Ixesha lomlilo liyaqhubeka, kwaye bendiya kuba ndiyaxoka ukuba bendinokukuxelela ukuba andikuthandi ukuzisonga ecaleni komlilo oshushu oshushu ekhayeni lam. Nangona ndingenayo indawo yokubasa umlilo naphi na apho bendihlala khona ukusukela kwindlu endikhulele kuyo, iinkumbulo zam ngayo zibeka ixesha elininzi ebuntwaneni bam. Ndandihlala ngomqolo kwiingcango zeglasi de ndingabinako ukuyithatha kwakhona. Izinja zihlala zikhefuzela embindini wegumbi lokuhlala ngaphambi kokuba ndinikezele.
Ithetha ntoni i-333
Ndisoloko ndifuna indawo yokubasa umlilo njengomntu omdala, kodwa ayizange ibekho nakweyiphi na indawo endiyiqeshileyo. Ngoku ndihlala kwikhaya lokuqala endakhe ndaliphatha e-Portland, e-Oregon, kwaye bendinemincili yokuba ibingena ndawo inye kuphela, kodwa zimbini (!) Indawo zokucima umlilo. Ngena : umbuzo wokusebenza. Ndithenge indlu enezicima mlilo, kodwa ndingayisebenzisa?
Impendulo nguewe nohayi. Umgangatho ongaphantsi unendawo yokubasa igesi eyakhelwe kuyo sele ikho, kwaye ikrwada kwaye ikrokrela njengokuba oko kuthintela kungabonakala ngamanye amaxesha, sele ikho ngokutyhala kweqhosha kwaye andizukuthi hayi kuloo nto. Iziko lomlilo elingasentla alikaze lisetyenziswe okoko le ndlu yakhiwa ngo-1976. Ukuyikhanyisa ngombala oluhlaza ukuze isetyenziswe kungadinga ukuhlolwa nokutshayelwa nto leyo eyayiza kundibiza amakhulu amawaka eedola. Akuzange kube ngumba ongxamisekileyo kwaye ndinezinto ezininzi ndingathanda ukuchitha imali yam yolonwabo kuyo (njengohambo oluninzi lokuya ezivenkileni ukunika le ndlu ubuncwane obufunyenwe nzima kunye neepetali).
Ke into endiyenzileyo ngendawo yomlilo ephezulu yinto eyiliweyo-f0rward abantu baseNew York bandifundise ukuba ndiyenze: Ndiyiguqule yangumda wekhandlela-iziko elingenabungozi, ukuba uyafuna. Abahlali be-NYC bahlala bezifumana ezindlini ezindala kwaye zicandwe ngokutsha zaza zabekwa ngokutsha, zakhiwa phezu, ngaphezulu, ngaphantsi, kwaye zandiswa. Oku kuhlala kuthetha ukuba iindawo ezibonakalayo azicocwanga ukuba zisetyenziswe. Nangona kunjalo, kungenxa yezi ndlu zedolophu-ezazikhangeleka ngqo kwiimagazini- apho ndafunda khona eliqhinga lokusebenzisa indawo yakho yomlilo (esebenzayo okanye hayi) yamakhandlela endaweni yoko.
Ewe indawo yokubasa umlilo iyathandeka, kwaye kunjalo ijongeka intle, nayo. Kodwa ayisoloko iyenzeka okanye isebenziseka kwaye ingaphaya koko, isihloko samakhandlela siyabukeka (kwaye siyathandana!) Nokubona ngokunjalo. Nazi izizathu ezimbalwa ezifanelekileyo zokuba uzame.
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Kutheni ndiqhubeka ndibona u-11: 11
1. Akukho mthi uyimfuneko
Ewe, ndiyazi ukuba le yinxalenye yomtsalane, kodwa ikwayintlungu. Ukuba ufuna ubusuku obucocekileyo obuhamba nomlilo kodwa ungenayo iinkuni ngeenxa zonke, uphume ngethamsanqa ngendawo yokubasa umlilo yesiqhelo. Kwaye ukuba unayo iinkuni, kuya kufuneka ujongane nokusika, ukusasaza, ukukhanyisa, kunye nomdaka ongaka.
2. Amakhandlela awanosizi
Kwinqaku lomdaka: Ngaba ukhe wazibala izinto ngomgxobhozo? Ngenxa yokuba yingxaki esemthethweni. Khange ndilikhuhle lonke eli xesha lokugcina, imali, kunye nejusi yobuchopho yokuyila ekwenzeni le ndlu izive imnandi ngokwenyani ukuze ndifumane umsizi emsebenzini wepeyinti wam omtsha.
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3. Ukuncitshiswa komngcipheko womlilo
Oku kuya kuhamba ngaphandle kokuthetha, kodwa umlilo unemingcipheko yawo. Kwaye ngelixa amakhandlela engomnye woonobangela abaphambili bemililo yendlu, amakhandlela ahlala ngaphakathi kweziko akhuseleke ngakumbi kunamakhandlela abekwe ngokungahleliyo kulo lonke ikhaya. Ukubeka amakhandlela kwiziphatho eziqinileyo kwindawo yokucoca umlilo yindawo ekhuselekileyo yokukhanyisa ikhaya lakho kunokuba amakhandlela asasazeke kuyo yonke indlu enokuwiswa okanye ulibale Umbutho weSizwe woKhuseleko loMlilo uphawule nge-imeyile.
4. Zimbalwa iingozi zomsi
Apho kukho umlilo ongakumbi, kukho umsi ongakumbi, kwaye umsi awulungelanga thina. Umsi womthi uqulethe amasuntswana kunye neegesi ezingalunganga kwimiphunga yethu okanye kumgangatho womoya oqhelekileyo ngaphakathi. Jonga eli qhekeza ku Ikliniki yaseCleveland ukufunda ngakumbi.
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5. Ukhetho olwahlukeneyo lokuhombisa
Okokugqibela, masithethe ngokuhombisa. Indawo yokubasa enamakhandlela ikunika ithuba lokutshintsha rhoqo ukuhombisa kwakho ukuba uyafuna. I-Taper, intsika, ukukhanya kweti kunye nezinye iintlobo zekhandlela ziyancedisana. Ukuba uthatha indlela yam, ungadibanisa abaphathi bekhandlela beediliya, iipleyiti, iitreyi, kwaye mhlawumbi iPalo Santo kunye nesilumko somlinganiso olungileyo.
