Izinto ezili-10 ezihonjisiweyo Amadoda * Vele Ungaqondi

Fumana Inombolo Yakho Yengelosi

* Kulungile, eneneni, yindoda enye.



Usenokuba uqaphele i-asterisk kwisihloko. Kungenxa yokuba ndaziva ndinesidingo sokuyiqala le nto ngokuchaza ukuba amadoda ngenjongo yeli nqaku abhekisa ngokukodwa kum. Eyakho I-S.O. (okanye umntakwethu, okanye utata, okanye wena, ukuba uyindoda) unokuba uhambelana ngakumbi nokuhonjiswa, ke nceda uthathe ingxelo yengubo ngentwana yetyuwa.



Ngaphambi kokuba ndingene kwi-nitty gritty, nangona kunjalo, mandithi ndinethamsanqa kakhulu. U-SO wam, umakhi osakhasayo onotyekelo oluncinci, akananto ingako ayithethayo malunga nendlela esihombisa ngayo ikhaya lethu (ngokhetho, hayi ngomyalelo). Ukuba kuthengwa okukhulu, sixoxa kakuhle ngento esesandleni, kodwa ngezinto ezincinci zokuhombisa apha naphaya, uyayithemba i-aesthetic yokuhonjiswa kwam kwaye ndibaleka zasendle kwaye ndikhulule ngento endiyongeza kwindlu yethu. Nangona kunjalo, ngalo lonke ixesha, xa ekhubeka kwiglasi yokuphakamisa ubukhulu obubekwe kwitafile esecaleni okanye kwiisofa kwisofa njengelifu lephupha (amagama am, hayi awakhe), ubuso bakhe bujikajika, phantse njengo ukuba akaqinisekanga ngento adibana nayo. Ngaba unayo iincwadana ezincinci ekufuneka uzifundile ngale glasi yokuqaqambisa iglasi? uya kubuza. Hayi, kukuhombisa kunye nokuhlekisa! Ndiza kuthetha.



Awu, nantsi, ndikubonisa ngezinto ezili-10 kwikhaya lam ekwabelwana ngalo ezenza ukuba intombazana yam ithi hmm? (ngezicaphulo zokwenyani malunga nezinto ezithethiweyo.)

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Jessica Isaac)



Amakhandlela

Ngaba unayo indawo yokuhlala?

Ndinamakhandlela amaninzi endiwatshisa rhoqo. Ngapha koko, zine ezivuthayo ngeenxa zonke kum njengoko ndibhala oku. I-S.O yam ayikuqondi oku. Kuye, ikhandlela elinye elitshisa ivumba elinye lamkelekile, kodwa isiqingatha sedazini kwisininzi seziqholo yinto engaphaya kokuqonda kwakhe.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: UKim marcelo )



Imiqamelo yokuphosa ngokuhombisa

Ukuba ibhegi yokuthenga kungcono ungabinayo eminye imithwalo yokuphosa kuyo.

Ithetha ntoni i-111 amanani eengelosi

Ukuba ndingabeka le kuluhlu kabini, ndingathanda. Ngapha koko, eli nqaku ngoku linesihloko esithi Izinto ezili-11 Amadoda * Angaqondi malunga nokuHombisa kweKhaya. Ndiyakwazi okanye ndingasoloko ndihamba rhoqo kwiivenkile zokuhombisa ekhaya kwaye ndibonise ukubuyela ekhaya ndineebhegi ezandleni zezinto ezintle. Into yokuqala ephuma emlonyeni webae xa endiva ndiqokelela izinyuko? Bona ngasentla. Icala lam lesofa ngoku liqukethe imithwalo yokuphosa; yakhe? Unothi. Kwaye uyayithanda njalo.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Natalie Jeffcott)

Ubugcisa

Kutheni ufuna iklip yobhedu enkulu?

Molo igama lam ndinguArlyn, kwaye ndinomlutha kwizinto zokuhombisa ezingaqhelekanga. Ingqokelela yam yeziqhamo zesinyithi? Akayifumani. Ipeyinti yam yobhedu eyothusayo eyi-10-intshi ende endiyifumene kwivenkile ethengisa ukutya eyi- $ 1 ngoku ehleli kwishelufa yam yeencwadi. Ayifumani nalo. Kuhle, kulungile? Kwaye konke oko ndiza kukuthetha ngako.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: U-Lauren Kolyn)

Iincwadi zoyilo

Kodwa awuzifundi, ngoko yintoni inqaku?

