Ngaba ulundwendwe oluhle lwetheko? Nazi iindlela ezintathu zokundwendwela iqela ukuba uziphephe- kunye nezine ukuba uzamkele - ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyakumenywa umva unyaka nonyaka.
UNGAYENZI:
1. Yiba khona ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
Kuninzi lwabantu kuyindalo yesibini ukubonisa ubuncinci imizuzu eli-15 emva kwexesha kwindibano enkulu, kodwa ukugcina ixesha ngokungagungqiyo kunokuba nengxaki koku. Ukuba uzibona ufika kwitheko ngaphakathi kwemizuzu eli-15 yexesha lokuqalisa elichaziweyo, cofa ikona yekofu, okanye ujonge kwivenkile ethengisa iincwadi okwexeshana, okanye hlala emotweni yakho. Oku kuya kunika umbuki zindwendwe igumbi lokuphefumla kwaye uqinisekise ukuba awuhambi kuzo xa usenza amalungiselelo omzuzu wokugqibela.
Ukwahluka okumbalwa kumgaqo: amatheko esidlo sangokuhlwa, apho krwada ukubonisa ngaphezulu kwemizuzu eli-15 emva kwexesha. Kwaye naliphi na itheko apho umazi kakuhle umamkeli zindwendwe kwaye uzive ukhululekile ukunikezela ukunceda- kwimeko apho ukugcina kwakho ixesha (okanye ukuthobela) kuya kwamkeleka.
2. Yiza nento efuna ulungiselelo oluninzi.
Ukuba uzisa into epatini, kulungile kuwe. Kodwa musa ukuzisa into eya kufuna itoni yendawo yokulungiselela okanye ixesha lekhitshi ekupheleni kwepati. Amathuba okuba umbuki zindwendwe wakho ebepheka yonke imini kwaye indawo yokubala ekhitshini yiprimiyamu. Ukuba ulapho usika izinto kwaye ujonge izitya kunye neemela kwaye yintoni, izinto zinokuphazamiseka.
3. Ghost 'ngaphandle kokuvalelisa kumbuki zindwendwe wakho.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze into enkulu yokwazisa ukuphuma kwakho kulo lonke undwendwe ethekweni, kodwa kuya kufuneka ubuncinci ufumane umphathi wakho kwaye ubazise ukuba ubenexesha elimnandi kodwa ngelishwa kufuneka uhambe. Oku kuyakubagcina ekubambeni imibuzo malunga nento eyenzekileyo kwisibenzi-sobusuku bonke ubusuku.
YENZA:
1. I-RSVP.
Ubugcisa be-RSVP bufile, ewe. Inombolo yokuqala endiyiva ngayo kubahlobo ababamba amaqela kukuba abantu abayenzi i-RSVP, okanye bayayenza emva koko bangabonakali, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuba uxele ukuba ngubani oza kwiqela lakho nokuba ufuna ukutya okungakanani. Ke ukuba ufumana isimemo setheko, kwaye ucinga ukuba ungathanda ukuya, cofa 'ewe'. Ngokwenene, akukho nzima kangako.
2. Cela ukuzisa into.
Amathuba alungile ukuba umbuki zindwendwe wakho athi awudingi kuzisa kwanto, ngokwakho, kodwa ukubonelela ngento efanelekileyo yiphathi. Ikwayindlela yokunceda umamkeli-zindwendwe wakho ahlawule iindleko zepati, ngamanye amaxesha ezinokuthi zibaleke ziphezulu. Kwaye ukuba uceliwe ukuba uze nento, ngenxa yegosh, musa ukuyigodusa nawe ekupheleni kobusuku (ngaphandle kokuba umamkeli wakho ukucela ngokuthe ngqo).
3. Thetha nabantu ongabaziyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, bonke abahlobo bakho bakumbutho. Kodwa bonke aba ngabantu oza kuphinda ubabone-uza kudibana njani nabantu abatsha ukuba unamathela kwiqela lakho ngalo lonke ixesha? Yiya ngokwakho uyokufumana ukutya okanye isiselo- eli lixesha elihle lendalo lokuncokola nabantu ongabaziyo. Ukuthetha nabantu abatsha nako ENKULU ubabalo kumamkeli-zindwendwe wakho, oya kuthi angakhathazeki kangako ngeendwendwe ezingaziyo abantu abaninzi kwitheko.
4. Yithi enkosi.
Ukuphosa amaqela kumnandi kakhulu, kodwa kukwangumsebenzi onzima. Kwaye xa usebenza nzima kwinto ethile, kulungile ukuba nomnye umntu athi: hey, enkosi. Umsebenzi omhle. Imikhwa yesiko inyanzelisa ukuba uthumele umyalezo wokubulela ngeposi kumbuki zindwendwe wakho: kumaxesha anamhlanje, oku kungabonakala ngathi kungaphezulu, kodwa ubulela umamkeli zindwendwe wakho xa ushiya (kwaye mhlawumbi nakwi-imeyile okanye umyalezo umyalezo ngosuku olulandelayo) ziya kuhlala zixatyiswa.
Ukuhlelwa kwakhona kwisithuba esipapashwe okokuqala nge-12.11.14-NT
