Alice othandekayo,
Mna nesoka lam besihlala kwigumbi elincinci, elithandekayo unyaka okanye ngoku. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo abamelwane abatsha beza apha ngezantsi kwethu kwaye sinokubava bethetha- hayi lonke igama, kodwa ukumbombozela kweencoko zabo. Ngamanye amaxesha sinokuva ukuhamba okanye iikhabhathi, kodwa eyona nto indifumanayo kukuthetha.
Sinendawo yombhoxo kwigumbi lokuhlala elinomthi okhuni, kodwa igumbi lethu lokulala, apho sinokuthi sive ngalo ngamanye amaxesha, likhaphethi ngoko andiqinisekanga ukuba ngaba yinto eninzi leyo. Xa bebenobusuku obukhulu kakhulu sithethile nabo kwaye banobubele obumangalisayo kwaye banokulunga. Kodwa uthetha njani nomntu onelizwi elikhulu eliya phezulu? Ngaba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuva abamelwane bethetha phantsi?
Ndinomhlobo apha esakhiweni ongamva abamelwane bakhe bethetha- kodwa uneflethi egcwele ikhaphethi kwaye ayikokuphela kwepaseji apho kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho indawo engaphezulu yesandi sokuhamba? Ndicela ingcebiso zenu ngoba lento indiqhubela impambano! Ayikhathazi inkwenkwe endithandana nayo. Ngaba le yinto ekufanele ndiyiyeke kuba iqhelekile, okanye ngaba kufuneka ndithethe nomnini-mhlaba? Ukuba ndithetha nomnini-mhlaba, ndiza kuthini? Naliphi na kunye nazo zonke iingcebiso ziya kuthakazelelwa kakhulu ukuze ndibeke olu xinzelelo ebhedini!
Ityikityiwe,
Amantongomane
Amantongomane,
Oku kuvakala ngathi kukutsala. Ukuva abamelwane bakho, nokuba usenza izinto eziqhelekileyo ngexesha leeyure eziqhelekileyo, kuyacaphukisa. Kodwa zama ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zabo - ukuba uyakhalaza malunga nento esisiseko njengokuthetha (nokuba ungakwicala elikhulu) ubabeka kwindawo yokuxhalaba malunga nokukhathaza ngokuhamba nje malunga nobomi bemihla ngemihla. Musa ukubenza bazive ngathi kufuneka bahambe ngethontshi kwaye basebenzise iitoni ezingacacanga ekhayeni labo.
Inokwenzeka ukuba le yingxaki yesakhiwo esibi kunye nesakhiwo hayi iimpazamo zabamelwane bakho. Ukuba unako, njengoko usitsho, yiyeke uyenze. Okanye uphando ngeendlela zokuthintela isandi. Mhlawumbi into elula njengomculo odlala phantsi ngasemva emini iya kukuphazamisa kule nto. Ukuba, emva kwexesha, ayiphucuki kwaye iyakuthintela ukuba wonwabele ubomi ekhaya, cinga ngokuhamba.
Uthando,
UAlice
p.s Bafundi, nicinga ntoni? Ngaba unelungelo lokukhalaza okanye kufuneka afune indlela yokuphila nayo?
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