Iintsapho ziza kuzo zonke iimilo kunye nobukhulu, kwaye akufuneki nokuba ibengulowo wazalwa unabo. Ndiyakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ungakhetha ukuba ngubani obiza usapho. Ukuba uhlobo lwakho losapho lubandakanya umntwana omnye okanye nangaphezulu, uyazi ukuba ukufaka wonke umntu kwikhaya elincinci ngumceli mngeni othile. Kulenyanga kuNyango lweZindlu, ndizakubonisa nje-iintsapho zifumana iindlela ezikrelekrele, ezintle, nezikhuthazayo zokucinezela wonke umntu (nayo yonke into) kwindawo encinci. Ukusuka kwii-RV ukuya kumakhaya amancinci ukuya kumagumbi amancinci, uya kuba nakho ukubona ukuba iintsapho zokwenyani zilungelelanisa njani, zihombise kwaye zihlala kumakhaya obomi bokwenyani. Uyakuthi mhlawumbi ufumane ezinye izimvo zokuququzelela ikhaya losapho lwakho. Phezulu kuqala lusapho lwabane abebehlala kwi Ibhasi yesikolo eguqulweyo egama linguSuku oluthile unyaka.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso Ityala: UJennifer Bateman WAKHO @somedaythebus Igumbi lethu lokuhlala lisemva kwebhasi. Isingqengqelo sisongelwe ebhedini enkulu ngobukhulu ebusuku. '
Zisixhenxe iintsuku evekini, kwaye ngenye imini akukho namnye kubo owakhe wafunda ibhodi yoonobumba abaxhonywe ekhitshini langalolunye usuku ibhasi, elilikhaya UJennifer Bateman , umfazi wakhe, UKaitlin Porter , Kunye nabantwana babo ababini, iCanyon (iminyaka eli-14) kunye ne-Oakland (iminyaka emi-4). Emva kokwehla kwikhaya elizii-4,000-square-foot home, ngoku babelana ngokuguqulwa kwebhasi yesikolo esizi-square-foot ezili-170 (okanye skoolie). Kukho iibhedi ezintathu-oomama balala kwindawo esongwayo, ibhedi engangendlovukazi kwaye kukho iibhedi ezimbini zebhedi zabantwana.
Khawusixelele malunga nokuba ulikhethe njani eli khaya kwaye kutheni ulisebenzela usapho lwakho: Ngaphambi kokuba sibethe indlela, sasikhokelela kubomi obonwabisayo nobunethezekile kwikhaya elizii-square ezingama-4,000 eAtlanta. Besinqwenela ukuthatha abantwana bethu kwi-adventure enkulu, ukunciphisa abasebenzi, kwaye sinike amandla ngakumbi kunye nengqwalaselo kuluhlu lwethu lwamabhakethi. Siyithande imbono yendlu encinci enamavili kwaye sifuna indawo encinci enomdla, ekhaya. Sikwafuna indawo eza kusivumela ukuba siye naphi na kugxininiso ekuchitheni ixesha lethu elininzi ngaphandle. Sikhethe ibhasi yesikolo endaweni yeRV kuba, xa safunda nge-skoolie (aka eguqulweyo ibhasi yesikolo) yoluntu, saziva ngathi sinokuzihambelana namabali kunye namava eentsapho zeebhasi. Siphinde sayithanda ingcinga yebhasi kuba iyabukeka, iyathandeka, ifikeleleka ngakumbi, kwaye sinokuba nefuthe kuyo yonke imiba yoyilo.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso Ityala: UAlison Hatch Photography Uninzi lwemigqomo ethambileyo (efana nale iingobozi zentambo ezihonjisiweyo ukusuka kuThagethi) yandisa ukugcinwa kwethala elincinci leekhabhi. 'Zonke iimpahla zabantwana bethu kunye neetawuli ezongezelelweyo kunye namashiti alunge ngokufanelekileyo emigqomeni eshelfini.' Ibhedi engwevu kwebhedi caddy (efanayo nale ingwevu engwevu isuka eAmazon) yindlela elula yokubamba ukwenza ugcino. Isibuko kunye noluhlu lwamahhuku aseludongeni ( amagwegwe efanayo inokufumaneka kwiAmazon) isebenzisa udonga oluncinci. Ishelufu encinci enentambo efakwe emazantsi enye yeebhedi zebhedi yenza indawo yencwadi (le shelufu yeencwadi isuka Pottery Barn yaBantwana Iyafana).
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Ngaba ikhona into eyahlukileyo ekhayeni lakho okanye kwindlela oyisebenzisa ngayo? Asizizo iibhasi zesikolo zokuqala eziguqulweyo, kodwa singomnye wabambalwa abakhethe ukupeyinta ibhasi yethu epinki. Umbala ngokuqinisekileyo ukoluka-abanye abantu abayithandi, kodwa abanye bayayithanda kwaye basimise kwisikhululo segesi basixelele ukuba abazukulwana babo bafuna ibhasi epinki xa bekhulile. Kunyaka kamva, kwaye sisaxhalabele lo mbala.
