Kwiveki ephelileNdabhala malunga nendlela kwaye ngobaUmsebenzi wam wokwenza izinto zokudlala ekhayeni lam. Kubalulekile kum ukufumana ulungelelwaniso olusempilweni phakathi kwezinto zabantu abadala nezinto zabantwana ekhayeni lethu kunye nokubonelela ngendawo esingqongileyo yeentombi zam ezikhuthaza ukucinga kunye nokuhlola. Nanini na xa ndijamelana nengxaki yokuba ngumzali, enye yeendlela zam zokuqala kukucela ingcebiso kwabanye oomama, ndiye ndakhangela nabanye babantwana endibathandayo abayila indlela abazenza ngayo izinto zokudlala ekhaya. Nanga amanye amacebo endiwathandayo namacebo endiwafumeneyo kumava abo:
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
1. Khetha iithoyi ezinobubele emehlweni : UErin Loechner we Uyilo lweMinikind Ndifumanise ukuba eyona ndlela ilula yokuphelisa ukungqubana kwezinto zokudlala kukukhumbula into engenayo. Iithoyi zaziwa ngokuchitheka ngaphaya kweekhabbhi, iivenkile zokugcina kunye neekhabhathi, kutheni ungamkeli isiphithiphithi ushiye iithoyi ezimbalwa ezilungiselelwe kakuhle evulekileyo? Ngokuthenga iithoyi ezihambelana nobuhle bendlu yakho, ziya kujongeka zincinci njengezinto ezixineneyo kunye nezinto zokuhombisa ezithandwa kakhulu. Izinto ezimbalwa eziphambili ukuqala ngazo? Iithoyi zomculo zomthi okanye iimoto zesinyithi zentsimbi. Kwaye ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla eseti enkulu yeebhloko zomthi!
iisimboli zeengelosi kunye neentsingiselo zazo
2. Ngokwengqondo faka izinto zokudlala kwiindawo eziphambili zokuhlala ekhayeni lakho : Ukugcina izinto zokudlala zifihlwe emagumbini abantwana kuvakala kufanelekile, kodwa ngokufuthi akuyonyaniso. UJames Kicinski-McCoy luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ufumene amakhaya ahlukeneyo kwindawo ahlala kuyo izinto zabantwana bakhe: Sigcina iibhasikiti ezilukiweyo zaseMoroccan kwigumbi lokuhlala ukugcina ezinye izinto zokudlala zifikeleleka njengeebhloko kunye noonopopi besandla. Iibhasikithi zenza ukuba kube lula ukucoca. Sikwanayo necredenza kwigumbi lethu lokuhlala kwaye ichonge elinye lamacala kubantwana. Sigcina iincwadi kunye nezinto zokudlala ezimbalwa kwishelufa enye kwaye amanabukeni kunye nosula, iingubo kunye neziliphu kwelinye. Kumnandi ukuba nezi zinto kwindawo ephambili yendlu ukuze kungabikho mfuneko yokuba sibaleke phezulu ngalo lonke ixesha sifuna into yabantwana.
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
3. Okungaphantsi kuninzi : UJen Lula-Richardson we UJen Loves Kev ijolise ekupheliseni ubungakanani bezinto zokudlala: Kusapho lwethu sithanda ukuhamba kancinci yimotto xa kufikwa kumathoyizi. Ndifuna ukuba amantombazana ethu abe nobuchule, basebenzise iingcinga zabo kwaye bafune ukuphuma bayodlala. Ndivakalelwa kukuba oku akwenzeki xa kukho amawaka eethoyi aleleyo. Ewe kunjalo, andinakuluphika ngokupheleleyo uthando lweentombi zam zeenkosazana ngoko ke sinesabelo sethu esifanelekileyo sezinto zokudlala. Ndiyathanda ukugcina izinto zilungelelaniswe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kule mihla kulula ukufumana iibhaskithi ezintle kakhulu. Ndiyathanda ukuba neebhasikithi kwigumbi ngalinye lendlu yethu ezinokuphoswa kuzo iithoyi. Yenzela ukucoca ngokukhawuleza nangokulula ngelixa usisitayile ekhayeni lakho.
