Mamela, ndiyamthanda umfana wam, kodwa ukuba siyahlukana ndifuna ubuncinci isiqingatha sezinto esizithengileyo kunye. Ngoku, oku ayisiyinkxalabo enkulu kum ngoku njengoko ipropathi yethu edibeneyo yeyamaqhekeza efanitshala kunye noBonsai ofayo ogama linguBonnie.
Kodwa ungathini xa singena kunye kwinto enkulu efana nendlu? Kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, ngaphezulu izibini ezingatshatanga ziye zathenga ikhaya kunye kunanini na ngaphambili. Ke, ndiyazi ukuba ayindim ndedwa obuza lo mbuzo-kwaye ndiyavuya ngoku ndiyibuza ngoku kunokuba kamva.
Ndinabathengi abaqinisekileyo ukuba bafumene abo bahlala nabo emphefumlweni, kodwa baqonde ukuba abanazo, utshilo uMark Hakim, igqwetha lokuthengiswa kwezindlu I-SSRGA kwisiXeko saseNew York. Ngoku banengxaki enkulu kunye nealbatross yezemali.
ukubaluleka kwe-11: 11
Uninzi lwabantu alutshati ngenxa yokuba alufuni kujongana neendleko zoqhawulo-mtshato (phakathi kwezinye izinto, kunjalo) -ngoko kubonakala kuyothusa ukuba ndingachitha iminyaka ndibhatala isibambiso ne-boyfriend yam, kodwa ndiphulukane nayo utyalo-mali ukuba sahlukene. Yintoni eyoyikisayo? Ukuba nencoko engathandekiyo kunye neqabane lakho kwaye nixoxa ukuba ubomi buya kujongeka njani ukuba awuphelelanga kunye okanye ulahlekelwe ngamawaka amawaka eedola?
Ndiyayazi impendulo kum. Ke, ukuthintela yonke loo nto kum (kunye nokukunceda, nam), ndibuze ezinye iingcali malunga nendlela efanelekileyo yokuthenga indlu kunye neqabane-zombini ngokwezemali nangokweemvakalelo-ukuba awutshatanga. Nantsi into abayithethileyo:
Inyathelo lokuQala: Yiba Nencoko
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: michela ravasio / Stocksy)
Ukuthetha ngento oza kuyenza kwipropathi yomnini-mntu xa kusenzeka ukwahlukana yingxoxo enzima ukucaphula isoka lam. Akuzange kube lula ukucinga ngokuphela kobudlelwane, kwaye kuba nzima ngakumbi xa uphosa imali kwi-equation. Kodwa ukuba noluntu kunye nokulingana xa wonwabile omnye nomnye kulula kakhulu kunokuba ujongana nokwahlukana
Eyona ndlela ilula yokukhupha iimvakalelo zakho kuyo? Yiphathe njengokuthengiselana kweshishini, utsho UAlan Nelson , umcebisi nge Ingqondo nje , eAustin, eTexas. Into endithanda ukuyibiza ngokuba 'ngu-Us, Inc.' yinto ebalulekileyo ehlala ihoywa kwaye ingaxatyiswanga.
Kulula ukutsho kunokuba kwenziwe, ndiyazi, kodwa kuya kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ngelixa usenokumthanda omnye umntu, kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo impilo yakho yomthetho. UNelson ucebisa ukuthambisa ukungathandeki kwencoko ngokucwangcisa intlanganiso kwangethuba, ukudala i-ajenda ethile kunye nexesha elibekiweyo, kunye nokusasaza idatha kunye neengxelo (njengeengxelo zebhanki, ingeniso / inkcitho, njl.
Cacisa ukuba kukho ukugxila kwikamva kunokuchitha ixesha ukhomba iminwe usola, utshilo uNelson. Ayisebenzi ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ndicinga ukuba inokuba luncedo kwiingxoxo ezinzima.
Silandela iingcebiso zikaNelson, mna nesoka lam sibeka ixesha nendawo yokuba nengxoxo engafihlisiyo malunga nokuba kufanele kwenzeke ntoni xa sithenga ikhaya kunye… kwaye kufanele kwenzeke ntoni ukuba siyahlukana. Incoko yayingeyondlwan 'iyanetha kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo yayingeyonto imnandi- kodwa yenziwa yanzima ngenxa yenkolelo yethu yokuba ubudlelwane bethu bufanele buphele, sobabini sifuna ukuba enye ibe kwindawo apho banokuzikhathalela khona ngokwasemalini, ngokwengqondo, nangokweemvakalelo.
Inyathelo lesibini: Chaza iMigaqo yakho
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Kate Daigneault / Stocksy)
Xelela iqabane lakho into oyifunayo. Ufuna isitiya se rose? Ungathini malunga neyadi enkulu yenja onethemba lokuba ngenye imini uyamkele? Ungathini malunga neyure ukuze ube wedwa ekhaya rhoqo ngeempelaveki? Nokuba yeyiphi na, kubalulekile ukuba uthembeke kwimigaqo kunye neemfuno ezingundoqo. Kubaluleke ngokulinganayo ukuba uthenga neqabane elihloniphayo imida yakho echaziweyo.
