Dibana UJeni Aron : umntu olungeleleneyo. Kuba ukusebenza kwengqondo okucwangciswe ngokwenyani kuseyimfihlakalo kuninzi lwethu, ndazimisela ukubuza phezulu kwethuividiyoabaququzeleli: ziziphi iindlela ezilungileyo ezilishumi ozisebenzisayo ukugcina ubomi bakho buququzelelwe? Okokuqala, uJeni!
1. Yazi into oyithandayo kwaye unamathele kuyo. Ndiyazi ukuba ndiyathanda kuphela ishampu yeAveda kunye nokuhlamba ubuso kukaKiehl. Olu lwazi lubonakala lungekho nzulu ngokwenene lwenza ukubhideka okuncinci kunye nokuxinana kwisitya sam. Ekuseni andilwi novavanyo lwelabhoratri yeebhotile ezili-18 ezahlukeneyo zokuthambisa kunye nemixube yokuzama ukwenza umsebenzi weemveliso ezi-2 ezimangalisayo ngokugqibeleleyo.
2. Funda ukuthi HAYI. Iiholide zingumzekelo ogqibeleleyo weKhalenda yokuCocwa okunga khokelela kwingxinano yengqondo engakhokelela kukutya kakhulu kunye nokulila. Ndiye ndafunda ukukhetha (not snobby) kunye ne-RSVP yam yentlalo ekhulula ixesha lokujonga kubuhlobo bam obusondeleyo kunye nexesha lam lobuqu.
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3. Chitha imizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu yonke imihla uhlala uzilungiselele. Kukho iinzame ezincinci zemihla ngemihla endizenzayo ukugcina ubucukubhede busendaweni. Ndiyicwangcisa iposi ngoko nangoko, nje ukuba ndiyifumane kwibhokisi yeposi. Ndithatha inkunkuma yonke imihla (kuba ndinenkunkuma encinci yenkunkuma- ekwakhuthaza ukususwa kwenkunkuma). Ndibuyisele izinto emakhayeni abo xa ndigqibile ngazo. Ngale ndlela, andinazo iimfumba ze-junk kuyo yonke indlu endimele ukuba ndichithe iiyure kuyo ngengxabano yangeCawa kunye nokuqalekisa. Imizuzu engamashumi amabini, ubuninzi.
Zine. Vumela abanye abantu ebomini bakho babe nobumdaka (kodwa ngendlela ecwangcisiweyo) . Isithandwa sam asihlali nam kodwa unezinto zakhe zokuthambisa kunye neepj zakhe kunye neesokisi zakhe ezingaphezulu, iimpahla zangaphantsi kunye nezikipa zangaphantsi kunye neempahla zomsebenzi ezimbalwa apha. Ndimnike ingobozi enesiciko ngaphezulu kwendlu yangasese ukugcina izinto zakhe zangasese kunye nedrawer epheleleyo kwisinxibo sam kuyo yonke impahla yakhe. Unokwenza nantoni na ayifunayo ngaphakathi kwezi ndawo zimbini okoko zikhona kwaye andizukuyilawula into yakhe (ngalo lonke ixesha). Yinkqubo enokusebenza kakuhle nabantwana kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya ngokunjalo (ayisiyiyo into yokuba ndithelekisa indoda eneminyaka engama-41 nomntwana okanye inja. Masicace gca).
5. Yekela. Rhoqo. Oku kuhamba nenombolo 1. Ndivele ndalahla ngaphandle ii-eyeliners ezintathu ze-Urban Decay chubby xa ndavuma kum ukuba andiyontombazana ye-chubby eyeliner. Ndikhulule indawo kwikhabhathi yam yamayeza kwaye ndenza igumbi lezinto ezifanelekileyo ebomini bam. Xa ungasebenzisi nto kodwa ubambelele kuyo ukuze ube nayo leyo mbewu yokuqala yokuxinana kwaye andizidingi ezo ntlobo zeGremlins endlwini yam. Hlala nechubbs.