Le inokuba iyabacaphukisa abantu abaninzi ngakumbi kune-SO yam, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ngokupheleleyo kwiincwadi zetheyibhile zekofu, ngakumbi uyilo kunye nobugcisa obahlukeneyo, kufuneka zisetyenziswe naphi na , nangona ndivuma… andizifundi rhoqo. Zezona zithuthi zilungileyo zokuyila ii-objets d'art zam! Kwigumbi lam lokuhlala ndedwa, ndineminyaka engama-23.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Ifoto yaseBelathee )

Izitya ezincinane / izitya

Kutheni ungafumani itreyi enkulu elingana ngakumbi? Oku akunantsingiselo.

Ukubandakanyeka kwam :: ukukhohlela kwiminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo ukukhwehlela ::, ndanikwa izitya ezininzi zeringi. Kukho isitya sentliziyo esiluhlaza kwindawo yam yokulala ebusuku, eluhlaza eluhlaza kunye negama uNksk kwiskripthi segolide ngekhitshi lam lokuntywila, enye ibekwe ngokungacwangciswanga ngaphandle kwesizathu kwinqanaba lesibini le tafile yam yekofu (inyani, andinalwazi lokuba kutheni Pha). Kukho ezinye ezithe saa, kodwa nganye nganye kwezi zitya zincinci zincinci zibambe iringi yokuzibandakanya, eyam S.O. uyazibuza ukuba kutheni le nto ibonakala ingenaxabiso, inenjongo enye ikho ukuqala ngayo.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: UCathy Pyle)

I-Plethora yeeMigs ezintle

Kodwa ungasela kuphela imagi enye ngexesha.

Ukuba awukakaqokeleli ngoku, ndiyazithanda izinto. Intliziyo yam ethanda ukuhombisa iyabetha ingqokelela. Vula ikhabhathi yam yesiselo kwaye ubale inani elipheleleyo leekomityi ezili-17 zazo zonke iimilo, iipateni kunye nobukhulu. Le yindlu enye esela ikofu (ungaphezulu kwendoda yeti), kunqabile ukuba ndibaneendwendwe ezili-16 ezidinga icaffeine kwangoko, kutheni ke zineekomiki ezininzi? Kungenxa yokuba, njengoko ndithanda izinto, ndikwathanda ukhetho.

Ithetha ukuthini i-444
Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Kristan Lieb)

Ukuhonjiswa kwamaXesha athile

Khange ufumane zihombiso kunyaka ophelileyo?

Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi i-grinch epheleleyo kwaye ubambe uvuyo lweKrisimesi ngaphandle komphefumlo wabathandi? Babuze lo mbuzo ungasentla xa besithi ngochulumanco Owu, andinakulinda isitokhwe ukuya kwiiholide! xa ubona umboniso omkhulu wezinto zokuhombisa, izibane, iintambo, kunye nemithi yokuthambisa imithi ngexesha lohambo oluqhelekileyo lweempelaveki ukuya eCostco.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: UFranke Chung)

I-Sheers

Ukuba sele unamakhethini, kutheni ufuna amakhethini angenantsingiselo?

Kuba, sithandwa, ndithanda ukukhanya kwelanga kungene ngobunono kuwo, ukuhlamba igumbi ngemiqadi ethambileyo njengentsomi, yiyo loo nto.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: UWilliam Strawser)

IiRugs eziLayekileyo

Ukusukela nini umbhoxo omnye awonelanga kwakhona?

Kuza ixesha kubo bonke ubomi babathandi bokuhombisa xa bekhubeka kumbhoxo wokubaleka-ukubaleka abanokukwazi ukuwufumana kwigumbi elincinci kakhulu-kwigumbi elingu-5 × 8, ke kufuneka ubekiwe ngaphezulu kakhulu kwaye uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwe-sisal olunobuhlobo ngakumbi. Ibali lokwenyani.

Thumela umfanekiso Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso

(Ityala lemifanekiso: Nancy Mitchell)

Izibane ezininzi

Andinangxaki ngokukhanyisa, izibane nje ezingasetyenziswayo.

Ke kuya kuthini ukuba ndinezibane ezintathu ngoku ezihleli kwikona yegumbi lam lokuhlala ngaphandle kwee-shades, ezingasetyenziswanga? Balinde ikhaya endiya kubafumana ngenye imini! Lowo usefoyer engakhange ifakwe nasezindongeni ngenxa yokuba kungekho ndawo ikufuphi? Ndiza kwenza le nto ndiyifunayo, kuba ibonisiwe kwaye oh intle kakhulu!

UArlyn Hernandez

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