Ndiyakuvuma. Ndiyincwadi yokuzinceda junkie. Kudala ndizifunda iminyaka kwaye ubuncinci ndinazo iincwadi zokukhulisa zobuqu kum zokufunda uluhlu nangaliphi na ixesha. Andikwazi ukufumana ngokwaneleyo kubo. Ziyakhuthaza, ziyakhuthaza kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, zikhona ukukunceda ubuphucule ubomi bakho. Yintoni ongayithandiyo?
Apha, ndibelana ngeendlela ezimbalwa endizithandayo zokufunda ezithe zanegalelo ebomini bam ngendlela ephambili. Nokuba awuzange ufunde incwadi yokuzinceda ngaphambili okanye uyi-junkie eyi-bonafide njengam, ndiyakuthembisa kukho incwadi enencindi kolu luhlu eya kuguqula ubomi bakho.
Imfihlelo , nguRhonda Byrne
Ndiqinisekile ukuba ukhe weva ngale ncwadi ithengwa kakhulu amaxesha asisigidi ngaphambili, kodwa andikwazi hayi yifake. Imfihlo yayihlobo lwesiyobisi sam esangweni lokuzinceda / indawo yophuhliso lomntu. Yandazisa kumthetho wokutsala kwaye yandifundisa ukuba zinamandla kangakanani iingcinga zethu ekudaleni inyani yethu. Obu buchule bubonakala ngathi bulula kakhulu-uyawuchaza umnqweno wakho kwindalo iphela kwaye uyakholelwa ukuba sele unayo-kodwa iyandisebenzela.
Amandla esiqhelo , NguCharles Duhigg
Isitshixo sokutshintsha ubomi bakho kukutshintsha imikhwa yakho kwaye Amandla esiqhelo enza umsebenzi olula womsebenzi obonakala ungenakwenzeka. Ipakishwe ngophando lwenzululwazi, le ncwadi icacisa indlela imikhwa esebenza ngayo kwaye-okona kubaluleke kakhulu-ukuba ungayitshintsha njani ukuze ubuphucule ubomi bakho ngonaphakade. Ndiyabhengeza esi sihloko sikhethekileyo ngokundinceda ndikhabe umkhwa wokusela iPepsi mihla le bendizama ukuyeka iminyaka.
Ungabuphilisa Ubomi Bakho , nguLouise Hay
ULouise Hay Ungabaphilisa Ubomi Bakho ayisiyoncwadi nje, ngamava. I-hay (aka ukumkanikazi wokuvuma) ukholelwa ukuba iipateni zakho zengqondo zenza isifo emzimbeni kwaye ngokutshintsha ezo patheni zibi ungaphilisa nantoni na. Nokuba unengxaki yobuhlungu obuncinci okanye ukubandezeleka okunzulu kunye nobunzima, iHay ikunceda ukuba uye ezantsi kwingcambu kwaye ufefe iziqinisekiso ezilungileyo kuyo yonke loo nto iya kunceda ukubuyisela iingcinga ezingathandekiyo ngokuzithanda okucocekileyo.
Musa ukubila izinto ezincinci NguRichard Carlson
Nangona ndifundile Musa ukubila izinto ezincinci phantse kwiminyaka elishumi eyadlulayo kwaye andisayikhumbuli kakhulu, sinye isixhobo esisencwadini endisisebenzisa yonke imihla… (Uyakuyeka xa uqhuba), endaweni yokuba usebenze ngaphezulu uzibuze: Ngaba oku kuya kuba yinto kunyaka ukusukela ngoku? Impendulo iya kuba njalo hayi . Ukuzibuza lo mbuzo ulula ngokwenene kubeka izinto ngendlela kwaye kwenza kube lula ukuyeka nje izinto ezincinci zihambe.
Amandla ngoku , Ngu-Eckhart Tolle
Enkosi kumyalezo wayo onamandla kunye notshintsha ubomi, le ncwadi i-Oprah-evunyiweyo ilifanele ixesha lotyalo-mali. Isithandi sobulumko uEckhart Tolle ukholelwa ekubeni isitshixo solonwabo kukuphila ngoku. Xa sihlala kwixesha elidlulileyo okanye sikhathazekile ngekamva, siyawutyeshela umzuzu wangoku, kuko konke esinako ngokwenene.
Ngaba ungumfundi wokuzinceda? Naziphi na ezinye iingcebiso kum?
