Kubugcisa kunye noyilo, indawo engalunganga ibhekisa kwindawo (ngamanye amaxesha) indawo emhlophe ephepheni okanye kwipeyinti-indawo engathathwanga ngumxholo. Kwikhaya, indawo engeyiyo inokuqwalaselwa njengeendawo ezingenanto ekhayeni lakho apho kungekho uyilo - kungekho bugcisa, kungekho fenitshala, kungekho zinto. Inokuba nefuthe nje lokuhoya apho kukho ayikho nantoni na ekhayeni lakho. Isithuba esibi esenziwe ngobuchule sinokuzisa ukuzola okufuneka kakhulu kumagumbi athile kwaye senze ezinye izinto zoyilo ziphume ngakumbi nangakumbi.
Eyona njongo iphambili yoyilo lwegumbi kukwenza ukuba uzive ulungelelanisiwe-isixa esifanelekileyo sefenitshala, ubugcisa kunye nezixhobo ukuze zivakale zizele, zinobunkunkqele kwaye zinomdla. Kodwa ayizali kangako kangangokuba iziva ingaphaya okanye ngathi iindonga ziyavalwa. Ukufuna ukugcwalisa zonke iindonga kunye neekona nganye ngento yoyilo ukuze indawo ingaziva ingenanto iyimpazamo yoyilo eqhelekileyo. Nazi ezinye zeembono onokuthi uziqwalasele:
Khangela amathuba esithuba esibi Xa kubhalwa, izivakalisi zihlala zinamagama ongezelelweyo ngaphandle, isivakalisi sinokuvakala silungile. Ziqeqeshe ukuba ujonge loo mathuba ekhayeni lakho. Ngaba lukhona udonga olunqamlezileyo oluneblothi encinci yobugcisa eya kuthi xa ithotyiwe, isenokubonakala ngathi iludonga oluhle? Ngaba kukho itafile yetafile enefligner entsha enokubonakala inomtsalane ukuba icinyiwe? Sukukhangela iindawo apho ungathatha khona izinto phantsi - jonga amabala abonakala ngathi angalunga ukuba uthathe izixhobo ezongezelelweyo kwi-equation.
Hlala nayo Emva kokuchonga kunye nokuphelisa into yoyilo ukwenza indawo engalunganga okanye emhlophe, hlala nayo. Musa ukukunika nje imizuzu embalwa - isiphumo esikhawulezileyo siya kufana nokuqala ubone umntu ongenazo iiglasi xa ubusazi kuphela njengophethe iiglasi. Hlala nendawo esandula ukutyeshelwa iintsuku ezimbalwa okanye iveki.
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
Yiba nenjongo ngokucwangcisa oko
Umahluko phakathi kwesithuba ekhayeni lakho ushiye ungenanto okhangeleka ngathi ubufanele ukuba ubekhona kunye nobonakala ngathi ulibele ukwenza into ngayo? Ukushiya ngenjongo kungenanto kwaye unesizathu sayo. Ngamanye amagama, ukuba nesizathu sokuba ushiye indawo ingenanto- ukuvumela amanye amabala egumbini akhanye, umzekelo-sisizathu esingcono kunokuba ungabinayo into yokubeka apho, kwaye loo njongo iya kubonisa.
Yisebenzise ukuze uteketise into ezayo
Ngokuvumela into yoyilo ingene kancinci kwisithuba esingalunganga (yitsho isiqwenga sobugcisa esixhonywe ekujikeni kwepaseji ngendlela enokuthi ubone kuphela indawo yayo, ikunqwenele ukuba uyihlolisise), uyamqhula umbukeli, utsala kwindawo yakho kwaye udale ukungaboni ngasonye.
Zive ukhululekile ukuyizalisa ukuba ayiziva ilungile Ukuba uhleli ngendawo engalunganga kangangeentsuku ezimbalwa kwaye indawo yakho entsha engazisiyo ayizisi mvakalelo yokuphumla- ukuba ayiphefumli umoya omtsha woxolo kwigumbi lakho, kodwa endaweni yoko ikwenza urhawuzelele ngokungathi ufuna ukugcwalisa Yigcwalise ngento ethile-yigcwalise ngento! Isenokungabi yindawo efanelekileyo ukushiya ngabom kungenanto.
Ngaba unawo amabala angenanto ekhayeni lakho? Ngaba udlala ngendawo engeyiyo kwaye ungayigcwalisi njani ukuze izise ingqalelo ngakumbi kwezinye izinto zoyilo ekhayeni lakho? Yabelana ngeengcinga zakho kwizimvo ezingezantsi!
