Ngaba amakhwenkwe / amantombazana abelana ngamagumbi okulala yingxaki?

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

Sibona amagumbi okulala amaninzi ekwabelwana ngawo apha kunyango lweZindlu. Uninzi olungagungqiyo lolwabantakwenu abesini esifanayo, kodwa ngakumbi xa iintsapho zihlala kumakhaya amancinci nakwiiflethi, kuhlala kuyinto efanelekileyo (okanye kuphela) ukuba umzalwana nodade babelane kwigumbi lokulala. Kwiveki ephelileyo kwi-Bunkmate kaMzalwana wam, INew York Times Igalelo uMichael Tortorello ubhale malunga neminye imiba yabazalwana noodade ababelana igumbi elinye. U-Slate ka-Katy Waldman uphendule ngesiqwenga sakhe, Yintoni ejongene nayo INew York Times Inxalenye yabazalwana kunye noodade ababelana ngokulala?



Ke yintoni isivumelwano?



Kwi Bunkmate kaMzalwana wam , Uluhlu lweTortorello lubudala, isini, amandla, kunye nobuntu njengezinto kwigumbi ekwabelwana ngalo, kodwa eyona nto ayithathayo kukuziphatha ngokwesini kwabantwana.



Kukho isithethi solu hlobo loxinzelelo: ick. Ukuyipela nje kancinci, ngaba igumbi lokulala ngesondo elixubekileyo limele umngcipheko wokukhula kwabantwana kwezentlalo nakwezesondo?

Njengoko umbhali esitsho, uxinzelelo lwe-icky yingxaki yokuqala yehlabathi. Ikwayingxaki yendawo encinci, ngakumbi kubahlali basezidolophini apho indawo iza nepremiyamu enkulu. Inqaku liphetha ngodliwanondlebe lwabantakwenu abakhule bebelana ngegumbi e-NYC, kwaye kuvakala ngathi balungile.

Kodwa luhlobo lwenqaku elingaqhelekanga, kwaye yile nto iphawulwe nguWaldman Yintoni into ejongene nalawo maNqaku eNew York Times kubantakwethu noodade ababelana ngendawo yokulala? Uthatha i-NYT ayinikeze umsebenzi ngobunyikima bayo kunye nokuhlala kwayo ukuya apho kwaye ichaze into ecinga ukuba lolona loyiko lokwenyani, endaweni yoko inyanzelisa abazali ukuba bakhathazeke ngenye indlela abanokuthi baphazamise ngayo abantwana babo.



Ithetha ntoni xa ubona i-911

Nokuba kukhethwe okanye kunyanzelekile, uninzi lweentsapho zinabantakwenu abelana ngamagumbi, kodwa ngaba isini sabantakwabo sibenza nzima isigqibo? Ngaba usapho lwakho lusebenze kwithemba lokulala ngokwesini esahlukileyo? Wenzeni? Isebenza njani?

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