Okulungileyo, okubi nokubi: Unyaka omnye Ukwabelana ngegumbi lokulala nomntwana

Abanye abazali babelana kwigumbi nosana lwabo ngokuzikhethela (ngakumbi abo bakhetha ukulala kunye) nabanye ngokunyanzelwa ukuba bahlala kwikhaya elincinci. Mhlawumbi unesicwangciso sexesha elide sokungena kwikhaya elinamagumbi amabini okulala, kodwa uhlala apho ukhoyo ngoku. Okanye, njengosapho lwam, awukulungelanga ukuba nosana lwakho lwabelana kwigumbi nomntwana omdala. Nokuba ungaziphi na izizathu, ukuba unomdla okanye uxhalabile ukuba kunjani ukubanjwa kosana lwakho, ndinikezela ngeakhawunti yam yonyaka ekwabelaneni igumbi lethu lokulala nosana lwethu - elungileyo, elibi nelibi.

Okulungileyo

Masiqale ngezinto ezintle.

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• Ukuba ungumntu oxhalabisayo (okona kuyinyani kubazali bokuqala), unokuqinisekiswa ukuba nosana lwakho lusondele apho ungababona khona okanye uve ukuphefumla kwabo nanini na ufuna.
• Awunayo kude xa usana lwakho lukufuna. Oku kunokuba luncedo kubazali abanengxaki yokulala kwakhona emva kokuba bevukile.
• Kusenokwenzeka ukuba awudingi kuthenga esweni umntwana. Usenokufuna enye ye-naps, kodwa asikhange siyisebenzise enye okoko yazalwa intombi yethu.
• Bendixakeke kakhulu ngexa lokukhulelwa kwam kwaye, ngaphandle komsebenzi wam njengomhleli webhlog yasekhaya / yoyilo, ibiyinto ekhululekileyo ukuba ungacingi ngokuhombisa indawo yokugcina abantwana.

Okubi

Mhlawumbi igama elibi libukhali; mhlawumbi ukucaphukisa okanye ukuphazamiseka kubhetele. Nazi ezinye zezinto ezimbi zokwabelana kwigumbi nomntwana

• Ukukhathazeka ngengxolo esiyenzayo. Mna nomyeni wam asirhona, kodwa ngamnye kuthi ubenomkhuhlane kule sizini, kubandakanya nokukhohlela okuqatha. Amaxesha aliqela enye yokukhohlela kwethu ivusa umntwana kwaye kube kanye okanye kabini omnye wethu wakhetha ukulala esofeni njengenyathelo lokuthintela. Siphinda singene kwigumbi lethu lokulala ebusuku kwaye sizame ukuntywila ebhedini. Le ayisiyonto inkulu, kodwa kungcono ndingahambi ngathi ndiyinjaja emva kwentsimbi yesi-8. Kwaye mhlawumbi uyazibuza malunga nengxolo evela… ukusondelelana. Xa uhlala kwindlu encinci kakhulu, olo hlobo lwengxolo lunokuba yinkxalabo nokuba uyabelana kwigumbi lakho okanye hayi ukuze kungafani kangako. Kodwa, ewe, ukuba nosana lwakho kufutshane kunokukwenza uziqonde.
  
• Ukuvuswa yingxolo yosana: Ndingalinganisa intombi yethu ngokulala okanye ukulala okungcono. Ulala ngcono kunonyana wethu ngexesha elifanayo kwaye uhamba ngamaxesha amnandi okulala ngokupheleleyo ubusuku bonke, kodwa ukuvusa enye okanye ezimbini kuhlala kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ukongeza kukuvuka okupheleleyo (esiya kuthi sijongane nokuba ebekwigumbi lethu okanye akunjalo), uhlala esenza ingxolo ebuthongweni bakhe - ngamanye amaxesha erhona xa enokubanda kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ii-coos ezithandekayo ezibonisa ukuba uvukile, kodwa engakhalazi kwaye uya kuphinda azokulala kwakhona. Umyeni wam uhlala elala kwezi ndidi zengxolo, kodwa bendihlala ndilala kancinci kwaye intle yonke incwina yakhe iyandivusa.
  
