Masijongane nayo: ukuhamba kuhamba. Kwaye xa ufumanisa ukuba kufuneka ufuduke ngexesha elifutshane elinoburhalarhume — yithi, veki nje okanye ezimbini — izinto ziye zifike ngokwenene .
Yonke le nkqubo iziva ingaphaya kwaye ibubusuku ngenxa yokuba, itshilo itshomi yam uJanine Doyle, ingcali kwezentengiso nakwezonxibelelwano, othe, emva kokutshintsha ngesiquphe kwimeko yezindlu, wagqiba ekubeni afuduke eIllinois aye eVirginia ukuze abe kufutshane nosapho.
Ngokwabo bakwenzileyo, ukuhamba kwexesha elifutshane akunakuze kube noxinzelelo. Nangona kunjalo, bathi kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezinokuthintela umcimbi ukuba uzive ukhathazeke ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuhamba kunokuba kubiza kakhulu okanye kungabizi — kodwa akukhathaliseki nokuba yintoni, kuxinzeleleka! Utsho uAlex Frenkel, omnye wabahlobo bam othe wakhawuleza wafudukela eLos Angeles esuka eChicago ekuqaleni kwalo nyaka emva kokufumana umsebenzi wamaphupha kwimveliso yeendaba. Yenza eyona nto ilungileyo kuwe ukunciphisa uxinzelelo.
Kodwa zeziphi, ngokuchanekileyo, zeziphi iindlela zokunciphisa ubunzima beemvakalelo zokuhamba? Apha, uFrenkel noDoyle badlulisa ezona zifundo ziluncedo abazifundileyo kumava abo behamba umgama omde ngexesha elifutshane. (Uya kubona ukuba zizifundo ezilungileyo kakhulu kubomi ngokubanzi, nazo):
Myeke umthwalo wakho owongezelelweyo
Ukuhamba ngokulula xa unezinto ezimbalwa zokuhambisa. Eli lixesha lokucoca ngokukhawuleza kukaMarie Kondo.
Lahla YONKE into onokuyenza… nantoni na ongafuniyo ukuyirhuqa kwilizwe liphela kwaye unyuke izinyuko ezintathu emva koko ubeke kude. Emva koko nikela okuseleyo kwaye wamkele ukuya kwikhaya elihle, utshilo uFrenkel.
Kuhlala kukho ukhetho olungaphaya kokufanelekileyo
Kwabo basazingelayo ezindlwini, ukutyikitya ukubona izinto ezingabonwayo kunokoyikisa! Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba uya kuphelela ngokuzenzekelayo kwimeko yokuphila embi. Nangona ingenakulungeleka, ngokuqinisekileyo inokwenzeka. Ukuba unayo i-pal kwisixeko oya kuso, bacele ukuba bakhenkethe iindawo kwaye bathembe isigwebo sabo. Sebenzisa itekhnoloji kwaye nabarhwebi bakuthathe kutyelelo lweFaceTime. Ngaphandle koko, yenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwezindlu zexeshana kunye nesibini (nangona kunjalo, singekho uxinzelelo) xa sele ufudukile.
Ndiyathemba okona kulungileyo, kodwa zilungiselele okona kubi
Ukuba usebenzisa ukuhambisa kobuchwephesha, yenza ngokupheleleyo uphando lwakho, jonga uphononongo, kwaye ufumane iikowuti ezininzi. Kodwa mhlawumbi uyazi yonke loo nto sele ikho. Into ongekhe uyiqonde de kube lixesha kakhulu kukuba awunalo ixesha lokugcina xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Yithathe kuDoyle, ofumanise ukuba ukubekelwa kwakhe iveni kuye kwarhoxiswa… ngentsasa yokuhamba kwakhe. Ngelixa ujonga inkangeleko yokuhamba kwenkampani, cela inkampani nganye ukuba ubukho bazo bukhangeleka njani ngosuku lwakho lokuhamba. Ukuchonga ukuba ngubani oshukumayo onokuba negumbi kwisileyiti sakhe kunokukunceda uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngubani oza kuba ngumnxeba wakho wokuqala kwimeko kaxakeka. Inokukugcina iiyure ezimbalwa xa ibaluleke kakhulu.
