Iintshukumo eziNcinci ezi-10 ezinokuphucula imood yakho

Ndihlala ndixelela abantwana bam ukuba asisoloko sikhetha iimvakalelo zethu, kodwa sikhetha into esiyenzayo nabo. Ngamanye amaxesha ezo mvakalelo, nangona kunjalo, zinokuba namandla kangangokuba baziva bengenakoyisa. Kulapho kunceda khona yinkohliso ’de siyenze Ukwenza ngathi sivakalelwa ngendlela ethile kunokubangela ukuba ngokwenene uzive njalo. Nguwo inzululwazi .

Nokuba uzama ukusebenza indlela yokuphuma kwi-snit okanye ukuzithemba ngaphambi kokuba unike inkcazo, Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezinamandla zomzimba zokuchukumisa iimvakalelo zakho ukuya apho ufuna khona.

Gcina la maqhinga okukhulula engqondweni kwixesha elizayo xa uzibona ubophelelekile ngokweemvakalelo:

1. Uncumo lobuxoki kuqinisekisiwe ukuba kusenza sizive ngcono, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, kunye nokuphakamisa imeko yethu.
   
2. Zama ukumomotheka kubangela iinkumbulo ezimnandi ukuba uziva ulusizi.
3. Awunako ukudibanisa noncumo lobuxoki? Zama ukubeka usiba phakathi kwamazinyo akho ukuze khohlisa ingqondo yakho ekucingeni ukuba uyancuma kwaye uvuna izibonelelo nangona kunjalo.
4. Nika ingqalelo ukuphefumla kwakho. Yehlisa isantya kwaye ulawule ukuphefumla kwakho ukuze ungenise Uxolo okanye ukuzola xa uziva nantoni na ngaphandle.
5. Phucula indlela omi ngayo ukuphucula umbono wakho uphela. Hlala nkqo kunye namagxa akho ekhululekile.
6. Nciphisa iintlungu zomzimba ngokuzinika ukwanga. Ikhathaza imiqondiso yeentlungu njengoko zisiya kwingqondo yakho: Ukuwela izandla ngaphezulu komgca ophakathi komzimba kuphazamisa [ubuchopho] bokwenza ubuchule bendawo ekuyo, ngokuka isifundo sophando eyavavanya imeko leyo.
7. Njengesenzo sokubonisa imfesane, ukuzipha ukwanga nako nako ukunciphisa iintlungu zengqondo .
8. Ukuyeka ukuzibekel 'amangomso kwinto ethile, yenza encinci isindululo esisingise uyayenza, nokuba iyavula ucango lwekhabethe ofuna ukuyichitha, ukubeka izihlangu zakho zokubaleka, okanye ukuvula ikhompyuter xa unelo phepha ulibhalayo.
9. Ngenye indlela, ngokoqobo ehamba ukusuka kwinto ethile kunciphisa amandla ayo okulingwa kuwe.
10. cinga ukuma kwamandla ukukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakho phambi komsebenzi onzima. (Qaphela ukuba uphando lwangoku belukhona kubuzwa ; kodwa, hay, ndicinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuzama!)

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Ngabantwana abahlanu, uShifrah ufunda into okanye ezimbini malunga nendlela yokugcina indlu icwangciswe kakuhle kwaye icocekile kwaye inentliziyo enombulelo ngendlela eshiya ixesha elininzi kubantu ababaluleke kakhulu. UShifrah ukhulele eSan Francisco, kodwa uye waxabisa ubomi beedolophu ezincinci eTallahassee, eFlorida, ngoku ayibiza ngokuba likhaya. Sele ebhale ngokugqibeleleyo iminyaka engamashumi amabini kwaye uyayithanda indlela yokuphila, ukugcina imemori, ukwenza igadi, ukufunda, kunye nokuya elwandle kunye nomyeni wakhe kunye nabantwana.