6. Yenza Ibhedi yakho. Ngaphandle kokuba unemiqamelo engama-99, ukwenziwa kombhede okuqinileyo kusasa kufuneka kuhlale imizuzu emi-2 okanye emi-3. Ibhedi eyandlisiweyo iyandikhuthaza ukuba ndixhome iimpahla kwaye ndibuyisele amaphephancwadi kunye neencwadi ezishelufini endaweni yokuziqokelela kumashiti aqokelelweyo kunye nemilo ebotshiwe. Ngaphezulu, yinto entle encinci ukuba ndibuyele ekhaya emva kosuku olude ebhedini ebonakala imema, ipolishiwe kunye nayo yonke eyam.
7. Yenza iifolda zemeyile. I-imeyile ingaba yi-monster ukuba awuhambisani nayo. Nanini na xa ndifumana umthengi omtsha okanye ndiqala iprojekthi ngokubhekisele kwishishini lam, ndiyiphosa kwifolda yam ye-imeyile yeClutter Cowgirl 2013. Ndingazigcina ezo imbalelwano ngaphandle kwebhokisi yam engenayo kwaye ndingafumana i-imeyile ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kwayo yonke i-e-clutter ebonakalayo. Unokwenza oku ngoogqirha, ii-imeyile zesikolo somntwana (ezihlelwe ngonyaka, utitshala, umntwana) kunye nayo yonke indawo ebomini bakho. Xa iprojekthi okanye unyaka uphelile, yiya ngamantongomane ngokucima.
8. Ukuba kukho into eyaphukileyo, sukuyilungisa. Ngaphandle kokuba kukho ixabiso elikhulu eliqhotyoshelwe kwinto ethile (nokuba yeyothando okanye yemali), cinga ukuba lingakanani ixesha, umzamo kunye nokucaphukisa, kuya kuthatha ukulungisa into kunye nokulinganisa ukhetho lwakho. Ukuba ixesha lakho lingasetyenziselwa ukuphucula ubomi bakho, ngaba kufanelekile ukuba uphinde ubuyisele iglasi eyi- $ 5? Andikhuthazi inkunkuma, ndikubuza ukuba yintoni ixabiso lexesha lakho.
9. Ndishiya ikhaya ngaphandle kwe-AmEx yam. Amakhadi etyala akhuthaza ukungabinangqondo, ukuthengwa okuzenzekelayo okuziva kulungile ngalo mzuzu kodwa kucoce iikhabhathi zam nezinto endingazifuniyo kwaye kuyayiphazamisa imali yam. Sebenzisa imali eyi-9 kuma-10 amaxesha kundikhulula kwiimvakalelo, ngokwasemzimbeni nakwizinto ezingafunekiyo.
10. Nika kodwa kuphela izinto ezilungileyo. Andiyilahli inkunkuma yam kubahlobo okanye kusapho. Xa ndilahla impahla, iibhegi, iilinen okanye nantoni na eyenye, ndiyazibuza, Ngaba oku kulixabiso kulo mntu kwaye ndingafuna ukufumana into enje? NjengoClutter Cowgirl, luxanduva lwam ukuba ndingaphili ubomi obucwangcisiweyo kwikhaya lam kuphela kodwa ndikhuthaze nabanye ukuba benze njalo.
UJeni Aron ngu IClutter Cowgirl , Umququzeleli oqeqeshiweyo osebenza kwindawo ye-NYC ukusukela ngo-2003. Injongo yomthengi ngamnye kukudala izisombululo ezisebenza ngokukodwa kwiimfuno zabo ezikhokelela kwindlela yokuphila enemveliso ngakumbi nokuzola. Utshintsho olunzima njengokufudukela kwindawo entsha, ukwamkela umntwana nokudibanisa amakhaya kunye neqabane zezinye zeemeko apho abathengi basebenzise iinkonzo zokuququzelela iJeni. Uye wachazwa njengongagwebiyo kwaye egxile kwaye uninzi lwabathengi luye lwavuma ukuba luyonwaba ngexesha lokulungiselela iiseshoni! Utshintsho alulunganga nje… lulungile.
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