Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba ndinike izityalo zam igama

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Ndiyikhumbula ngokucacileyo — ngobusuku endafika ekhaya nabantwana bam bokuqala bezityalo. Kwakuhlwa ngokuhlwanje ehlotyeni ngoJuni, kwaye bendisiya kwindibano yocweyo ebandakanya ukubumba izityalo zendlu ukuba ndakwazi ukugoduka nam emva koko. Ndikulangazelele ukuba neqhekeza eliluhlaza lokuvuya ndibize elam-kwaye ngokulinganayo kubalulekile, ukuyibiza ngegama eliziva lilungile.



Ndisebenze kunyango lweZindlu malunga nonyaka kweli nqanaba, elalilide ngokwaneleyo ukuqonda uvuyo lokuba ngumzali wesityalo kunye novuyo olukhulu lokucinga ngegama. UMlawuli weNdlela yokuPhila UTaryn Williford uhlala ethetha kakhulu ngezityalo zakhe zonke zithiywe ngegama leemvumi: ILady Gaga i-monstera, uJay Z isityalo seZZ, kunye neMadonna isityalo somthandazo, ukubala nje abambalwa. Ndazixelela ukuba nanini na ixesha lifikile, ndiza kuzinika izityalo zam ukuba zeziphi izazisi ezizifaneleyo — kodwa bendingazi ukuba iyakuqinisekisa eyam.



Uvelaphi lo mkhwa wokuthiya izityalo?

Kuyavela, lo mkhwa ugqithisa abasebenzi kwi-AT (nangona iingcambu apha zomelele kakhulu, akukho pun ejoliswe kuyo). Izindlu zendlu ziye zathandwa amashumi eminyaka, ngenxa yoko abantu baye bathiya izityalo zabo kudala ngaphambi kokuba i-millennials iqale ukuyenza. Ingcali yezityalo kunye noyilo lwangaphakathi uHilton Carter uqinisekisile ukuba izizukulwana ezindala bezisithiya izityalo ixesha elithile ngoku.





Kodwa u-Erin Marino, uMlawuli weNtengiso yeBrand kwi-Sill, uyaqaphela ukuba kubonakala ngathi iyenyuka. Ndicinga ukuba abanye abathandi bezityalo bacinga ngezindlu zabo njengenxalenye yosapho (okanye indawo yokusebenza), utshilo uMarino. Mhlawumbi hayi ngokwesiqhelo ngokwesiko njengomntakwenu, isilwanyana sasekhaya, okanye umntu osebenza naye-kodwa njengento ethandekayo okanye ethandekayo ephilayo eyenza ifuthe elihle kwikhaya labo okanye kubomi bokusebenza, obunokubenza balifanelwe ligama.

UMarino wongeze ukuba ukunika igama lakho kwisityalo sakho kuyasiqinisa njengelungu losapho elisisigxina, kwaye uzimisele ukulinyamekela kwindawo ende. UCarter uvumile ukuba ukubiza isityalo sakho kuqinisekisa ukuba eyona njongo yakho kukukhathalela. Ndiyathanda ukuxelela abantu ukuba babone izityalo zabo njengezilwanyana ezifuyiweyo. Kanye njengokuba ungathiya isilwanyana igama, kufuneka unike igama lesityalo, utshilo uCarter.



Ukuthiya izityalo kuyanceda nawe.

Ndisazi ukuba ndifuna ukwenza ubudlelwane obomeleleyo neentsana zam zezityalo kwasekuqaleni, kwaye ke ndiyithathile kakhulu inkqubo yokuqamba amagama. Nje ukuba iworkshop iphele, ndikhona-ndikhwele kwitreyini egodukayo ndiphethe i-dracaena ngesandla esinye, iipothosi kwesinye. Ndikhumbula ngokuzingca ndibathwele ngeengalo zam kwaye ndiziva ndibukelwe ngabantu kuzo zonke iikona emotweni. Bendingayi kumangaliswa ukuba bendikhazimla ngokwasemzimbeni ngokungathi ndibeleke nje. Kodwa khange ndihoye nyani kuba bendinzulu, ndinzulu ngengcinga: Ndizakubathiya ntoni? Yintoni enokufaneleka?

Ngexesha lokufika kwam ekhaya, ndandingasondelanga ekuthatheni isigqibo. Ndizamile ukuza namagama adityanisiweyo — njengoTia noTamara, uWinfrey noKing — kodwa bonke baziva benyanzelekile. Emva koko ndacinga kwaye ndacinga kum, yintoni into endiyithandayo enokugalelwa kwezi zityalo zibini ziphilayo?

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Emva koko yandibetha: Ukuhamba. Ndiye njalo ndinomdla wokuhamba, kwaye uluhlu lwam olungapheliyo lweendawo zokuhamba bubungqina kuyo. Ke umzuzu webhalbhu yam wawunjengale: kuthekani ukuba ndigqibe kwelokuba ndenze izinto zokutyala izindlu zam zibe luluhlu lwamabhakethi aphilayo?



Ewe, usizisela isityalo ekhayeni lakho ukuze sincede sikhule, kodwa sikwanceda ukuba uphile kwaye uthande kancinci kancinci- kwaye ufunde ngawe apha endleleni.

[Ukuthiya isityalo sakho] yenye indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba ungubani, uWilliford wandixelela. Ndiyawuthanda umculo, ngoko ke ndiza kuthiya izityalo zam emva kweemvumi endizithandayo, kwaye yenye nje indlela yokubhiyozela into endizisela uvuyo, kunye nesinye isizathu sokuthetha ngezinto nabantu endibathandayo. Yinto yokuqala incoko!

Akundithathanga xesha lide ukuza nezona ndawo zimbini ziphakamileyo endizokundwendwela kuzo. Kwaye ke, uSparti (idolophu yaseGrisi) iipothos kunye noRaj (mfutshane kuRajasthan, ilizwe laseIndiya) iidracaena zazalwa. Ndenze isivumelwano ngoko nangoko apho izityalo zam ziya kusebenza njengesikhumbuzo seendawo endifuna ukuzindwendwela ebomini bam, kwaye nje ukuba ndenze isenzo, ndiza kuthiya enye indawo endandinomnqweno wokundwendwela.

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Ityala: UNicoletta RichardsonSparti isityalo se-pothos.

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Ukusuka kwinkqubo yokukhetha igama, ndifunde isifundo esikhulu: ukukhathalela into ephilayo, ephefumlayo yindlela-mbini. Ewe, usizisela isityalo ekhayeni lakho ukuze sincede sikhule, kodwa sikwanceda ukuba uphile kwaye uthande kancinci kancinci- kwaye ufunde ngawe apha endleleni.

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Ityala: UNicoletta RichardsonSavannah isityalo senyoka.

Kuba ndizifumene iintsikelelo zam ezimbini, ndanikwa isityalo senyoka. Ngendlela eyiyo yemileniyam-endingenazintloni ngayo, ngendlela-ndiyibeka kwivoti kwi-Instagram phakathi kweendawo ezine endifuna ukuya kuzo (bendinenexesha elinzima lokwenza isigqibo). Iziphumo zokugqibela yayinguSavannah (Georgia) isityalo senyoka.

Kanye njengoko ndinika izityalo zam ukuba zezazisi, ziye zaqinisekisa ezam njengomhambi. Owu, kwaye baqinisa nalapho ndingaya khona ngokulandelayo, nabo.

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