IINDLELA EZI-7 ZOKUYILA ZOKUNXIBELELANA NABAHLOBO ABADE

Nantsi imeko endinokubheja ukuba nawe, ukhe wadlula kuyo kwezi nyanga zine zidlulileyo: Abahlobo bakho bacebisa ukwenza iqela levidiyo okanye iseshoni yomdlalo webhodi. Uthi, Ngokuqinisekileyo! … Kwaye emva koko uzifumanisa usoyika okanye uyiphepha amaxesha ngamaxesha… kwaye kwakhona. Ayikuko ukuba awubathandi abahlobo bakho okanye ufuna ukubabona (ewe uyayenza!). Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uziva nje ungahambanga ngasemva-uyandiva-Uyandiva? Ngaba olu nxibelelwano luyasebenza? Yima, hayi, hayi, kulungile, uthetha kuqala-leyo intle kakhulu yonke i-hangout ebonakalayo iza nezi ntsuku. Kungonwabisa, kodwa kunokuba nzima.

Ukuba ufikelele kwinqanaba apho ujonge ukunxibelelana nabahlobo abakude ngokukhuselekileyo ngendlela enobuchule obuncinci bokuyila, ke ndiye ndakugubungela. Nazi iimbono ezisixhenxe onokuzisebenzisa kunye neqela lakho lomhlobo ukuze uhlale uqhagamshele nokuba ukude.

Ezinye zezi zimvo zinokufuna ukuba uphume ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kancinci, kodwa kuya kufaneleka oko. Kwaye uninzi lwezi zimvo luvuselela ingqondo ngakumbi kunalo naliphi na ixesha elibi le-Zoom eyonwabisayo. Ngexesha elizayo xa umntu esithi, lixesha lobuso? Kwaye awufuni, kutheni ungacebisi enye yezi zimvo zingezantsi endaweni yoko? Inokwenza wonke umntu onwabe (kunye nokudikwa kancinci, naye).

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1. Qalisa iRecipe Chain

Ngaba unayo iresiphi oyithandayo? Abahlobo bakho mhlawumbi benza, nabo. Ke qala ikhonkco leresiphi! Yikhabe ngokuthumela (ewe, ngeposi) iresiphi ebhalwe ngesandla oyithandayo, kunye naziphi na iingcebiso, amaqhinga, kunye namanqaku (zive ukhululekile ukubandakanya naziphi na ii-anecdotes ezimnandi malunga neresiphi, nazo). Yalela nabani na omthumelayo ukuba azame ukuzenzela iresiphi ngokwabo. Nje ukuba benze loo nto, banokuthumela iresiphi yakho kunye nenye entsha abangathanda ukuyifaka komnye umntu. Nje ukuba ikhonkco leresiphi lifikelele kwiqela lakho lonke lomhlobo, umntu wokugqibela angalithumela kuwe. Kwaye kanjalo, unayo incwadi entle yokupheka engalibalekiyo.

2. Zama ukubhala iileta (Hayi, hayi ii-imeyile)

Ukuba uziva ngathi uchitha ixesha elininzi uthumela ii-imeyile kunangaphambili (* uphakamisa isandla *), emva koko zama ukubhala imbalelwano nabahlobo ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Kukho into engathandekiyo kunye nothando malunga nokubhala iileta ngexesha lembali. Kwaye ukuba awuqapheli, siphila kwixesha elihle eliyimbali. Zigalele ngekomityi yekofu okanye iti emnandi, vula umculo opholileyo, kwaye ubhalele (ngesandla!) Ileta eya kumhlobo osenyongweni.

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3. UkuTshintshana ukuHanjiswa okumangalisayo

Kanye ngenyanga, yenza inqaku kunye neqela labahlobo ukuba ukhethe amagama ngaphandle (umnqwazi) kwaye uthumele iiphakheji zokhathalelo omnye komnye. Ukuhanjiswa kuyonwabisa kakhulu kwezi ntsuku, kwaye oku kuya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo. Ungabandakanya iileta ezibhalwe ngesandla, izinto ezimnandi ezenziwe ngezandla, ukuphatha, iifoto, okanye enye into oyifunayo oyaziyo ukuba iza kwenza usuku lomhlobo!

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4. Yenza iScrapbook esihambayo

Ukuba ukhe wafuna ukwenza i-scrapbook kwaye awuzange ube nalo ixesha, kulungile… ngoku lixesha. Njengomsebenzi omnandi, thenga incwadi kwaye ugcwalise amaphepha ambalwa ngeenkumbulo zakho ozithandayo onazo ngawe nabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni. Emva koko, thumela kumhlobo kwaye ubenze bongeze iinkumbulo zabo abazithandayo, njalo njalo njalo njalo. Amathuba okuba uya kuthi uphele ngokugcina okukhethekileyo ngendlela emangalisayo oya kuthi uyixabise.

5. Thumela iiMemo zeLizwi

Le yohlobo lwe kubandakanya isikrini-kodwa hayi ngenene. Yeka ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye ne-DMing kwaye uthumele abantu iimemo zezwi. Ivakala ngathi kukunxibelelana ubuso ngobuso kunokuthumela imiyalezo kodwa ayifuni xesha lininzi okanye amandla njengefowuni yevidiyo okanye ukuxhoma ngaphandle. Kwaye awunyanzelekanga ukuba ujonge isikrini ngelixa usenza.

6. Zama umceli mngeni wexesha elide

Zama ukuseta umceli mngeni nabahlobo bakho oya kuhlala de kube sekupheleni kwalo nyaka (okanye ukuphela kwehlobo-nantoni na esebenzayo). Mhlawumbi nonke nifuna ukufunda olunye ulwimi, kutheni ke ningajongani ukuba ngubani onokuba sisithethi esibalaseleyo xa ucela umngeni? Mhlawumbi nonke niyabaleka, jonga ukuba ngubani onokubaleka imayile ekhawulezayo ukuphela kwenyanga. Nokuba yeyiphi na, yenze ibeyinto eyonwabileyo kwiqela lakho lonke lomhlobo kwaye wenze ibhaso lokuzonwabisa kulowo uphumeleleyo.

7. Gcina uhambo lwexesha elizayo kunye

Mhlawumbi ukhe wathetha ngokuya kutyelelo lomhlobo, kodwa ungaze wenze ixesha lokuyicwangcisela, ngokwezimali okanye ngenye indlela. Ke cinga ngokuthatha eli xesha ukuza nesicwangciso seqela sokugcina imali kwi ikamva abahlobo uhambo. Mhlawumbi uthathe isigqibo sokuba nonke niyeke ii-latte zeevenkile zekofu ezintle kwaye endaweni yoko nigcine imali yohambo lwentombazana unyaka. Nokuba yintoni, xoxani, thathani isigqibo, kwaye niyilandele kunye. Ngalo lonke ixesha ugcina enye i- $ 1, iya kukukhumbuza ngemini apho ungaphinda ubone abahlobo bakho.

UOlivia Muenter

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