Elinye inqaku lebhasi yethu eyahlukileyo yindawo yokuhlala emoto ngasemva. Yongeza indawo enkulu kwindawo yethu yokuhlala xa siyibeka phantsi kwaye xa sikulungele ukuhamba, siyayinyusa. Sithanda nokukhetha ubugcisa bendawo obumele iindawo esiye saya kuzo. Umzekelo, sathenga ukakayi olunobuhlalu ngumculi onetalente womthonyama eMzantsi Dakota.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso Ityala: UJennifer Bateman WAKHO @somedaythebus
Nguwuphi owona mceli mngeni kuye kwafuneka woyise? Xa uhlala ebhasini, uhlala ngaphandle kwaye ulala nje ngaphakathi. Xa imozulu imbi okanye kuyabanda ngaphandle, kwenza ukuhlala kwindawo encinci kube nzima ngakumbi.
Owona mceli mngeni mkhulu yayikukuwenza i-170 yeenyawo zenyawo ziziva zikhulu ngokwaneleyo kusapho lwabane. Sikhethe ibhasi yokukhubazeka ukuze sibenomnyango owongezelelweyo esinokuwuvula ecaleni kwaye songeze indawo yomgangatho onokugoba phantsi, ukuze ukwazi ukuphuma ngasemva. Xa umgangatho uphantsi kwaye zonke iingcango zivulekile, kuvakala ngathi yeyona nto iphambili yokuphila ngaphakathi nangaphandle. Omnye umceli mngeni onxulumene noko awunayo itafile yegumbi lokutyela. Siyisombulule le nto ngeetreyi zeTV eziphathwayo, kodwa zinokuxinana ngenene ukuba kufuneka sitye isidlo sangokuhlwa ngaphakathi ngenxa yemozulu.
Yintoni indawo yakho encinci yokwandisa kunye / okanye yokulungiselela iingcebiso? Ngamnye wabantwana bethu unomgqomo wezinto zokudlala, kwaye sinomgaqo-nkqubo o-1-in-1 ongqongqo. Banokufumana iithoyi ezintsha kodwa emva koko kukho into ekufuneka ihambile. Uninzi lwezinto zokudlala esinazo zabantwana bethu eneneni zezobugcisa kunye nezinto zobugcisa kunye nokwenza izinto, ezinje ngepeyinti, izicoci zombhobho, umsonto, kunye nepopsicle stick. Kukusetyenziswa okungcono kwendawo kuba inokusetyenziswa ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye ikhuthaza ukucinga.
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Siphinde sazenzela iibhedi zabo zebhedi. Songeze izibane zentsomi, izilwanyana ezihlohliweyo, kunye neishelufa zeencwadi kwibhedi yentombazana yethu. Unyana wethu unesibane esikhanyayo kunye nedisco ebhedini yakhe.
Ngaba unayo nayiphi na ingcebiso yokukhulisa usapho kwindawo encinci? Ukuphila okuncinci kuthetha ukuhlala ngokudibeneyo. Kusinyanzele ukuba siphinde sihlolisise iinkqubo kunye nolwakhiwo, kwaye isinike nethuba lokuyila iindlela ezintsha zokuba kunye. Indawo yokucima umlilo iye yaba yindawo yethu yokuhlala entsha kunye nesiko lethu ebusuku. Ukunyuka intaba yindlela yethu entsha yangoMgqibelo. Kunyaka omnye, sihleli ngakwitafile enye (yepikniki) sisitya kunye kunokuba besisenza kwiminyaka esibhozo edlulileyo.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso Ityala: UJennifer Bateman WAKHO @somedaythebus Ikhitshi lethu lineenoksi ezincinci zokubamba iimagi zethu kunye neziqholo ngokukhuselekileyo ngelixa siqhuba.
Xa ulahla lonke ulwakhiwo kunye neendlela eziqhelekileyo ezichaza ubomi bakho, idala inkululeko engakumbi kwindlela onokuba ngumzali ngayo kubantwana bakho. Saqhawula i-band-aid ngezinto ezazisenza sonwabe, njengegumbi elingaphantsi eligcwele iithoyi kunye nesakhiwo esiqhelekileyo sesikolo. Besinexhala ngotshintsho, kodwa abantwana sele beziqhelile. Sibonile umntwana wethu oneminyaka emi-4 ubudala ukuba ayile ngakumbi. Usebenza kunye nezinto anazo kwaye uhlala esenza izinto ezintsha zokudlala kunye nezixhobo.
Hlala ubukele yonke inyanga kaNovemba njengoko ndibonisa ezinye iintsapho zifumana iindlela ezikrelekrele, ezintle, nezikhuthazayo zokucinezela wonke umntu (nayo yonke into) kwindawo encinci. Kwaye ukufumana ezinye izimvo kunye nezixhobo zokwenza ubomi nabantwana bube lula ngoku, bhalisela Cubby, ukufunda kwakho veki nganye kubalulekile ekhaya, ukutya, kunye nokudlala kwiintsapho .
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