Yama kwiCrabbiness yakho: Izinto ezili-10 zokwenza xa Usekhaya wedwa kwaye Uziva Unomsindo

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Mhlawumbi ndiyicurmudgeon apha, kodwa uxinzelelo lwangoku lwenkcubeko lokonwaba nokukhumbula kunye nokuNwaba ngokwengqondo konke. ixesha. - kakhulu. Kubonakala ngathi ukuziva nangayiphi na indlela ayamkelekanga ngokwenkcubeko, into yokuziva unetyala ngayo. Nangona kunjalo singabantu abanemvakalelo kwaye ubomi bunokuba nzima. Uziva ulusizi, unonkala, okanye (uphefumla) enomsindo kulungile ngamanye amaxesha! Hayi, ingaphezulu kokulungile, iyafuneka. Kunene? Ke masibe, uyazi, sivumele ukuba sincike kwi-crabbiness.



Ngaba olu luhlu luyinto encinci oyithandayo? Mhlawumbi ewe. Ngaba zizinto endifuna ukuzenza phambi kwabanye abantu? Kunzima hayi. Kodwa leyo yinxalenye enkulu malunga nexesha ekhaya sisodwa-sinenkululeko yokuyeka ukugada ngokupheleleyo kwaye sichaze indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngokwenyani, kwaye ayisoloko ikhumbula okanye bonwabile. Idama.



1. Khwaza.

Ngokwenyani, ndizimisele guys. Khwaza umfanekiso wabantu onomsindo. Khwaza iimpahla zakho ezingakulungelanga okanye igumbi elonakeleyo okanye onke amatyala aqholiweyo. Yell kwidesika yakho yangasemva uye enzonzobileni enkulu (okanye kwisakhiwo esingaphaya kwendlela). Owu, ngokuqinisekileyo khwaza kwisitya sakho. Vumela nje ngaphandle. Yintoni?! Sichitha ixesha elininzi sicinga ngendlela abanye abacinga ngayo ngathi; kusempilweni ukuthatha imizuzwana embalwa kwaye iflegi yethu engacacanga yomsindo wobulungisa iphaphazela ngokuvakalayo ngangokunokwenzeka. (Kwaye ndihlala ndithule kakhulu.)



2. Phonsa inqwaba yemiqamelo.

Sukujolisa kuyo nayiphi na into enokuqhekeka kuba oko kuya kubasa umlilo. Kodwa ngokwenene, kukho into ebaluleke kakhulu malunga nokuloba, amandla apheleleyo, inqwaba yemiqamelo eludongeni okanye emgangathweni okanye nantoni na oyithandayo. Ucinga ukuba ndiyadlala kodwa kuyamangalisa. Hlamba uphinde uphinde ude uzive ungcono.

3. Yitya nje i-ayisi khrim ebhokisini.

… Okanye wenze isitya sepasta sikhulu njengentloko yakho. Yitya nantoni na oyifunayo. Uchitha ixesha elininzi yonke imihla ucinga ukukhetha kwakho ukutya, ke shiya i-organic ye-organic kunye nekombucha yodwa (baya kukulinda, bandithembe) kwaye utye eyona nto ufuna ukuyitya. Yonwabela ukukhutshwa kwayo. Ngalo mzuzu, kulungile kuwe kuba kuya kukwenza uzive wonwabile. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka siziva sonwabile.



4. Blast umculo wakho ngamandla onke.

Kwaye, ngenxa yothando lukaThixo, cula kwaye udanise kwaye ulile ngokungathi ungamashiti amathathu emtshatweni womhlobo wakho wobuntwana ongamthandiyo kakhulu kodwa uhambe ngenxa yokuba babenayo kwisikhephe esinebha evulekileyo kunye notywala eshelufini ephezulu. Into endiyithethayo yile, hamba ngenene. Kwaye ukuba ukhathazekile ngabamelwane bakho, shiya inqaku, into enje ngabafana, ke 99% yexesha ndidlala umculo wam kumanqanaba aphakathi ukuya kwinqanaba eliphantsi ukuze ndibengummelwane onengcinga, kodwa namhlanje ndikhupha ijam kwaye Ndizokutsiba kakhulu. FYI nje. Ndiyathemba ukuba baya kuqonda. (Kwaye uyihlawule ngobubele xa ilixesha labo lokugruma.)

