Ndandihlala ndicinga ukuba ezona Ndwendwe ziNdlu kwiTherapy Therapy zezona zibonisa ngokucacileyo izimbo kunye nezinto abazithandayo. Oku kujongeka kumakhaya abanye ngokuqinisekileyo kuyasikhuthaza sonke ukuba sifune ukwenza iindawo ezibonisa ubuntu bethu, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba lula ukutsho kunokuba kwenziwe. Ukuba uziva ubambekile, Nazi ezinye zeengcebiso zokukunceda ukhumbule kwaye uhlale unenjongo malunga nokwenza isimbo sakho!
1. Zijikeleze ngokhuthazo . Sele usendleleni kuba ulapha! Ukuchitha ixesha kwiiwebhusayithi yindlela entle yokubona uluhlu lwezinto ezikhoyo phaya. Izibonelelo zokuba yinxalenye yoluntu oluku-intanethi kukuba ufumana umbono kumakhaya ahlukeneyo kunye nezitayile ezivela kwihlabathi liphela. Kodwa musa ukuma apho: qaphela ukuba ukujonga iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zangaphakathi yindlela yokukunceda uphuhlise izimvo zakho. Njengoko ujonga ifoto yegumbi, yenza isigqibo ngento oyithandayo nongayithandiyo, kwaye ngoba. Khumbula ukuba inqaku ayikokuxelisa ngokugqibeleleyo ifoto oyithandayo; inomdla ngakumbi kwaye ikhethekile ukuba ungazicutha izinto ozithandayo kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo ukwakha umbono wakho. Qokelela iifoto ezibhenela kuwe kwibhodi yePinterest okanye kwifolda yedesktop. Ixesha elingaphezulu, njengoko ujonga ngasemva kwingqokelela yakho, uya kubona imixholo yokudibanisa kwaye uya kuba nokuqonda okungcono kokuthandayo nokungathandwayo. Kwakhona kunokuba luncedo ukwenza amanqaku malunga nomyili okanye isitayile sezinto zakho zangaphakathi ozithandayo njengoko usiya.
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2. Cinga ngale nkqubo yokuphuhlisa isitayile sakho njengenkqubo yexesha elide. Awudingi ukufumanisa ukuba yeyiphi na indlela yakho yobusuku. Inkqubo yokufunda ibaluleke kakhulu ekumiseleni isimbo esomeleleyo. Akukho namnye owazalwa enencasa elungileyo; kuzalwa ngaphandle kokubeka ixesha lokwakha isiseko solwazi, ukucinga malunga nokuqhubeka emva kwezigcawu, kunye nokuqonda into eyenza into entle. Le nkqubo iza kukunceda uthembe izimvo onazo kwaye ikunike ukuzithemba kukhetho lwakho lwesitayile. Ngokwenyani, oku kuthetha ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba uzifakele uxinzelelo 'lokugqibezela' igumbi okanye indlu yonke ngaxeshanye ukuba kubonakala kungumsebenzi otyhafisayo noduru; endaweni yoko, yamkela isantya sokongeza izinto nganye nganye, ufunde njengoko uqhubeka. Ukuba awazi ukuba uqale ngaphi, kunokuba luncedo ukumisela iprojekthi yexesha elithile. Umzekelo, bendifuna ukubuyisela itafile yam yekofu, kodwa ekubeni singenayo imali ngoku yokuthenga eyona tafile ndiyifunayo, ndigqibe kwelokuba ndenze le ndinayo ngoku, kwaye ndizinike umhla wokugqibela yokuphela kuka-Matshi ukuyigqiba.
3. Yiba ngumntu. Thatha usuku lokuhlala phantsi kwaye uhambe nezinto zakho ozithandayo. Isenokuba zizinto ozibuyise kuhambo, okanye izinto oziqokelele ngokuhamba kwexesha, njengezitya, iifoto ezindala, iiposta, izilwanyana ezenziwe ngomthi, iibhokisi ze-cigar, okanye amatye. Cinga ngezinto ozithandayo-inokuba kukutya, ukupheka, iimephu, inkcubeko ethile, umbala, imizekeliso, iincwadi, iimuvi. Thatha ixesha lokucinga malunga nokuba ungazifaka njani zonke ezi zinto kwindawo yakho ngendlela ebonakalayo enomdla. Ukudibanisa ezi ziqwenga ekhayeni lakho kuya kunceda ukumisela esakho isitayile kunye nokwenza ikhaya lakho livakale ngathi libonakalisa ukuba ungubani. UNoa Santos waseKhayaPolish uthi enye yeendlela zokumisela isimbo somthengi kukujonga izinto abaziqokelelayo.
