Ukuhlala ngoxolo nemvisiswano, udinga imida. Uyayazi le nto. Umntu ohlala naye uyayazi le nto. Ummelwane wakho olandelayo ocela ukubuza ukuba ungankcenkceshela izityalo zakhe, uhambe nenja yakhe, kwaye utyikityele iipakeji zakhe unokusebenzisa oku.
Kodwa xa kuziwa ekumiseleni imida elungileyo kwilizwe eliqeshisayo, wena nyani Kuya kufuneka ube nezindawo eziqinileyo nomnini-mhlaba - okanye ubeke emngciphekweni ngokubonisa ongamenywanga rhoqo.
Ngelixa imithetho yokuqeshisa yahluka ngurhulumente, nazi izinto ezintlanu umnini-mhlaba akufuneki abuze kuwe, ngokwegqwetha kunye nengcali kulawulo lwepropathi bonke abanolwazi kwesi sihloko.
1. ‘Suka ngoko nangoko.’
Umnini-mhlaba akufuneki alindele ukuba abaqeshi bahambe ngaphandle kwesaziso esifanelekileyo, utshilo uCharley Moore, igqwetha kwaye Ummeli weRocket CEO. Isaziso sokuphuma kunye nemithetho yokupheliswa kwerenti iyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo ohlala kuyo, kodwa umnini-mhlaba uyafuneka ukuba akunike isaziso naphi na kwiiveki ezimbalwa ukuya kwiinyanga ezimbalwa, kuxhomekeke kwimeko. Ukugxothwa, unokufumana kuphela iintsuku ezimbalwa ukuya kwiiveki ezimbalwa, kodwa uninzi lwamazwe ludinga unothimba ukuba anikezele ngesaziso sokugqibela okanye ukuba eso saziso sithunyelwe ngeposi.
Umnini-mhlaba oxelela umqeshi ukuba 'aphume' ayisosaziso saneleyo phantsi kwawo nawuphina umthetho welizwe, utshilo uMoren.
2. ‘Musa ukuceba ukuba nabantwana ukuba uhlala apha.’
Ubume obuqhelekileyo kudidi olukhuselweyo kwi UMthetho wezeZindlu oLungileyo , uyacacisa UJeremy Hudia, igqwetha elinephepha-mvume eOhio elinamava kumnini-mhlaba nakwimiba yokuqesha. Oko kuthetha ukuba abanini mhlaba - abanye babo banexhala lokuba abantwana bangxola okanye bangxola - abanakucalucalula ngokusekwe ekubeni unabo na abantwana okanye uceba ukwenza ikamva. Eminye imibuzo engaphandle kwemida engavumelekanga nguMthetho weZindlu oLungileyo inokuba ecaleni kwendlela, Uyaphi ecaweni? okanye luvelaphi usapho lwakho?
3. ‘Zilungise ngokwakho.’
Nguwo akukho mthethweni kubanini-mhlaba ukubuza abaqeshi babo ukuba benze ulungiso olukhulu kwipropathi, njengokulungisa amanyathelo, iitsimbi zokubamba okanye iveranda.
Okokuqala, umqeshi usenokungabinabo ubuchule bokwenza umsebenzi ofanelekileyo, kwaye okwesibini, uxanduva lomnini-ndlu lonyuka ngokubonakalayo ukuba unomntu ongenagunya wenza umsebenzi onokubangela ukwenzakala kumqeshi okanye kwindwendwe, utshilo uRobert L. Cain, ingcali kulawulo lwepropathi kunye nombhali we Yirente.
Kuxhomekeke kwimithetho yoqeshiso kunye nomthetho wokuqesha indawo, umnini-mhlaba unokucelwa ukuba agqibe ukulungiswa okuncinci kuwe. Ukuba abanoxanduva kwaye awuziva ukuba unazo izakhono zokuwugqiba umsebenzi okanye iimali zokuqesha ingcali, uKayin uthi ukuzama ukuxelela umninindlu ukuba awunabuchule bokwenza lo msebenzi ngokukhuselekileyo okanye ngokuchanekileyo.
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4. ‘Ndingazigcina izixhobo zam kwigaraji?’
Kuya kufuneka ube nolawulo olulodwa lwezakhiwo ezichazwe kwisivumelwano sokuqeshisa, uyacacisa UMateyu J. Kidd , Igqwetha laseBoston, elijongana neengxabano zomqeshisi. Oko kuthetha ukuba umnini-mhlaba akufuneki azame ukugcina indawo yokugcina yakho okanye igaraji okanye indawo yokugcina ukugcina izixhobo okanye ezinye izinto zobuqu ngaphandle kokuba kuchaziwe kuqeshiso, utshilo uKidd.
5. 'Ndiza kudlula xa ndifuna kuba yeyam ipropati.'
Abanini bezindlu abanakho ukufikelela okungenamda kwizakhiwo abaziqeshisayo, utshilo u-Hudia. Kodwa ngokuthe ngqo ukufikelela kwabo kuyahluka ngokwamazwe. (Nantsi itshathi elungileyo echaza imithetho yelizwe njengoko inxulumene nokufikelela komnini-ndawo kwiipropathi zokurenta). Umnini-mhlaba angazama ukungena kuloo ndawo ukuze enze isondlo okanye enze uhlolo olusemthethweni, utshilo uHudia. Kodwa, ngokubanzi, ukungena ngokungahleliwe akukho hayi. Kananjalo, isivumelwano sakho soqeshiso sinokuba nezikhokelo zokuba kwamkelekile nini kumnini-mhlaba ukuba angene kwipropathi yakho, kubandakanya nokuba kufuneka bakunike saziso esingakanani.
Eyona nto iphambili: Ngelixa umnini-mhlaba engumnini wepropathi, uhlawula ukuyirenta kwaye kubalulekile ukuba wazi amalungelo akho erente kwaye uyiqinisekise.
