Wake wazibuza ukuba umhlobo wakho onomlilo ucinga ntoni ngawe? Ewe, unethamsanqa: isifundo esitsha sithi iikati ngokusisiseko zisiphatha njengezinye iikati. Phambi kokuba ulugxothe ngokukhawuleza olu lwazi, le feline iphuma ngqo emlonyeni wengcali yokuziphatha kwekati, uJohn Bradshaw weYunivesithi yaseBristol.
UBradshaw unamava abanzi okujonga zombini izinja kunye neekati, kwaye wabhala incwadi I-Cat Sense: Inzululwazi ye-Feline eNtsha ingakwenza njani ukuba ube ngumhlobo ongcono kwiPet yakho , ephicotha utyekelo lwe-feline kwaye icebise thina bantu balula ngendlela yokwenza iikati zisithande, (ekubonakala ukuba ayinakuba yinto engenakwenzeka njengoko ibonakala ngathi).
Ngokungafaniyo neendlovu, iikati kunqabile ukuba, ukuba wakhe watyholwa ngokubhekisele kubantu abane-sappiness efanayo naleyo siyenza ngayo iinjana okanye iikati. Endaweni yokuba ukuqaphela kukaBradshaw kucebise ukuba iifinal zihlala zisebenzisana nathi ngokungathi ezinye iikati, zinkulu kuphela, zineeklutzy ezininzi kwaye ziyacaphukisa iinguqulelo ekubonakala ukuba zithathekile ngabo.
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Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: U-Lauren Kolyn)
Oko kubandakanya uphando lwakhe, UBradshaw uxelele iNational Geographic :
Ininzi yokujonga-ukubukela amaqela eekati ukubona ukuba zinxibelelana njani kunye nokunciphisa imeko yazo yentlalo. [Ndiyabukela] iikati ezikwiikoloni ezisimahla, nakwindawo zokuhlala izilwanyana apho inani elininzi liza kuhlala ndawonye-ufumana amandla okutshintsha [xa kuziswa iikati ezintsha].
Ndiye ndenza nezinto ezikhohlisayo kancinci, ezinje ngokufunda indlela iikati ezidlala ngayo ngezinto zokudlala, okanye ukuvavanya ikati [isimilo] ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo emini. [Ndikwaqwalasele] ubudlelwane phakathi kwabaniniyo, ndenza udliwanondlebe nabo ndibanika amaphepha emibuzo ukufumanisa ukuba bazibona njani iikati zabo.
Ngelixa esithi uphando oluthe kratya kufuneka lwenziwe ukukhomba iingcinga zeekati malunga nathi (ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaba ngenene siyafuna ukwazi?), UBradshaw waphumelela ukugqiba ukuba iikati zicinga ukuba asinangqondo, phakathi kwezinye izinto.
Kule ncwadi [nditsho] ukuba iikati ziziphatha ngathi ngendlela engafaniyo nendlela [eziya] kuziphatha ngayo kwezinye iikati, utsho. Akukho zikati zininzi zikhubeka ebantwini, kodwa sikhubeka ngaphezu kweekati. Kodwa andicingi ukuba bacinga ngathi njengezidenge kwaye siziziyatha, kuba iikati azihlikihli kwenye ikati engaphantsi kwazo.
Nabaphi na abanye abanini bezilwanyana ezikhululekileyo? Ukujongwa njengokuxakaniseka kungcono kakhulu kunokucinga kwakho ikati ifuna ukukubulala .
