Sicinga ngobuhlobo nosapho lwethu, abo sibathandayo kunye nabahlobo bethu rhoqo ngokwaneleyo, kodwa sihlala silibale ngolunye ubudlelwane obukhulu esinabo ebomini bethu: Apho sihlala khona. Indlu okanye indawo yokuhlala, ubumelwane, isixeko. Lulwalamano olufuna ukugcinwa kunye nokuthantamisa, njengabo bonke abanye. Kwaye xa ihlupheka, inokubangela ukubandezeleka okupheleleyo ebomini bakho. Nantsi into ekufuneka uyenzile ukuba uzibona sowuthandana nekhaya lakho.
Zininzi izizathu zokuba kutheni ungathandani nekhaya lakho. Mhlawumbi eyona ndawo uhlawula irente okanye ubambise ngayo iqala ukuwa kwaye ifuna ukulungiswa. Okanye sele incinci kakhulu ukuba ingalingani iimfuno zakho. Isenokuba nje iyadika kuwe. Mhlawumbi ubumelwane bakho kunye nesixeko sitshintshile ngeenxa zonke kuwe, nawe. Mhlawumbi izithuthi zibi kakhulu kunangaphambili.
Nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu ikhaya lakho-indawo yakho, ubumelwane bakho okanye isixeko sakho-sikukhathaza, kukho indlela yokuguqula umoya. Unokwazi ukubona ukuba yintoni eyakwenza ukuba uthandane kwasekuqaleni.
Chonga ukuba yintoni kanye le ikwenza ukuba ube nebugging
Oku kuvakala kulula kakhulu, kodwa usenokuba uhamba ujongeke malunga nedolophu yakho okanye 'hood kwaye ungaqondi ukuba yinto onokuyilungisa. Ukuhamba kakubi kwezithuthi kwaye udiniwe kukubanjelwa ijam? Shiya kwangoko okanye ubone ukuba ungasebenza iiyure ezahlukeneyo. Ngaba ukhathele kukujonga eludongeni olunye kwigumbi lakho lokuhlala? Yitshintshe! Yenza uluhlu lwezinto ongazithandiyo kwaye uqale ukulungisa ezo unako.
Yeka ukukhalaza malunga nento engalunganga
Nangona sicinga ukuba kububulumko ukwenza uluhlu lwezinto ezingalunganga kwaye ulungise oko unako, ugxile kwizinto ezimbi kwaye uhlala uthetha ngayo kuya kusebenza kuphela ukukhulisa into ongayithandiyo. Nokuba wonke umntu okummandla wakho ukhalazela into enye, musa ukutsiba; yisa incoko kude nezikhalazo ezingancediyo.
Ukugxininisa ngokubonakalayo kwizinto ezilungileyo
Ukuyithatha inyathelo eliya phambili, ngoku yenza uluhlu lwayo yonke into osayithandayo (okanye ubuncinci, njenge) malunga nekhaya lakho, ubumelwane okanye isixeko. Ukusuka apho ikhoyo itayile yokuhlambela enemibala kuyo nayiphi na into eyikhaya lakho ekwenza uncume. Yenza uluhlu, ubeke endaweni yalo naluphi na ugxile kwizinto ezingathandekiyo ngehlombe ngezinto ezilungileyo.
Qala ukuthatha inxaxheba ngakumbi
Kwenzeka kweyona nto intle kuthi. Siyakhathazeka, siyacaphuka kwaye sikhathazekile ngenxa yeemeko zethu zokuhlala ukuze sibuyele umva. Yeka ukuya kuloo paki yabamelwane ebone ukugcwala kwabantu abaninzi kuthi xa siqala ukungena. Yeka ukuba nekofu yakusasa ebhalkhoni. Yeka ukuya kwimisitho yesixeko yasimahla kuba asifuni kuphazamiseka ngokupaka. Isidenge kanjani! Nyuka nokuthatha inxaxheba ekhayeni lakho, 'hood yakho kunye nesixeko sakho, nokuba banokuthatha ixesha elincinci ukwenza. Ukuziva unxibelelene nendawo ohlala kuyo kukhulisa uvuyo kuyo. Nokuba uthabathe uhambo oluthe kratya okanye ukukhwela ibhayisikile ejikeleze ikhaya lakho kunokunceda kakhulu.
Buyisa
Bhalisela ukuvolontiya ukuthatha inkunkuma epakini yobumelwane. Nikela ngento engenzi nzuzo enceda isixeko sakho ngandlela thile. Okanye buyisela ekhayeni lakho ngokulikhathalela- wenza into ethile yolondolozo lwasekhaya obusoloko ulubeka ecaleni ngenxa yokuba uxakeke kakhulu.
Thatha ukutshona kwelanga (okanye ukuphuma kwelanga)
Ndiyakholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba ngekhe uyithiye into encanyiswa yimitha yegolide xa ilanga litshona. Nditsalele umnxeba ngothando, kodwa nendawo yokulahla inkunkuma inexabiso layo xa uyibambe kanye njengokuba kusasa kuvuka. Nokuba yeyiphi na inguqulelo yekhaya ekukungcungcuthekisa kakhulu, thatha nje umbono wayo njengoko ilanga liphuma okanye lisihla. Yindlela elula yokutshintsha umbono.
Utshintsha njani kwisimo sakho xa uzifumanisa ungathandani nekhaya lakho, ubumelwane bakho okanye isixeko sakho? Yabelana ngezimvo zakho apha ngezantsi!