Zine. Izinto zokudlala ezijikelezayo : Ukuba unendawo, ukujikeleza izinto zokudlala rhoqo kunokunceda ekugcineni ikhaya lakho lixinene, kubenze abantwana bakho bazive bengonwabanga, kwaye kubanceda bagcine umdla kwizinto zabo zokudlala. IJoni Lay yeLay Baby Lay isebenzisa esi sicwangciso kwikhaya laso: Isicwangciso sam sokulungelelanisa iithoyi kukuhlala (ngesiqhelo kanye ngenyanga) ukuzihlela kunye nokujikeleza ezingasetyenziswanga kangako. Njengokuba uVivi esiya esiba mdala, kubonakala ngathi iithoyi ziza nezinto ezincinci, nam ke bendisusa nje iziqwenga ezincinci angazisebenzisiyo ezizodibanisa ubuxhakaxhaka. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima, kodwa ndizama ukuba ndlongondlongo kancinci; Ngaphandle koko iba nzima kakhulu! Ndifumanise ukuba izinto zokudlala ezimbalwa azifumaneki kwigumbi lakhe, kokukhona kumnandi ukudlala apho, ke ndenza konke okusemandleni ukugcina oku kunjalo.
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
5. Nika umntwana wakho indawo yabo : Meta Coleman ka Elinye Amakhowa Ixhasa indawo yokuba abantwana bakho badlale: Xa kuyilwa iindawo zosapho ndiyakholelwa ukuba kubalulekile ukudibanisa indawo apho abantwana bangafunda khona, bazobe, kwaye badlale. Ekhaya lethu sinecandelo kwigumbi lokuhlala ngokukodwa abantwana bethu. Kukho itafile yomntwana kunye nezitulo zokuzoba, ikhabhathi eneshelfu yencwadi yabantwana kunye nokugcinwa apha ngezantsi kwezinto zokudlala kunye neTV encinci. Kukwakho nombhoxo kunye neembotyi zebhegi zomqheba wentuthuzelo yabo ngelixa bedlala bebukele iimuvi.
Gcina Ncamathisela (Ityala lemifanekiso: Unyango lweNdlu)
6. Indawo Yento Yonke : Xa yonke into yokudlala inekhaya elichongiweyo, kulula kakhulu ukuba abantwana bacoce xa begqibile ukudlala. URubyellen Bratcher we Ikhekhe ikhuthaza le ntandabulumko ekhayeni lakhe: Umgaqo wethu yinto yonke inendawo, kwaye ukuba ayikho endaweni yayo, esixelela ukuba abayikhathalelanga kwaye ifuna ukuhanjiswa. Sifuna ukuba bafunde indlela yokunyamekela izinto, ngoko ke sibahle kakhulu ekunyanzeliseni lo mthetho. Ngale nto ithethwayo, siguqule elinye lamagumbi eendwendwe / amagumbi okudlala kwigumbi lokudlala elincinci. Emva kwamakhethini kukho ikhitshi labo lokudlala ngomthi kunye nebhasikithi yepikniki ezele zonke iithoyi zabo zasekhitshini. Ayizinto zokudlala ezininzi, kodwa zanele kubo. Basebenzisa le ndawo ukuseta ivenkile kwaye bahlala bedlala kwaye badlalisa kwigumbi lonke, kodwa ukucoca kulula kuba babuyisela yonke into ebhasikithini emva koko siyifihle emva kwamakhethini.
7. Yamkele inyani yokuba awuzokwazi ukufihla yonke into : Ndiyamthanda umhleli we Thenga usana lwale mihla Isimo sikaEsther Garfield: Abantwana bayinxalenye yosapho kwaye izinto zabo kufanelekile ukuba zifikeleleke. Eminye imiqondiso ebonakalayo yemisebenzi yabo ibonisa isimilo sendlu yethu, eyindawo ekhuselekileyo, eyonwabisayo kunye nentofontofo yosapho lwethu ukuba kunye.
Kwakumnandi kwaye kuluncedo ukuva amacebo kunye neengcebiso zabantu bonke! Khumbula ukuba into esebenzela umntu omnye ayinakusebenzela omnye umntu-into ebalulekileyo kukuthatha isigqibo sokuba yintoni elungileyo eyakho usapho kwaye uqalise. Ukuba ufuna ukutsiba kwindawo oza kujongana nayo kwindawo yokudlala ekhaya, ndwendwela unyango lweentsuku ezi-7 zokunyanga i-Apartment Therapy. Yenzelwe ukusebenzela wena nanini na ukulungele. Ngaba unazo naziphi na iingcebiso kunye namacebo okunciphisa ukuthotywa kwezinto zokudlala ekhayeni lakho? Ndingathanda ukuva ngazo!
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