Kutheni le nto ukuDitching eli Gumbi lokuPhila kuyeyona nto ikhethileyo endakha ndayenza

Xa umfana wam kunye nam safudukela kwigumbi lethu kunyaka ophelileyo, saba nengxoxo yeenyanga-zonke malunga nokongeza i itafile yekofu yethu egumbini lokuhlala . Emva kokuchitha iminyaka emihlanu kwisitudiyo esincinci, ndandikulungele ukugcwalisa igumbi lethu elinamagumbi amaninzi ngayo yonke ifanitshala indawo yam yangaphambili eyayingakwazi ukuyamkela. Ingxaki yayikukuba, asivumelani ukuba loluphi uhlobo itafile yekofu kufuneka sithenge. Ndifuna i isitayile esincinci esingqukuva ukungena kwikona yecandelo lethu, ngelixa umfana endithandana naye ethanda umphezulu woxande olingisa ubume besofa yethu. Sichithe iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala ngaphandle kwetafile yekofu, kwaye emva kwethutyana, saqonda ukuba sikhethe ngokwenene egumbini lokuhlala ngaphandle komnye.

Kwabaninzi, a itafile yekofu isebenza kuphela ngenjongo yokusebenzisa. Kulapho unokuphumla khona ikofu yakho okanye i-cocktail, ukhuphe iincwadi zakho zobugcisa, okanye ukhabe iinyawo zakho emva kosuku olude. Nangona kunjalo, inye into ekungekho mntu uthetha ngayo kukuba lingakanani na eli gumbi lokuhlala elinokuthatha. Isithandwa sam kwaye siyathanda ukonwabisa, ke besifuna ukuthenga icandelo elikhulu elinokulingana abantu abaninzi kwaye lisinike igumbi elongezelelekileyo lokusasaza ukuba sibukele imovie. Kuba isingqengqelo sethu sithatha indawo eninzi, saqiniseka ukuba ukongeza itafile yekofu kuya kwenza igumbi lethu lokuhlala liziva lincinci.

Ityala: UKelsey Mulvey

Ayisiyi kuba kukuncama i itafile yekofu yenza inkohliso yendawo enkulu-eyiphupha lakhe nawuphi na umntu ohlala eflethini- kodwa ikwadala umoya omoya, omema umoya. Itafile yekofu isebenza njengendawo ekugxilwe kuyo yegumbi lokuhlala, kodwa ingenayo, kwimeko yethu, ivumela iliso ukuba libhadule kwiindonga zethu eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ukuya kwikhaphethi yethu eprintiweyo kwiifestile ezimanzi ilanga.

Ngapha koko, ukungabinayo itafile yekofu kuluncedo kwimikhwa yethu yokubamba-ubuncinci kuya kuba yiyo, xa siqala ukubamba kwakhona. Endaweni yokuba neendwendwe ezingenakulunga esofeni zibeke emgangathweni ngokungqonge itafile yekofu , Banokutsala ngokulula isitulo segumbi lokutyela kwaye bazive ngathi bakwinqanaba elifanayo nabo bonke abanye kuseto lwethu.

Ndiyazi ukuba ucinga ntoni: Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukudibanisa a itafile yekofu inokuvula indawo, kodwa ubeka phi zonke iincwadi kunye neiglasi zakho? Ewe, sathenga i-ottoman kwivenkile ekufuphi yokuthumela iimpahla ukuze siphumle iipleyiti neziselo. Kuba i-ottoman incinci kwaye ayisindi, sinokususa ngokulula kwikona xa sineendwendwe ngaphezulu. Iitafile ezisecaleni zihlala zikhetho, kananjalo, kuba, ngokubanzi, zincinci kwaye zincinci kakhulu.

Ityala: UKelsey Mulvey

Isithuba sethu sinezishelufu ezimbini ezakhelweyo (kunye neekhabhathi ezingaphantsi kwazo) zokubamba zonke iincwadi zethu, amakhandlela kunye namaphepha abalulekileyo. (Ibhonasi: Zikwindawo efanelekileyo yokwenza iishelufu ezimangalisayo.) Ndiya kuba ngowokuqala ukuvuma ukuba imeko yethu yokugcina yenza isigqibo seetafile zekofu sibe lula kakhulu. Ngeendlela ezininzi zokuseta igumbi nangona kunjalo, ndiqinisekile ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uyeke itafile yekofu ekhayeni lakho ukuba uyafuna.

Ngaba ufuna ubungqina obungaphezulu? Jonga iindwendwe ezimbalwa ze-AT. Kwikhaya lakhe laseMontreal, uCécile Gariépy wakwazi ukufumana awona mazwe mabini aphezulu ngokulahla itafile yekofu yesiko kodwa wabeka itafile esecaleni kunye necredenza ende kufutshane nesofa yakhe. UMonique Aquino wahombisa igumbi lakhe lokuhlala eLos Angeles ngemiqamelo yomgangatho, ephindwe kabini njengezihlalo ezongezelelweyo xa iindwendwe zimile. Kwinqanawa yakhe yendlu, uAndrew Dunford waya kwi-ottoman endaweni yetafile yekofu. Nokuba ungasitayile njani isithuba sakho, kuyacaca ukuba oku kutya okushiyekileyo kwigumbi lokuhlala kunokuba kungabalulekanga njengokuba wawucinga njalo.

UKelsey Mulvey

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UKelsey Mulvey ungumhleli weendlela zokuphila kunye nombhali. Ubhalele upapasho olufana neWall Street Journal, Business Insider, Wallpaper.com, New York Magazine, nokuninzi.