Buza uAlice: Ngaba kusengqiqweni ukunyanzelisa iindwendwe zam ukuba zikhulule izihlangu zazo?

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Alice othandekayo,



Iflethi okanye indlu ekwicomplex Ndingu kakhulu ucocekile kwaye uhlala ushiya izihlangu okanye iimbadada kwindawo yokungena enethayile kwaye ungaze uhambe ekhaphethini ukuyigcina icoceke ngokusemandleni, ngakumbi ngoku sendiyicoca nzulu / ndayihlamba ishampu. Ngesizathu esithile, iindwendwe kunye nabahlobo bahlala bephikisana ngam ngokubacela hayi hamba kwikhaphethi yam naziphi na izihlangu, ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba ndisebenza nzima kangakanani ukugcina indlu yam icocekile. Ndibizwa ngokuba krwada, ngempundu, okanye ndixelelwa ukuba ndifuna ukuphola, okanye ndingazomeleli kwinto yonke yezihlangu-ekhaphethini.



Kufike kwinqanaba apho ndenze umqondiso kwaye ndawucofa ngesango ukuze ndiqhubeke ndikhumbuze kwaye ndigxininise ebantwini ukuba nceda bahloniphe imithetho yam yasekhaya ekugcineni ikhaphethi yam icocekile. Ngaba ndingekho ngqiqweni xa ndicela hayi izihlangu zalo naluphi na uhlobo ukuhamba kwikhaphethi yam ecocekileyo? Ndiziphendula njani zonke ezi zimvo zingasentla kunye neenkcazo ezenziwe? Kwakhona, xa ndicele umntu ukuba asuse izihlangu zakhe ndifumana u-Oh! Ndizakuba ngumzuzu nje apha okanye andihlali ixesha elide; kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuzisusa kwaye uzifake! njengesizathu sokungathobeli imithetho yam. Ungayilungisa njani le nto? Ifikile kwinqanaba nanini na xa umntu efuna ukuza ndigcwele uloyiko kuba umcimbi wezihlangu uhlala uyimfazwe. Nceda!



Ozithobileyo,

Ndidiniwe



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Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)

Molo okhethiweyo,

Ndigcina indawo yokuhlala izihlangu ngokwam (kwaye ndikhulele kwindlu yezihlangu). Ke, andicingi ukuba awunangqiqo-nangona ndicinga ukuba abahlobo bakho abakubiza ngokuba krwada kwaye bazolile kancinci.



Ngamanye amaxesha kunokunceda ukuziva ngathi awuwedwa; masiqale apho. Ndizamile kancinci, kwaye Uvoto luka-YouGov olwenziwe kunyaka ophelileyo babonisa ukuba uninzi (iipesenti ezingama-87) zabantu baseMelika bakhulula izihlangu emakhayeni abo. Phantse isinye kwisithathu uhlala usenza. Xa kuziwa kwiindwendwe, malunga neepesenti ezili-10 zihlala zinomgaqo-nkqubo wokukhulula izihlangu, ngelixa iipesenti ezili-11 zichaze ixesha elininzi kunye neepesenti ezili-13 ngamanye amaxesha. Ke uyinxalenye yeli qela li-10. Ndiyathemba ukwazi ukuba oko kukunika amandla kancinci kwinkolelo yakho.

Ukugcina indawo engenazihlangu kubalulekile kuwe-ndicinga ukuba malunga nokucoceka kunye nokukhuselwa kwi-domain yakho (oyichazileyo ukuba utyale ixesha kunye nemali kwi-shampooing). Ndiyayifumana. Ukuzingela kwam nangona kunjalo kukuba abahlobo bakho abazami ukungabinamdla, kodwa endaweni yoko bacinga kancinci. Ukuba ibilikhaya labo, bebeya kulixabisa ixesha eligcinwe ngokungathathi zihlangu zabo ukuphuma nokubaleka ukungena ngaphakathi kwaye babambe into elityelweyo, umzekelo, ngaphezulu koxolo lwengqondo ngokwazi ikhaphethi yabo ihlala ingonakaliswanga. Yiyo leyo yabo kuqala, kodwa hayi eyakho. Ngexesha elizayo xa uziva ungaqondwa, ndiyakucela ukuba, er, uzifake kwizihlangu zeendwendwe zakho okomzuzwana: Khumbula ukuba kungenzeka ukuba bacinga ukuba bangasabela njani kule meko, hayi ukuba ugwebe impendulo yakho.

Kodwa uvelwano ecaleni, unganyanzelisa imigaqo. Kwimeko nganye, ndingathi ukwahluka ngo, Uxolo ukuba unamathele, kodwa uyazi ukuba ndinjani ngezihlangu endlwini. Okanye: Xa ndifika endaweni yakho, ndithembisa ukulandela yonke imigaqo! Okanye: ukuba iyandonyusa, ndingathini ke! Kodwa ziyandikhathaza. Okanye: andizithandi nje izihlangu endlini, enkosi. Okanye: Ndiyazi ukuba ayenzelwanga wena, kodwa le yinto enkulu kakhulu kum-ndiyathemba ukuba ungayiqonda. Okanye: Uxolo kodwa le yindlu yezihlangu, enkosi kakhulu ngokuyihlonipha nokuba kuyintlungu. Yiba nobuhlobo, uqine, kwaye mfutshane.

Ukuba unako ukuyifumana (indawo kunye nobulumko bemali), unokucinga ngokugcina ezinye izitya zeendwendwe ngasemnyango ukuze kungabikho mntu uneenyawo ezibandayo.

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