Uninzi lwethu luzabalazela ubomi obulula ngakumbi, apho okusingqongileyo zizinto esizithanda ngokwenene okanye esizifunayo ngokwenene, ngokukhethekileyo zombini. Ukufika-kunye nokugcina-indlela enjalo yokuphila, kufuneka silahle izinto, nokuba zikwi-swoop enye okanye kwiidosi ezincinci. Ngelixa livakala ngathi yintaba enkulu ukunyuka, ukulahla izinto ekugqibeleni kuyaziva kulungile. Nasi isizathu.
Indawo ebonakalayo kunye nendawo yengqondo zihamba-ngesandla. I-Clutter yingxolo ebonakalayo, kwaye ukuphazamiseka kungena kumandla ethu engqondo ngokunjalo (kwabanye bethu ngaphezu kwabanye). Iyavakala ke into yokuba ukucoca iindawo zethu ezibonakalayo, ukwenza indawo yomoya kunye nokukhanya kunye nokukhula, kuya kuboniswa nakwizinto zethu zengqondo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ungangcono kangakanani xa usebenza kwidesika yakho icociwe- ngoku yandisa eyakho ubomi.
Ukwahlula kwixesha elidlulileyo kunokusiphilisa. Sixhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi ngenxa yeenkumbulo eziboshwe kubo. Xa sisenza izinto ezingcolileyo, sinethuba lokunxibelelana kungekuphela nje nezinto zethu ezibonakalayo, kodwa kunye neenkumbulo kunye neemvakalelo ezibangela zona. Oku kunokuba yinto embi kodwa ibe yicathartic, njengaxa sishiya izinto esizibambeleyo ngenxa yokoyika ukuyeka okanye ukungalawulwa. Isenzo sokususa ezi zinto sinokuba buhlungu kodwa nangona kunjalo siyaphumelela, sikhuthaze imvakalelo yoku oku akunakundibamba !! njengoko izinto zilahliwe. Ndicinga ukuba ukubukela oku kudibana phakathi kwezinto zethu kunye neembali zethu zobuqu zezona bezindibambile Abaxhasi okwexeshana.
Ukwenza izigqibo kusomeleza. Xa sithatha isigqibo malunga nento, nokuba incinci into encinci njengokuzigcina ezo ntonga zomkhusane, thina yenza fumana ulawulo oluthile, kwaye uvakalelo luyakhobokisa kwaye luyazenza. Ukuba unokunikela ngeminyaka 'kwiminyaka yokunxiba kwabantwana, umzekelo, awenzi kuphela igumbi ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba. Unikwe amandla okujongana nale nto izayo ixhonywe kuwe okanye isongeze ulwazi lwakho: ukuzilolonga, ukucela umphathi wakho ukuba anyuse imali, ukukopa imifanekiso yakho kwifowuni yakho, nokuba yeyiphi na.
Unezinto ezincinci zokujongana nazo. Lo ngowona mvuzo ucacileyo wokulahla izinto, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ayingoyena mncinci. Yonke into ephuma emnyango wakho yinto encinci ekufuneka uyifumanele indawo, uzilungiselele kaninzi, okanye ucocekile. Yiyo leyo, bahlobo bam, yinkululeko kwaye inkwenkwe Ngaba uziva kamnandi!
