'JOLIE LAIDE' KUNYE NEFRENTSHI YEZOBUGCISA YOKUXABISA UKUNGAFEZEKI

Kuyahlekisa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha ibinzana liyitshintsha njani intsingiselo yalo njengoko utshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo. Oko kukuthi, ingcaciso kunye nokubaluleka kwayo kuhlala kunjalo kwaye ngequbuliso uyakuqonda oko nguwe lowo uye wayiqonda ngcono. Injalo imeko yakutshanje xa bendikhunjuzwa ngegama lesiFrentshi endilifundileyo kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndiqonda kwakudala: jolie laide. It technical technic translate to the clunky pretty-ugly but, in fact, is more about the elegance and maturity that takes to find beauty in the unique.

Kulula ukuthanda izinto ezintle; zikhululekile nje ukuba zijongwe. Eyona nto inzima ngakumbi, kodwa eyanelisa ngakumbi, lulonwabo olubangelwa kukuxabisa into eyahluke ngokwenene.

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Ngethuku sele siyiqonda le nto. Apha kule ndawo nkqu, sikunika amathuba amaninzi okuzinkcinkca kumagumbi amahle-ungaskrola usiya kwelinye uye kwiiyure iiyure. Kwaye ngawaphi amagumbi akwenzayo ukuba ume, ujonge okwesibini kwaye ukhumbule? Ezo bezingalingani, ezinye apho into ibisencinci.

Izinto esizitsalela kuzo, izinto ezigcina ingqalelo yethu zihlala zinomgangatho wokuqina. AmaFrentshi anokuyila eli xesha, kodwa uninzi lwezinye iinkcubeko ziyayiqonda le nto. Xa sithetha ngobuhle babasetyhini - njengoko kuhlala kunjalo xa sixoxa ngobuhle - ndingatsho ukuba eyona ikufutshane esiza nayo ngesiNgesi kuxa sichaza umntu obhinqileyo. Ayisosithuko, okanye ukunyanzelisa ukuba abonakale eyindoda. Ngokuchasene noko. Kubonakala kum njengophawu lwentlonipho, ukwamkelwa ukuba unento engaphaya kokuba mhle nje, ukuba unempawu ezisemgangathweni kunye nezobukhosi, kuba ikwahluke kakhulu, ayinakwenzeka ukuba ichazwe ngayo nayiphi na enye indlela.

Mhlawumbi singabhekisa kolu luvo njengebhalansi, okanye mandithi, ukungcangcazela, ndiya kuthi okanye andizukuwa kule yoga ndizive ngathi ibhalansi ifuna ukulungisa. Njengokutshintsha imisipha kulungele imizimba yethu, ukubala into eninzi kakhulu ngokungonelanga-kwanele yenye into ilungile kubuchwephesha bethu. Isenza ukuba siqaphele kunokuba sisebenzise umfanekiso ngokungenangqondo emva komfanekiso, umbono emva koluvo, kwaye singene kubuhle obupinki.

Kungenxa yokuba, ekugqibeleni, intle intle kodwa intle, intle, yahlukile, inesitayile, ipholile kwaye iyathandeka inomdla ngakumbi kwaye iyimfuneko.