Igumbi lam lokuhlambela liyinto encinci ehlekisayo. Undwendwe olukhulelweyo lwakha lwabuza ukuba angasebenzisa na igumbi lokuhlambela. Ungazama. Sinebhafu epheleleyo, kodwa akukho gumbi lokuhlambela ibhafu yabantwana. Xa unyana wam wazalwa kwiminyaka emi-5 eyadlulayo kwaye ngoku nentombi yam, senza kunye nezinye iimveliso ezifanelekileyo kumakhaya amancinci. Naba…
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
Ndikunye nonyana wam ndisebenzise isilingi sokuhlambela esisongelayo esifana nale ingasentla ngo Iintsana zasehlotyeni . Yayi malunga ne- $ 10 kwaye, xa sele isongelwe, yayincinci ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingashenxisa ngaphezulu kwekhabinethi yamayeza. Kwakungekho nto intle ngayo kwaye bendihlala ndigcina isandla sam kunyana wam ukuze aqiniseke ukuba akashukumi, kodwa wenza umsebenzi olungileyo wokugcina intloko yakhe ingekho emanzini. Xa wayeneminyaka engama-5 ubudala ndayinika enye intsapho kwaye ndiza kumfaka ebhodini, kwiintshi ezimbalwa zamanzi (ngoku, ngokuzithemba ngakumbi njengoko ndandinamava amaninzi okuba ngumzali).
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
Ndenzela intombi yam, ngoku iphantse iinyanga ezi-4 ubudala, ndiyithengile le bhafu ibhafu Ukhuseleko 1 . Kwakungaphantsi kwe- $ 10 kwaye kulula ukuyigcina ngaphezulu kwekhabinethi yamayeza. Emva kokuhlamba ndiyisongele, ndiyishiye ekupheleni kwebhafu kwaye yome ngokupheleleyo ngaphakathi kweeyure ezimbalwa. Bendinexhala lokuba ingakhula isikhunta ekuhambeni kwexesha kodwa oku akukenzeki ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
Ndiyazi ukuba abanye abazali abancama ibhafu yomntwana basebenzise isinki yabo (ngamanye amaxesha ngokudibana ne Umakhulu Nyana ), kodwa isitya sam sokuhlambela sincinci kwaye khange ndifune ukuphinda ndilungelelanise isitya kunye nezinye izinto zasekhitshini ezijikeleze isinki ngalo lonke ixesha ndifuna ukunika umntwana wam ibhafu.
Ndicebisa zombini ezi mveliso zabahlali abancinci basekhaya okanye njengento yokuhamba okanye yokugcina endlwini kamakhulu. Ngaba utsiba ibhafu yomntwana? Usebenze ntoni kuwe?
(Imifanekiso: 1. UCarrie McBride 2. Iintsana zasehlotyeni 3. Ukhuseleko 1 )
