka emi-3 abe namandla ngokwaneleyo ukuba angavula umnyango, wabalekela epasejini. Emva kokuthetha nomnini-mhlaba, ndafumanisa ukuba ukufakelwa kwetyathanga elongezelelekileyo okanye ukutshixa bekungekho ukhetho, njengoko iingcango zethu zifuna ukuvulwa ngaphandle ngalo lonke ixesha ngezizathu zokhuseleko lomlilo. Ukusombulula le nto, bacebise ukuba kufakwe ialam elula, ukuze bandilumkise ngomnyango ovulekileyo. Into efana nale . Ndiyathemba ukuba iingcango zakho azinazo izibambo ze-bizarro kwaye ungathenga ngokulula ikhava yentsimbi yomnyango kwindawo yakho.
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Umceli mngeni # 5: Ukuthintela ukuwa kweefestile
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa kuhlala kungakhathalelwanga, umba wobungqina babantwana. Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuba isitya somntwana wakho okanye ibhedi ayikho ecaleni kwefestile, kwaye uqwalasele ukuhambisa nayiphi na ifanitshala enokukhwela kuyo, kude nefestile egumbini labo. Endlwini yethu, akukho festile ivulwayo emazantsi ububanzi kunentloko yam encinci (elula, kuba intloko yakhe ikuma-98th percentile). Kumakhaya anosana olunentloko encinci, unokufuna ukuzifumanela umlindi wefestile. Kwakhona, thetha nomnini-mhlaba njengoko kuya kufuneka ukrolwa kwisakhelo sefestile. Kufanelekile kwaye ungasindisa ubomi bomntwana wakho. Ingelosi yokukhokhela yenza abalindi abakhulu, kwaye kukho kwakhona olu khetho lubiza kakhulu kwiKidCo .
Ewe kunjalo, ngala manqaku ambalwa ekufuneka ujonge kuwo xa usana lungqina ubungqina kwikhaya lakho liphela. Ukufumana isikhokelo esibanzi, jonga kolu luhlu lokutshekisha kwi-Babycenter, malunga nokwenza ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho azalwe , phambi kokuba umntwana wakho aqale ukukhasa , kunye iintsana nangaphaya .
Kwaye ukuba usifumene isisombululo esifanelekileyo kwenye yezi ngxaki zokuqeshisa ubungqina bentsana, qiniseka ukwabelana nabanye bethu apha ngezantsi!
-Uhlengahlengiso olwenziwe kwisithuba esapapashwa okokuqala ngoMatshi 26, 2013-DF
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