Nangona jikelele ithathwa njengengcamango embi kubantu abaninzi abaye bazama ngaphambili, ukuhamba nomhlobo obalaseleyo kunokubonakala ngathi yinto oyifunayo ebomini bakho. Lonke ulonwabo onalo nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni ingangama-24/7, ucinga! Uya kwahluka, uzixelele. Ukuba ubophelelekile kwaye uzimisele ukuntywila kwimeko ephilayo kunye nomhlobo osenyongweni, jonga ezi ngcebiso ngaphambi kokuba usayine isivumelwano soqeshiso.
Ewe ukuhlala nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni kunokuba yinto emnandi. Kuba sele uyamthanda lo mntu, ukufikelela kuninzi lokufikelela kubo kunokonyusa i-adventure, i-antics kunye neentliziyo ezinentliziyo ezintlanu. Kodwa ukuba awulumkanga, iinyani zokwabelana ngendawo yokuhlala zinokuthomalalisa nezona zibophelelo zobuhlobo ziqinileyo. Thatha eli cebiso lingezantsi - kwaye uqiniseke kwaye wabelane ngokwakho ukuba ukhe wahlala nomhlobo osenyongweni!
Kwaye ke, sibhekisa kubahlobo abasenyongweni Ngengqondo yeplato apha, kodwa ukuba iqabane lakho lingumhlobo osenyongweni kwaye uziva ngathi ufuna ukulinganisa naziphi na izifundo zobomi ozifundileyo, zive ukhululekile!
1. Misela imithetho kwangethuba
Sithetha ngayo ukuyikhupha yonke etafileni. Yeyiphi imisebenzi yokucoca ocinga ukuba kufuneka yenziwe rhoqo. Nokuba ucinga okanye awucingi ukuba sisono ukuphosa into ebinokuphinda isetyenziswe kwakhona. Zeziphi iiyure ekufuneka uzolile ngazo ukuze ulale. Yintoni encedisa oku ukuhlala nabanye abantu-uye ubazi malunga nabaphuli bemicimbi emva kokuhlala kwiimeko ongenakuma kuzo-ke amava onawo ngendawo yokuhlala ekwabelwana ngayo, kulunge ngakumbi ukuba ungangena nomhlobo osenyongweni.
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2. Cinga ngokuhlala endaweni yakhe
Sithetha ngawo nawaphi na amasoka okanye amantombazana anokungena kumxube. Ukwabelana ngekhaya lakho kunye nabo bangaphezulu, abangabhataliyo abantu abahlala nabo akuhlali kumnandi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha unokuziva ngathi kukho ukungavisisani okongezelelekileyo xa ingumhlobo wakho osenyongweni evumela ishawa yakhe yeshawari yonke iyure. Mhlawumbi uziva ngathi umhlobo wakho osenyongweni kufuneka nje yazi iimvakalelo zakho ngalo mba. Mhlawumbi uyithanda ngokwenene intombazana okanye umfana kwaye awufuni kuvusa inkathazo. Zama ukubona kwangaphambili ezi ndidi zoxinzelelo kwaye uzimise ngaphambi kokuba ziqale ngokuchitha ubusuku kwenye indawo!
3. Hlakulela ubuhlobo, nawe
Musa ukulibala ukuba ningabahlobo kuqala. Ayisiyo ukuba eli ayilo nyathelo libalulekileyo kubantu abaqala njengabantu abahlala nabo kwaye emva koko baqala ubuhlobo, yinto nje yokuba ungafuni ubuhlobo bube yindawo yokuhlala nomntu kuphela. Ke qiniseka ukuba phakathi kokwabelana ngemisebenzi ikwacwangcise kuninzi lwezinto obukade uzenza xa bengahlali kunye ukugcina isikhuni somlilo esimnandi.
4. Ulibale amanqaku angenamsebenzi
Kutheni kubonakala ngathi singathetha ngayo yonke into nomhlobo wethu osenyongweni ngaphandle Inyaniso yokuba iyasifaka ngokwenene xa ilibale ukukhupha inkunkuma yinto engummangaliso. Kodwa yinto eyenzekayo kwiibesties ezabelana ngendlu kakhulu. Njengokungakhululeki njengoko kunokuba kunjalo - akukho mntu ukhetha ukuthetha imisebenzi kunokonwaba, iincoko zomhlobo osenyongweni - kubalulekile ukuzisa imicimbi buqu, kwaye ungashiyi amanqaku angenzi ndlongo-ndlu ejikeleze indlu.
5. Ishedyuli yokungena rhoqo (kwaye mhlawumbi indlela yohlobo lweFestivus yokudlulisa izikhalazo)
Musa ukulinda de kube lixesha lokuhlaziya ukuqeshisa ukuze ungene kunye ne-bestie yakho ukuze ubone ukuba imeko yokuphila ihamba njani (ngakumbi ukuba uhlala nomhlobo othuleyo ongathandi ukujongana). Ukuba nosuku oluchongiweyo apho umntu ngamnye anokuxoxa ngokuzolileyo ngayo nayiphi na imiba ebashukumisayo kunokuba lula kwisisu kwaye bangagcina ubuhlobo busemgceni ngelixa besabelana ngendawo yokuhlala.
Linganisa! Ngaba wakha wabelana nekhaya nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni, ukuya empumelelweni evuselelayo okanye kwiziphumo ezonakalisa ubuhlobo? Yabelana ngezifundo zakho zobomi kuye nabani na onokuthi acinge ngale ndlela!
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