Ukuba unayo iqabane elakha amatye [iimfuno zakho], oko kuya kuba ngumqondiso wesilumkiso kuwe, utsho UWilliam Schroeder , Umlawuli weklinikhi wengqondo nje.
USchroeder ukhumbula umxhasi oxelele iqabane lakhe ukuba bayakudinga igumbi lokulala elongezelelweyo kwigumbi labo, kwimeko apho kufuneka indawo yokubuyela umva. Ngokudibeneyo, esi sibini saxoxa ngembali kunye nemeko yesidingo, kwaye baxoxa ngeendlela zokwenza ukuba zisebenze kubo bobabini. Ekugqibeleni, bafumana indawo enegumbi lokulala elongezelelweyo elalisetyenziswa njenge-ofisi, kodwa bongeze nebhedi yokukhupha xa beyifuna.
Le nkqubo yokuguquguquka njengesibini inokukunceda ukuba ubone ukuba uza kuyisingatha njani ingxaki ezayo njengoko ivela, utshilo uSchroeder. Ngokwam ndicinga ukuba obu buchule buluncedo ngakumbi ekuthengeni ekhaya, awucingi?
Intsingiselo ye-7/11
Akufanele uthethe nje ngemeko yokuphila-kuya kufuneka uthethe ngento eza kwenzeka ukuba uyahlukana, nawe.
U-Hakim ucebisa ukuba wenze isivumelwano somzekeliso sangaphambi komtshato esineenkcukacha malunga nokuza kwenzeka kuwo onke amanqanaba enkqubo yokubuyiswa kwamakhaya kunye nobunini bemizi, kunye nokuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa nithe nahlukana okanye kwehla intlekele komnye wenu.
Isithandwa sam kunye nam sagqiba kwelokuba ahlawule yonke intlawulo kwaye ndiza kutyala imali yokulungisa. Kwimeko yoqhawulo-mtshato, kungahamba ezi ndlela zimbini: Uya kuthengisa ikhaya kwaye sahlule imali engenayo nge-80/20 endaweni yakhe, okanye uya kugcina ikhaya aze andibuyisele yonke imali endiyibuyisileyo igcwele.
Kodwa into esebenzayo kuthi isenokungasebenzi kuwe. Ngexesha lale nkqubo (iya kuba ziincoko ezininzi), kuya kufuneka uzibuze imibuzo esisiseko efana nale:
- Kwenzeka ntoni kwipropathi ukuba uyahlukana? Ngaba uyayigcina indlu? Ngaba bayayigcina indlu? Ngaba uyayithengisa?
- Kuthekani ukuba omnye wenu uyakhubazeka okanye uyafa?
- Ngubani ohlawula amatyala eluncedo okanye ngolungiso olukhulu?
- Usithatha njani isihloko okanye wabelana ngobunini? Ngaba uya kuba abaqeshi abadibeneyo okanye abaqeshi ngokufanayo ?
- Uzahlula njani iindleko (phantsi kwentlawulo, ixabiso lokuthenga, iindleko zokuvala, iirhafu, nazo zonke ezinye iindleko zezindlu, kubandakanya ulondolozo kunye neebhilidi zokulungisa)?
Uya kudinga umfanekiso opheleleyo wezezimali zomnye kunye nekhontrakthi ebhaliweyo. Kungcono ukwenza oku phantsi kweliso legqwetha elithembekileyo. Ngale ndlela, uyakukwazi zonke ii-i zakho zinamachaphaza kwaye ii-t zakho ziwele.
Inyathelo lesithathu: Yigqibezele
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Imboleko yemifanekiso: Iifoto zeHero / imifanekiso kaFetty)
Inani leengelosi ezingama-666 elithetha in Hindi
Emva kokuba ikhontrakthi yakho ibhaliwe kwaye ityikityiwe phantsi kweliso legqwetha lakho, eyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo yezomthetho kukurekhoda kwiofisi yakho yokurekhoda kunye ne-deed yekhaya lakho.
Kuza kwenzeka ntoni xa uthatha isigqibo sokuthenga indlu ngaphandle kwesivumelwano esisemthethweni, emva koko wohlukane? Ngoku ka Nolo , iyahluka ngokwamazwe. Isigqibo ngengubo ngokubanzi sesokuba, ukuba ukhethe ukuyisa enkundleni, inkundla iya kuyalela ukuba ipropathi ithengiswe kwaye ingeniso yahlulwe-ukuba unamaxwebhu abonisa ubunini bakho ubunini kunye notyalo-mali kwi / nakwikhaya . Nokuba awunawo amaxwebhu, kunokuba kufanelekile ukuba uthethe negqwetha losapho kwaye ubone ukuba loluphi ukhetho lwakho kwilizwe lakho.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela onokuyithatha wena kunye neqabane lakho ngaphambi kokuthenga, khumbula nje ukuba kububulumko ukuya kubuninikhaya ngamehlo athe gabalala kunokumfanyekiswa luthando.
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