Indlu yam ayikhange ikhangeleke ngcono kunakwisithathu sokukhulelwa kwam. Iikhabhathi zam zasekhitshini kunye negumbi lokulala elaliququzelelwe, iikhaphethi kunye neekhawuntari zam zicocekile, kwaye neendawo endandihlala kuzo zazihonjisiwe kunye neziqwenga zamva nje zenkulungwane phakathi kweThagethi kunye ne-CB2. Njengokuba ndandicoca nzulu kwaye ndinyanzela ikhaya lam ngaphambi kokufika kosana, ndandisazi kakuhle ukuba kwenzeka ntoni: ndandizalela.
(Kwaye emva koko kwafika usana, kwaye zonke izinto zokubheja zekhaya elicocekileyo okanye eliyilwe kakuhle zazicinyiwe. Kodwa lelo libali lelinye inqaku.)
Yintoni indlela yokuziphatha kweNesting?
Into yokuzalela, okanye ukugcinwa ngokungakhathali kwiiveki zokugqibela zokukhulelwa, sisihloko esixoxwa ngokubanzi kubazali abatsha. Izilwanyana ezifana namandla ethu okugcina indlu kunye nenqanaba likaJoanna-Gaines kumdlalo wethu wePinterest, ngokwemvelo sifuna iindawo zethu zokuhlala zijongeka kwaye zivakale ngathi zifikile ekhaya xa abantwana bethu befika.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Emma Fiala)
Okothusayo, nangona kunjalo, ndiye ndazibona ndenza into efanayo ngamanye amaxesha otshintsho ebomini bam. Iqhutywa ngumnqweno wokwenza ikhaya apho ndiziva ndikhuselekile emzimbeni nasemphefumlweni, ndihlala ndiphinde ndalungisa, ndenza ngokutsha izinto ngokutsha, kwaye ndilungelelanisa ikhaya lam ngamanye amaxesha oxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo, njengaxa unyana wam wayeqala ukhathalelo lwemini okokuqala okanye xa i-akhawunti yam yebhanki Ibhalansi yayihamba ngengozi kufutshane ne-zero (linda, ekusenokwenzeka ukuba yayilixesha elifanayo).
Indlu emalunga nokuthatha uLawulo
Ngelixa i-caricature yeeveki ezingama-38 zomntu okhulelweyo ekhuhla itayile yokuhlambela ezandleni zabo nasemadolweni (okanye umzali oxhalabileyo ecoca iimpahla zabantwana) kubonakala ngathi akunangqondo, kukho isizathu sengqondo sokutsala kwethu kwendalo - kwaye inento yokwenza nayo ulawulo, okanye ubuncwane bayo. Ngoku ka inqaku kwiphephancwadi i-Evolution kunye nokuziphatha koLuntu, idatha ye-anthropological isibonisa ukuba ukulawula indawo esingqongileyo yeyona nto iphambili ekulungiseleleni ukuzala. Ukuba ngumzali lixesha eligutyungelwe kukungaqiniseki, kwaye ukuba singazenzela izinto ezandleni zethu-nayiphi na imicimbi konke konke-sinokuziva sikhululekile. Ukulungiselela ngakumbi into esiyaziyo ukuba asinakho ukuyilungiselela ngokwaneleyo.
Ingelosi inombolo 1010 intsingiselo
Umgaqo ofanayo unokuhlala uyinyani ngamanye amaxesha sifuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo ukufumana unyawo lwethu. USherrie Campbell, u-Ph.D , Isayikholojisti enelayisensi kunye nombhali we Ukulingana: Impumelelo yokuPhila ubomi obucebileyo ngokweemvakalelo Utshilo ukuba uhlala ebona ukulungiswa kwakhona kwenzeka emva kokuqhekeka okanye ngexesha lobunzima kubuhlobo, emva kokubhubha kothandekayo, okanye, ngokucacileyo, emva kohambo. Ukuphinda uhlengahlengise igumbi (okanye onke amagumbi! ) yinxalenye eqhelekileyo yokugcina ikhaya, kodwa xa sikwinguqu okanye kwimeko yeengxaki, indawo ehlelwe ngokutsha inokuziva ngathi bubomi obuhlelwe ngokutsha.
Ukuphinda uhlengahlengise kwakhona kunamandla okusenza sizive ngathi senze amandla amatsha, i-vibe entsha, ubomi obutsha, utshilo uGqirha Campbell. Utshintsho kwindalo esingqongileyo lunokulunga emphefumlweni — zisenza sonwabe xa sifika ekhaya kwaye sizonwabele kwindawo yethu emnandi, entsha.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Liz Calka)
Kwaye mhlawumbi ngoxinzelelo, nako
Umnqweno wokuzalela ungabonakala kwinqanaba elincinci, elisebenzayo. Ngaba ukhe waqaphela ukuba, phantsi koxinzelelo, ngequbuliso ufuna ukucoca yonke indlu yakho? (Lelinye icala lokuxhalaba, ndiyaqikelela.) Kukho ubungqina besayensi bokunxibelelana phakathi koxinzelelo kunye nokuziqhelanisa, okanye ukuphindaphinda, isimilo esiphindaphindayo njengokuhlamba izitya okanye izixhobo zokubala. Isifundo esinye sika-2015 kwiphephancwadi i-Biology yangoku ibonisa ukuba amasiko afana nokucoca kunye nokulungiselela anokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokujongana noxinzelelo-kwaye, okumangalisayo kukuba, isifundo sifumanise ukuba abantu abanamanqanaba aphezulu oxinzelelo benza ukunyakaza okungqongqo nokuphindaphindeka kwezandla, abathi oososayensi bacinga ukuba sisicwangciso sokulwa.
Kwezinye iintlobo zobuntu kunye neenkcubeko, ukuhlahlela kwakhona nokuphinda uhlengahlengiso yindlela yesiqhelo yokugcina indawo ezolileyo, enokuphila-ngumgaqo wonke UFeng Shui Inkqubo yesiTshayina yokudala imvisiswano phakathi kwabantu kunye neendawo abahlala kuzo. Ngelixa kungekho bungqina bokwenyani bokuba ukuhambisa ibhedi yakho kwelinye icala legumbi kunokuphucula impilo yakho, iingcali (kunye neengxelo ezininzi) zithi ukuthobela imithetho yendawo kunokudala imeko evisisanayo, eyonwabisayo kunye nobomi.
Ke nokuba unomntwana apha endleleni, uziva uxinezelekile, okanye ufuna nje isizathu sokutyala imali kuyo yonke i-Hearth & Hand line kwiThagethi, qhubeka kwaye uzonwabise ngendlwane yakho. Ufanelekile ukuba uzive usekhaya endlwini yakho-kwaye ukugcinwa kwendlu kungaphezulu kobugcisa kunenzululwazi, kunjalo.