• Umatshini wengxolo: Kuba igumbi lethu lokulala liphambi kwendlu yethu yokuqala, sagqiba kwelokuba sisebenzise umatshini omhlophe onengxolo ukucima isitalato kunye nengxolo yokungena. Ukuba besingabelani kwigumbi lokulala nentombi yethu ngekhe siyenze le nto. Ayisiyonto inkulu, kodwa mna nomyeni wam asikuthandi ngokukodwa ukulala ngengxolo emhlophe.
  
• Uqeqesho lokulala: Sinethamsanqa lokuba intombi yethu ibilele ngokwaneleyo kwasekuqaleni kwaye khange senze naluphi na uqeqesho lokulala naye (ngokungafaniyo nonyana wethu olala uqeqeshiwe kwiinyanga ezintandathu. Ukuba wenza into efana neCIO Khawufane ucinge ukuba kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukumamela ukukhala kwabo (ungasathethi ke ukuzama ukulala ngayo) ukuba uneeenyawo nje endaweni yegumbi okanye ezimbini kude.
  
• Izibane ngaphandle. Mhlawumbi intombi yethu ibingazukuvuka ukuba siyalayita xa sizokulala thina, kodwa khange sikuvavanye oku. Sihlala singena ngokuzolileyo ebumnyameni, sisebenzisa iiapps zethu zelitha ze-iPhone ukukhokela indlela. Akukhange kube kubi, kodwa akunakukhetha. Kwaye ndiyakukhumbula ukufunda incwadi yamaphepha nesibane ngaphambi kokulala. Ndiyazi ukuba ndingafumana isibane sencwadi okanye ndifunde kwifowuni yam, kodwa ayifani.
• Kutshixiwe . Akunjalo ngokoqobo, kodwa ndicinga kabini malunga nokungena kwigumbi lethu lokulala ukuze ndifumane into xa elele emini okanye emva kokulala. Ubukhulu becala akakhange avuke xa ndinayo, kodwa ndiye ndihlole uluhlu lwengqondo xa ndimbeka phantsi ukuze ndibone ukuba akukho nto ndiyifunayo ngaphandle kwegumbi lokulala kuqala.

Kwikona yethu intombi yethu lokulala. Andazi ukuba uza kuhlala ixesha elingakanani kwigumbi lethu kunye nathi (Ityala lemifanekiso: UCarrie McBride)

Ububi

Kubi? Akukho nto imbi. Jonga nje le ertyisi intle. Ukwabelana ngegumbi lakho nosana lwakho kunokuba kungakulungeli kodwa KUHLE. Ungayenza. Sukuba nexhala. Endaweni yewotshi yealam, ndivuswa intsasa nganye kukugigitheka okumnandi. Isenokungavakali kamnandi ukuba bekukwi-5 am endaweni ye-7 am, kodwa zimnandi.

Yintoni elandelayo endlwini yethu?

Ekugqibeleni, intombi yethu iya kungena egumbini lomntakwabo. Kunzima ukwazi ukuba leliphi ixesha elifanelekileyo. Uxakekile, uyasebenza enkulisa emva kwemisebenzi yesikolo ke sifuna ukukhusela ukulala kwakhe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ulele kakhulu ubusuku bonke ke ndiyathemba ukuba siza kulwenza ngokukhawuleza kungekudala. Unyana wethu, emnye, unemincili ngomntu ohlala naye!

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Okukwintsusa:

Amava akho okwabelana kwigumbi lokulala nosana lwakho aya kuxhomekeka ikakhulu kwindlela abalala ngayo (kwaye ndinoluvo lokuba ngelixa uqeqesho lokulala okanye ezinye iindlela zinokunceda, abanye abantwana balala ngcono kunabanye, ixesha.) Kwaye umhle kanjani umntu olalayo. Xa umntwana ezalwa, inkqubo yokulala kosapho lwakho intle iphuma ngefestile kwaye kuvela entsha kwaye iqhubeka iguquka (kwaye ayisoloko ikwindlela elungileyo) ekwabelaneni igumbi lakho nomntwana yinxalenye nje yolu hlengahlengiso.

UCarrie McBride

Umnikeli

UCarrie wayengumhleli wonyango lweZindlu kunye nomhleli wokuqala woNyango lweeNdawo zeMedia kwindawo yabantwana: Ohdeedoh. Uhlala eBrooklyn nomyeni wakhe nabantwana bakhe ababini ..