Ngaba ukhe wayidlala Umdlalo woBomi ? Yimidlalo yebhodi yetafile yeklasikhi apho wenza khona indlela yakho, kulungile, ubomi. Xa ndandisemncinci, ndandixakeke nguBomi.
Kuyo, abadlali bakhetha iveni encinci yeplastiki ukuqhuba indlela ebhodini, yonke indlela ukusuka ekholejini ukuya kumhlala phantsi. Ngelixa udlala, uyema apha endleleni ukuqala ikhondo lomsebenzi, utshate, uthenge indlu, kwaye ube nabantwana. Umdlalo ukwalungiselela ukuthenga amasheya, i-inshurensi yabanini makhaya, i-inshurensi yobomi, kunye nezinye izinto ezibonakala ngathi zezabantu abadala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukudlala ngexesha lam lokufunda kwandazisa kwizinto ezibalaseleyo zobomi bendabuko, kodwa inye kuphela inqaku lomdlalo endiye ndenza eyona nto iphambili kum: ukuthenga indlu epholileyo.
Uyabona, kukho ukhetho lwamakhadi endlu, okanye izenzo, kumdlalo. Ziza kuluhlu lweendlela zokwakha kunye nexabiso lamaxabiso, ukusuka kwilanga elityheli laseDatshi eliseColonial ukuya kwindlwana yelog. Ungahlala endlwini oyikhethileyo kumdlalo-okoko nje uzuze imali eyoneleyo.
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Andikho apha ukuchonga iindlela uBomi ezakhe ngayo iingcinga zongxowankulu engqondweni yam esencinci. Mna yenza Ndifuna ukuxoxa ngamakhadi endlu, kuba bendinomdla kwezo zinto.
Emva kokuba ndidlale umdlalo, bendiya kushukuma kwikhadi lekhadi lendlu, ndivavanye iimpawu zabo zekhathuni kwaye ndibabeka kwindawo endiyithandayo (iVictorian epinki, ngokucacileyo) ukuya koyena ndithandayo (inqanaba lokwahlulahlula). Ndikhumbula ndibhidaniswa likhadi likaTudor kwaye ndibuza umama ukuba yintoni, enyanisweni, yayiyindlu yaseTudor. Silihlole ikhadi kunye, senza uphando oluncinci, kwaye Pha , Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba zeziphi izindlu edolophini yam ezazifana neTudor. Ndikhumbula ndisiya kukhwela iphenyane echibini umakhulu notatomkhulu bahlala kwaye bedlula nge-A-isakhelo esasifana ncam naleyo ikwi Life card. Ndikhumbula ndihlala ndijonga ngefestile yemoto ukubona ikhaya elipeyintwe ngokukhazimlayo xa usiya endlwini yabazala bam - kwaye ndiyichaza ngokuchanekileyo njengeVictoria.
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Umdlalo woBomi undincede ndafumanisa uthando lwam lwezindlu, oluthi, njengothando lwam lwemidlalo yebhodi, luqhubeke unanamhla. (Ndingumhleli wokuthengiswa kwezindlu, emva kwayo yonke loo nto.) Ndisajonga i-A-frame echibini lotatomkhulu wam kwaye ndicinga ngomdlalo. Xa ndandidla ngokuqhuba ngeqela lamakhaya aseTudor kwindawo yaseBoston eJamaica Plain, ndicinga emva kuyo. Xa ndathenga isiKhokelo seNdawo kwiiNdlu zaseMelika nguVirginia McAlester, incwadi entle ngokwakhiwa kwendawo yokuhlala, ndakhumbula izimbo endizifundileyo kumdlalo. Kwaye nangoku kwimihla ngemihla, ndikhangela uluhlu lwasekhaya ukuze ndibhale ikholamu yoNyango lwePropathi yoNyango lweeNdawo, ezinoluhlu lweendlela kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali, ukusuka kulungisi-kude ukuya eMidwestern izindlu ezinkulu .
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Kuyinto ehlekisayo ehambelana nokuzoba- uneminyaka eli-9 ubudala ukuba ndijolise kakhulu ekuqinisekiseni indlu epholileyo kumdlalo webhodi, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ndineminyaka engama-27 ubudala ukuba ndigxile ekubhaleni malunga nazo zonke izindlu ezipholileyo ezivela apho intuthuzelo yekhaya lam elincinci elithozamisayo. Umtshato? Abantwana? Izitokhwe? Ngubani ofuna 'em xa ungasebenzela kwezona zinto zibalaseleyo ebomini: ikhaya lakho lamaphupha.
