UKUFUDUKELA KWISIXEKO ESITSHA IINGCEBISO ZODWA -UYA NJANI KWINDAWO ENTSHA

Ndiyayithanda imbono yokupakisha nokufudukela kwisixeko esitsha; Ndingumntu osebenza yedwa ke yenye yezo zinto zomsebenzi wam, akunjalo? Yiba nelaptop, uza kuhamba; Ndingasebenza-kwaye ndihlale-naphi na. Kodwa xa ufudukele endaweni entsha, ngakumbi ukuba ungumntu osebenza ekhaya kwaye awunalo ithuba lokudibana nabantu abatsha emsebenzini, wenza njani ukuba izinto zihambe?

Kumnandi njengokuvakala kwayo, xa inyani yokufudukela kwindawo entsha, apho unokwazi kuphela umntu omnye okanye ababini - ukuba bakho - abanokungena ngaphakathi, kunokuba sisiphazamiso esincinci. Yinto enye ukuba kwindawo entsha iveki okanye ezimbini - konke malunga nokuba ngumkhenkethi, ukuhlala ubomi obuphezulu.

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Yithi ewe kuyo yonke into. Ufuna konke okanye ezinye zezi zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini kwisixeko sakho esitsha: abahlobo, i-BFF, isoka / intombi, kunye nomsebenzi. Awuyi kuzifumana ngokuhlala ekhaya kwaye u-odole ukuhanjiswa ngelixa ubukele iBravo. Phuma apho! Yiya kuyo yonke into abantu ekumemela kuyo. Zikhumbuze ukuba ukwimishini yokufumana ezi zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini!

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Cela ukuseta ngemihla yomhlobo ... okanye imihla yomhla. Wamkelekile kwindlela yabantu abadala yokwenza abahlobo. Asisekho kwikholeji kwakhona. Buza ii-BFF zakho kwisixeko sakho sangoku ukuba bayamazi umntu kwisixeko sakho esitsha. Buza usapho lwakho ukuba bayamazi umntu onokuba ngumhlobo olungileyo kuwe. I-Scour Facebook, i-LinkedIn, i-Twitter, i-Instagram kunye nayo nayiphi na enye imidiya yoluntu ekuyo kwaye ufumanise ukuba ngubani ohlala kwinethiwekhi ohlala edolophini. Unokumangaliswa.

Joyina amaqela ahleliweyo. Ukusuka kwivolontiya engenzi nzuzo ukuya kwiiklabhu zebhola ekhatywayo, nokuba awuqhelekanga njengesijoyinisi, ukujoyina into ethile yindlela yokuhlangabezana neepeps ezintsha. Qala ngokuzonwabisa kwaye ufumane iqela. Kulungile: fumana into ongazange wayenza ngaphambili. Ukuba ngumqali yindlela elungileyo yokunxibelelana nabanye abantu abasele beqala; uziva ungonwabanga, baziva bengonwabanga, ibhingo: umhlobo omtsha.

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Kwiinyanga zakho zokuqala ezi-6, hlala kwindawo ethile ukhululekile. Uhlala kwisixeko esitsha, konke akuqhelekanga kwaye akuqhelekanga. Awazi ukuba yeyiphi i-CVS okanye ivenkile yokutya okanye ngubani oza kuba yi-BFF yakho. Awuyazi imimandla efanelekileyo evela kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo ezivela kwiindawo ezimbi. Awazi izitrato ezisecaleni eziyimfihlo ukusika ujikeleze ukugcwala kwabantu. Awuyazi imivalo epholileyo, iivenkile zokutyela ezipholileyo okanye apho eyona ntengiso yomfama ibalaseleyo. Ke endaweni yokongeza kuxinzelelo, ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba uhlale kwenye indawo ikhululekile kwisiqwengana sakho sokuqala sexesha… ngelixa uqhela indawo ekungqongileyo. Ukuthuthuzela kuthetha into eyahlukileyo kuye wonke umntu. Kum oko kwakuthetha ukuntywila kwigumbi lethutyana kwindawo enexabiso apho ndiziva ndikhuselekile kwaye ndikhululekile ukuphonononga indawo endingqongileyo. Kuwe kungathetha ukuhlala nomhlobo okanye isihlobo okwethutyana nangona uyazi ukuba ixesha elide ufuna ukuhlala wedwa.

Zinike unyaka ukuze uqhelane. Nanini na xa uqala ukucinga nge-OMG, le yayiyimpazamo enkulu!, Ndibe sisidenge ngokucinga ukuba le yayiyimbono elungileyo! okanye andizukuthanda ukuhlala apha kwaye ndizokufa ndedwa! - kwaye, ndithembe, kuya kwenzeka-zikhumbuze ukuba izinto zisekutshintsheni, ukuhamba kunzima, kwaye uyazinika de ube nonyaka phantsi kwebhanti lakho ngaphambi kokwenza naziphi na izigwebo ezigqithileyo ekuhambeni.

Musa ukulibala malunga nabahlobo bakho kunye nenethiwekhi yakho evela kwisixeko sakho sangaphambili. Unayo lula - umkile. Ndakhe ndahlala ndikholelwa ukuba umhambisi kulula kuye kunomntu oshiye ngasemva. Uphuma ujonge isixeko esitsha, unehambo ezintsha, ufunde izinto ezintsha. Iidalwa zakho ezindala zikwindlela yazo efanayo kwaye mhlawumbi zikulahlekile. Musa ukulibala ngabo. Yenza umzamo wokunxibelelana kunye nokubuyela umye ukutyelela amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ewe kuya kuba nzima - awabelani ngalo lonke usuku lwabo kwii-adventures zemihla ngemihla kwaye nokuba umahluko omncinci wexesha ubiza ungabinangxaki - kodwa kungekudala izinto ezaneleyo ziya kuwela endaweni.