Unokuba ngumntu osoloko esithi Ziphi izitshixo zam okanye unokuba luhlobo lomntu olahlekelwa kuphela yinto yonke ngoku (kodwa uyilahle ngokwenene, kulungile) - iziphumo zihlala zifana. Ixesha elilahlekileyo, unxunguphalo kwaye, ukuba ndim, uloyiko oluncinci olukubamba kancinci njengoko uzibuza, iphi i-heck yam _______?!
Okokuqala, qala apho ikhoyo kufanele kuba
Unokunyanzelwa ukuba ukhangele into kwindawo yokugqibela okhumbula ukuyishiya. Kodwa imemori yinto eguqukayo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ibubuxoki. Endaweni yoko, qala kwindawo leyo kufanele kuba. Ngaba ubuzama ukugcina isipaji sakho kwindawo enye yonke imihla? Ngaba amaqhosha akho ahlala engxoweni yakho? Jonga kula mabala kuqala, hayi apho ucinga ukuba ugqibele ukubonwa. (Bangaphi kuthi abaye bazikhangela kwaye bazikhangela izitshixo / isipaji kuphela ukuze bazifumane apho bebefanele ukuba bahlala khona?)
lithetha ntoni inani lama-222
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Elissa Crowe)
Emva koko, buyela apho uqale khona
Sifumene le ngcebiso kwiReddit kwi lo msonto Ukusuka kumsebenzisi Iibhenki_baps kwaye wafumanisa ukuba iluncedo kakhulu:
Nanku umthetho endihlala kuwo xa ndikhangela izinto: Ukuba awufumani nto, buyela emva ujonge kwakhona (nzima) kwindawo yokuqala obukhe wayijonga. Ngokucacileyo oku kusebenza kuphela xa ujonga kwiindawo ekunzima ukuzikhangela ekuqaleni (njengedrawer emdaka), kodwa kum isebenza kakhulu. Ndicinga ukuba inkqubo yokucinga yinto efana nokujonga kwasekuqaleni, kodwa hayi inzima kuba andothuki okwangoku, emva koko jonga kuyo yonke indawo endinokucinga ngayo ngokuzilahlela okukhulayo.
Ekugqibeleni, gubungela i-radius yeenyawo ezimbini
Amarhe okuba xa ulahlekelwa zizinto, awulahlekwa zizo ngaphaya kwendlu; zihlala ziisentimitha ezimbalwa ukusuka apho ubucinga ukuba ziya kuba khona kodwa awubonanga nje ukuba ukhangelo luqale nini. Ke musa ukwenza indawo ezininzi xa ukhangela kuqala-yenza iindawo ezimbalwa zokujonga indawo ezilahlekileyo.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Jessica Isaac)
Kwaye, ezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukunceda ukunqanda ixesha elizayo…
Gcina imiphezulu icacile kwaye ingaxinani
Mhlawumbi uyazi ukuba oku kuza. Icacile kodwa ingcebiso ebalulekileyo. Izinto ezincinci onazo kumphezulu wakho-itafile yakho yekofu, ikhawuntara yakho yasekhitshini kunye nokunye-ithuba elincinci lokufihla ngengozi loo nto uyifunayo, okanye loo nto ufuna ukudityaniswa kuyo yonke into yakho. Iseti yezitshixo kwitafile yokutya engenanto kulula kakhulu ukuzibona kuneseti yezitshixo ezingcwatyelwe phantsi kweposi yeveki.
Ngaba ngokuthe ngqo amakhaya ezinto ezibalulekileyo
Ewe kunjalo, lelona cebiso lililo lokufumana izinto zakho ezijikeleze indlu ngokulula? Ukungaphulukani nabo kwasekuqaleni. Ke ube neendawo ezikhethekileyo KAKHULU ukuba izinto zakho zihlala. Ungazixeleli izitshixo ezikwikhredithi. Zixelele ukuba baya kwitreyi ehlala kwicala lasekunene lecredenza. Sukubeka nje isipaji sakho kumagwegwe asepasejini. Soloko uyibeka kwikhonkco lasekhohlo kakhulu. Olo hlobo lokucaciswa luya kunceda ukuqinisa le mizi yezinto kwaye ngethemba lokuba inokukunceda uhlakulele umkhwa wokuzibeka apho.
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