Zine. Hlanganisa kwaye utshatise. Umkhwa ohlaziyayo kwicandelo loyilo lwangaphakathi kule mihla kukuhamba kokudibanisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nezitayile. Ndiyayithanda le nto kuba ndicinga ukuba yenzelwa ubuhle benene. Ungasithanda isitulo esidala sokuvuna osifumene kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya, kodwa unokuyithanda itafile yekhofi ecacileyo yanamhlanje oye wayijonga kwiABC Carpet naseKhaya. Qaphela ezi ndlela zimbini zahlukileyo kwaye ucinge ngendlela onokuthi wenze ngayo igumbi elidibanisa iziqwenga zale mihla nezokuvuna.
5. Hamba kwisithuba onaso. Qiniseka ukuba uyasiqonda isithuba sakho ngokuhambahamba ekhayeni lakho ngeliso elinenjongo. Yenza uluhlu lokuhlola lwengqondo njengoko usiya kwizinto ozithandayo nongazithandiyo malunga nendawo yakho ngoku, kwaye wazi ukuba kutheni. Olu luhlu luya kunceda ukwazisa ngezigqibo zokuhombisa kunye nokuthenga okwenzayo kwixa elizayo.
6. Cinga zombini ezisebenzayo nezintle. Xa ujonga umfanekiso wendawo yangaphakathi oyithandayo, zibuze, Ngaba ndingathanda ukuphumla apho? Ngaba ndingaziva ndikhululekile ukuhlala kuloo ndawo yonke imihla? Kubonakala ngathi ngumbuzo ocacileyo ukubuza lo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyayeka ukwenza izinto ngobuhle, kwaye oku kubeka uxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko kwindlela esihombisa ngayo noyila ikhaya lethu. Cinga ngendlela oza kuwusebenzisa ngayo isithuba onaso yonke imihla, ngokudibeneyo kunye nobuhle bonke.
7. Ukuqhekeka kuphela kwizinto ozithandayo ngokwenene . Ngelixa ukwizigaba zokuqala zokuphuhlisa isitayile sakho, akufuneki uchithe itoni yemali kwizinto ezintle. Khangela iindlela zokucoca okanye ukuguqula ifenitshala endala, ukuya kwi-thrifting, okanye ukhangele i-IKEA hacks. Ukuba nobuchule bokwenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali onalo ngoku kuya kukunceda ngakumbi ekuphuculeni isitayile sakho. Kwaye ekubeni isitayile sakho sinokutshintsha kwaye sikhule ngokuhamba kwexesha, awufuni ukuzibophelela kwisofa okanye kwitafile yokutyela ngaphandle kokuba uyazi ukuba uya kuyithanda iminyaka ezayo. Ngexesha onalo uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lokuthenga izinto ozithandayo, uya kuba nakho ukuthenga ngokuzithemba.
8. Ukuba ulahleko, qala ngokungathathi hlangothi. Oku kuya kukunika isiseko onokwakhela kuso. Ukuba kuya kufuneka uthenge ifanitshala enkulu kwaye ukhubazekile ngenxa yokwenza isigqibo ngombala, hamba ungathathi hlangothi. Ukungathathi hlangothi kunokuba mnyama, mhlophe okanye beige, kodwa inokwahluka ngegrey (okanye kwimeko yam, igolide!). Ungasoloko ukongeza eminye imibala, izitulo, izinto ezincedisayo, ubugcisa, iingubo, izityalo, njl njl.Ukuyila isithuba sakho njengoko uhamba. Ukuba uziva ngathi ukwinqanaba le-slate elingenanto, yindawo entle ukuba ubekho, kuba sele unesiseko sokwakha isitayile sakho. Ukuba uziva ngathi indawo yakho igcwele, thatha eli thuba njengethuba lokwenza lula kwaye ungangcolisi! Kwinkqubo yokwenza lula, ungathengisa iziqwenga ezingasebenziyo kuwe, uzithengise kwi-Craigslist, okanye uzinikele kwi-Goodwill okanye kwi-Salvation Army.
9. Qaphela izithuba. Xa ungena evenkileni, kwivenkile yokutyela okanye eofisini, jonga indlela abayibeke ngayo ifanitshala, kunye nemibala kunye nezinto ezisetyenziswayo. Ezi ndawo zihlala ziyilelwe ngabahombisi bezinto zobungcali, kwaye wakuba uqalile ukuqaphela, uya kuqala ukubona uyilo olukhethiweyo olwenziwe ukuzisa indawo kunye kunye nokwenza imeko ethile.
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10. Thatha imifanekiso yendawo yakho njengoko uhamba. Njengoko upeyinta olo donga, beka ezakhelo okanye ulungelelanise ifanitshala yakho, uthathe iifoto ukubhala inkqubela yakho. Kuya kuvula amehlo kwaye kufundise ukujonga emva kwezinye iindlela zakho zokuhombisa ngaphambili kwaye ubone ukuba kude kangakanani.
Zeziphi ezinye zeengcebiso zakho ekuphuhliseni ukuqonda kwesimbo sakho, kwaye zeziphi iintlobo zezinto ezikusebenzele ngaphambili?