5. Songa ibhola esofeni yakho.

Bamba ingubo yakho oyithandayo kwaye ukhale kakhulu ukuba ufuna njalo, okanye ulale iiyure ezili-14, okanye ubukele iiyure ezi-6 zeGilmore Girls okanye nantoni na oyibonayo. Vala ifowuni yakho kwaye uzive zonke. Sukuba nexhala malunga nokuhlamba impahla ekufuneka kwenziwe okanye into yokwenza umthambo okanye iitekisi. Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhala okuhle ngu eyona nto inemveliso esinokuyenza.

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6. Inomsindo ucocekile into.

Umsindo uhlala undishiya nemithwalo yamandla amakhulu, kwaye ndiza kukuxelela into: Ukongezwa kwamandla kungakhokelela ekuphelisweni komsindo okugcweleyo. Le nayo ivelisa ngengozi, ke ukuphumelela kukuphumelela ngokwenene.

7. Yiba nencoko nawe.

Ngaba ukhathazekile ngumphathi wakho? Abahlobo bakho? Umntakwenu? Vumela ukuba bacinge ngokuchanekileyo indlela oziva ngayo kwi-rant ekhohlakeleyo- kunye neenyembezi ezizaliswe lilinye. Ke mhlawumbi uya kuba nakho ukuzola, kunye nemveliso nengxoxo ngobomi bokwenene wakuba uvumele iimvakalelo zakho. Okanye akunjalo! Uyakwenza.

8. Hlala ujonge.

Ngefestile. Akukho nto ngokukodwa. Kule imeyile ikhathazayo ufumene ukuba awukholelwa ukuba ufumene. Jongana nokuba ufuna ixesha elingakanani-kude kube kunciphe ulwamvila okanye uzive useluxolweni.

9. Ukufihla i-intanethi ngokufihlakeleyo.

Andisoze ngokwenene ndikhuphe ukukhathazeka kwam kwabanye abantu abonwabileyo, kuba loo nto iyinyani kwaye ayilotyala labo ukuba ndinobuqhophololo. Nangona kunjalo, uskrolela ngaphaya, yithi, u-Facebook kwaye uyeke umphunga ngokuthetha into ngokuvakalayo kuwe, Yima malunga nento 'onayo'! okanye Siyayifumana, abantwana bakho bagqibelele, umyeni wakho ukuthengele ubucwebe kwakhona 'Kuba', kwaye ikhitshi lakho elitsha gourmet zizinto amaphupha ezenziwe. Ukunyuka okukhulu kuwe, Martha! Ama-freakin amakhulu 'kuwe! inokuba luncedo kakhulu. Ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo kubalulekile. Nje ukuba iphume kwi-ether iphume kwinkqubo yakho.

Yenza combo ka # 1 ukuya ku # 9.

Qalisa ngokulahla umcamelo, emva koko uye ekucoceni ngomsindo nangomsindo, emva koko uhlale kwisofa kunye ne-donut yakho enkulu (ibhokisi yee-donuts?) Kwaye uvule umboniso wakho kwaye ulungile kuba . Ngokungaqhelekanga, loo mbulelo mdala uyakuthi uphinde uvuke kuba, hey, jonga kuwe: Uhamba emanzini aphithizelayo obomi njengenyaniso, uziva ungumntu, uhlala okwangoku kwaye uyayamkela into yokuba awonwabanga. Kwaye, ngokoluvo lwam, uyayikhumbula njengesihogo.

Ngaba ukhona kuni owakha waziva engenangqondo ngokungakhathali? Ndingathanda ukuva into oyenzayo! Shiya umyalezo kumagqabantshintshi kwaye masibe nononkala kunye.

UJulia Brenner

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UJulia ngumbhali kunye nomhleli ohlala eChicago. Ukwangumlandeli omkhulu wolwakhiwo oludala, uyilo olutsha, kunye nabantu abanokukhupha i-wink. Akangomnye wabo bantu.

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