Izizathu ezi-5 zokuba ungatyali kwi-Crib Crib

Jonga nje kulaa ndawo yokulala ingakholelekiyo. Ibukeka intle, akunjalo? Kunzima ukungayifuni. Kwaye kunzima ukuba ungacingi ukujonga phantsi usana lwakho lulele kulo, kwaye uncume. Kodwa mandibeke into apha phandle okomzuzwana. Mandibe ngumhlobo lowo. Lowo uthi ukhe waqwalasela hayi uchitha imali kuyo? Ngaba uziqwalasele ezi zizathu ze hayi ukuthenga isitya sokulala samaphupha akho?

1. Iintsana zilala ebhedini yazo rhoqo kunokuba ucinga. Iphupha lokubeka umntwana osandula kuzalwa ebhedini yakhe lihle, kodwa inyani ayenzeki rhoqo. Iintsana zilala kwiinqwelana, izitulo zeemoto, iirockers, ujingi, upakisha ‘n play, okanye kuwe. Ngaba ubuya kusithenga isitya sokulala xa ubusazi ukuba abanakuze balale kuso? Okanye kunqabile?

2. Iintsana zikhula ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ucinga. Naxa umntwana wakho elala rhoqo esibelekweni sakhe-eso sigaba sobomi babo asihlali xesha lide. Nje ukuba umntwana akhuphuke (enokwenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha emva kosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe) ibhedi iya kuba luncedo. Kwaye ukhuko luya kuhlala ixesha elide kakhulu. Ngaba unokukrala kule ndawo endaweni yoko?

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Nabona baziphatha kakuhle banxiba impahla yendlu. Ndinexesha elidlulileyo, ndikuthethelele ukuthengwa kwefanitshala enkulu kakuhle, ndinokuhlala ndiyithengisa kamva kwaye ndiphinde ndiyidibanise enye imali ngelo xesha. Into engathatheli ngqalelo kukuba le fenitshala iya kuyithoba njani ixabiso kuba abantwana bam… bantwana! Kwanangaphambi kokuba ibe yikhrayoni / uSharpie ophethe umntwana omncinci, iintsana ziya kungena ngaphakathi, zichame, zigabhe zilume umkhala wazo. Cinga: ngaba esi sikhokelo siza kuba yinto eyoyikekayo kuwe ngelo xesha, xa singekho pristine, njengoko kunjalo nakuwe ngoku? Ngaba iya kuba nomtsalane komnye uMama onethemba lokuyithengisa kuye?

4. Kukho iindlela ezintle, ezifikelelekayo. Ukhe wayiqwalasela iSniglar evela kwi-IKEA, ukhetho oluthandwayo ngabazali abaninzi abathanda i-AT? Okanye enye yeminye iminikelo ye-IKEA? Ukhe wajonga kwi iimodyuli ezivela kwiWalmart ? Kuthekani ukuba ulungiselele ibhedi esitshiphu ukuyenza eyakho? Ungathini xa ufumene into esetyenzisiweyo? Zonke ezi zinto zinokwenzeka ziya kongela imali kwaye zikushiye nendawo entle yokubeka intloko encinci, entle yomntwana wakho.

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5. Yonke imali oyigcinileyo, ungayichitha wenze enye into. Bhala lo mfanekiso ubucinga ukuwuchitha ebhedini. Khawufane ucinge ukuba unayo loo mali kwisipaji sakho kwaye unokwenza nantoni na oyithandayo ngayo. Yeyiphi enye indlela onokuyisebenzisa ngayo? Mhlawumbi ungathatha iholide kunye neqabane lakho ngaphambi kokufika komntwana wakho? Unokuphinda uyicwangcise eyakho yeyakho igumbi lokulala, uzenzele ikhefu ngexesha lakho lokungabinalo usana. Unokuyibeka kwindawo yokuthenga iimpahla zasemva komntwana. Beka ibhedi yomfanekiso okomzuzwana. Yintoni enye onokuyicingela wena, nosapho lwakho?

UAlison Gerber

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Ukusuka eSydney, eOstreliya, ngoku enengqele yokufa eNew England, uAlison Gerber ngumbhali, uMama kunye nomfundi we-master. Xa engekho kubloga , uhlala efumana ukutya ipopcorn ebhedini, ebukele uthotho lwemfihlakalo lwe-BBC.