Kukho ixesha lokonga nexesha lokuhlawula
Ukuhamba kuthatha imali-rhoqo ngaphezulu kunokuba ubulindele kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo indlela ngakumbi ukuba uyenza ngokukhawuleza.
Ngoku lixesha lokuntywila kuloo mali yolondolozo / engxamisekileyo kwaye ungajongi emva! UFrenkel uthi.
Ukuba ujonga ukuqesha inkampani ehambayo, yazi ukuba izakhiwo zamaxabiso zihambelana ngqo nendlela eziza kulichaphazela ngayo inqanaba loxinzelelo lwakho: Eyona ndlela inexabiso eliphantsi-ukugcina iveni ehamba kunye nokwenza ngokwakho-kufuna ukuba wenze owona msebenzi. Ukukhetha okuphakathi kwinqanaba lokususa uxinzelelo, kodwa kusafuna ukuba ubhetyebhetye. Umzekelo, uya kuba nolawulo oluncinci ngexesha lokufika kwaye ungaphela ngaphandle kwezinto zakho okomzuzwana. Kwaye, ewe, akukho nto unokuyenza ngaphandle kokusebenza kwaye ube nokuhambisa izinto, uhambise, ukhuphe iibhokisi zakho-kodwa kuya kufuneka ubhatale.
Kwaye ukuba uhlawula abahamba phambili, ungalindeli ukuba yonke into ihambe ngokutyibilikayo: UFrenkel uchithe ipeni elungileyo kwizithuthi zakhe kwaye basaphetha bepakisha ibrashi yakhe yamazinyo ecaleni kwebrashi yakhe yangasese yangasese-gross!
Xa ufudukela emsebenzini omtsha, indlela elungileyo yokunciphisa isiphumo sokuhamba kwisipaji sakho kukuthetha-thethana ngokuhamba nomvuzo wakho. Qaphela: Ukusukela ngo-2018, Abarhafi abanakho ukufaka ibango lokuncitshiswa kweendleko zokuhamba , Ngoko ke yenza uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kwiingxoxo zakho ukuba kunokwenzeka! UFrenkel ucebisa ukuba ufunde ukuprinta okuhle kwimivuzo yakho, njengoko kunokuza nokusikelwa umda kwaye kufuna ukuba uchithe imali encinci epokothweni.
Zikhathalele
Ukuba kukho into enye ekufuneka uyenzile kuluhlu lwakho lokutshekisha, zikhathalele. Ungathenga enye ikhompyuter, iseti yefanitshala, okanye ugqibe ikhabethe, kodwa ngekhe uthenge enye.
Nyusa amayeza akho onyango ukuba uyafuna-ayisiyonto inzima ukuba ngamava abantu ekufuneka behambile bodwa ukuba banokuyiphepha, utshilo uDoyle.
Ukuba unyango alukho kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, zama ukunikezela nje imizuzu eli-15 yonke imihla ngexesha lenkqubo yokwenza into ehlaziyayo. Nokuba kukwenza i ukucamngca , ukufunda incwadi oyithandayo, okanye nokuba uthathe nje ishawa ende, kunokuba luncedo ekuzilungiseleleni ngexesha loxinzelelo. (Ufuna ezinye izimvo malunga nendlela yokuziqhelanisa nokuzikhathalela? Nazi iindlela ezili-10 ezilungileyo.)
UDoyle ukwabongoza abantu ukuba bazivuze xa konke kusenziwa kwaye kwenziwe: Ukuba uhamba neqabane, cwangcisa ubusuku bomhla. Ukuba uhamba wedwa, cwangcisa ukuthatha usuku lokuba ngumkhenkethi kwisixeko sakho esitsha okanye ubhukishe umyalezo-yenza nje into!
Eyona nto intle ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza? Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ziqale, ziphelile! Uyakudlula ekumungeni-khumbula nje ukugcina ukuphefumla!
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