Kwilizwe langoku elinomdla wobuncinane, kukho into abanokuvumelana ngayo bonke abantu abadala: ingxaki yokujongana neengqokelela ezikhutshiweyo (ezixhonyiweyo) ngamalungu osapho lwethu. Ukusuka kuma-boomers amancinci kunye noGen X'ers abekwe phakathi kwabazali babo abalupheleyo / abafayo kunye nabantwana babo ukuya kwizigidi zeminyaka bezama ukuphatha ngobunono izinto ezilindelweyo (kunye nolwabiwo-mali lwabo olulinganiselweyo kunye nendawo yokugcina) ngaphandle kweemvakalelo ezibuhlungu, umyalezo ucace gca. Njengoko Forbes utshilo kutshanje , Uxolo, akukho mntu ufuna izinto zakho.
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Xa umama wathengisa ikhaya lethu lobuntwana — indlu yezidolophana esiziikwere ezingama-2 600 enegaraji kunye nomgangatho ongaphantsi, apho abazali bam bakhulisa mna kunye nabantakwethu ababini kwihlomela-dolophu laseBoston — inkqubo yokuncitshiswa kunye nokupakisha yayingeyonto imbi. Mhlawumbi ubuncinci isiqingatha seenyawo zethu zekwere zabelwa indawo yokugcina. Kwaye saba lusapho lweempuku eziqokelela izinto ezixabisekileyo zosapho.
Njengoninzi lwesizukulwana sabo, umama notata bahlala bekufumanisa kunzima ukulahla nantoni na. Hayi nje jula nantoni na ekude, kodwa uyinike isisa okanye uthengise komnye umntu onokuthi ayixabise ngokwenyani; kubo, yonke into inexabiso, yonke into inokuphinda ifuneke kamva, yonke into isenokuba yinto eniya kuyifuna ngolunye usuku ngolunye usuku. Kwaye xa uyinxalenye yosapho olukhulu, olunemvelaphi emininzi yase-Italiya naseMelika eneengcambu kwisixeko esinye kangangamakhulu eminyaka, uqala ukuqokelela hayi nje izinto zakho kodwa zonke izinto kuzo zonke izihlobo ezinazo. idlulile iminyaka. Ngokuba, uyazi, izinto zakudala.
Le iba yingxaki yokwenyani xa uzama ukunciphisa ingqokelela kwizinto ezinexabiso (imvakalelo okanye eyiyo). Ngexesha lokuhamba kukamama, kwibhokisi nganye esiyipakishayo ukunikela, ukuthengisa, okanye ukuphinda sisebenzise kwakhona, iibhokisi ezimbini zazikhutshiwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto kufuneka igcinwe. Ngexesha ababonisayo befika ngalo, sasingakhange sithinte nomgangatho ongaphantsi okanye igaraji.
Ukuba oku kuvakala kuqhelekile, wamkelekile kwiklabhu yabantwana abakhulileyo abangafuni abazali babo (okanye ootatomkhulu ', okanye ootatomkhulu noomalume) izinto zabo- kunye nabantu abadala abathi oku kube buhlungu kubo, ngoku ka ingxelo ehlotyeni nge Inzululwazi yamaKristu .
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso (Ityala lemifanekiso: Ifoto nguAdrianHancu / Getty Izithombe )
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Njengoko abantwana boomers baqala ukwehla, bafumanisa ukuba abantwana babo abakhulileyo abafuni zinto zabo. Ngapha koko, bayaphola kwinto esondele yoyikiso kwingcinga yokuzama ukufumana indawo yokuqokelela iHummels kunye noThomas Kinkade.
Kuyinyani, kusapho lwam kunye nezo ziboniswe nguMhloli: Ngelixa umama wam ingumyili wezinto zendalo ozelwe ngokwendalo eneliso elinetalente kumalaphu kunye nobuchule bokuqokelela iziqwenga ezintle kuhambo lwakhe lwehlabathi, nothando lukabawo loncwadi , ubugcisa, imbali, kunye neklasikhi kumise bobabini ukwazi kwam kunye nabantakwethu, sifuna ukuqala kwaye siphathe eyethu ingqokelela-sifuna ukungqongwa ngamaqhekeza alungelelanisiweyo ukubonisa yethu ukuhamba, yethu iinkumbulo, yethu iindlela zokonwabisa, kunye yethu izimbo zakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, oko kungabandakanya ubuncinci ubuncwane beentsapho okanye izidalwa zelifa kunye nembali okanye isifundo okanye ixabiso leemvakalelo-njenge-anthology eboshwe ngesikhumba ye-Complete Works yaseShakespeare eyayiyiyisemkhulu xa wayeseHarvard indawo yokuqaqambela kwigumbi lokuhlala, ngokuchasene nekhulu okanye njalo enye I-anthologies umyeni wam kunye nam sahlawula ngaphezulu kwiminyaka yethu yokusebenzisana saza sanikela kwi-Goodwill xa sisuka eBoston saya eTexas ngo-2013, ngaphandle kwemvakalelo yokwenene. Nditsho iinyembezi.
Umcimbi wokwenyani ayisiyonto yokwenyani- zonke iimvakalelo ezijikeleze isangqa sobomi.
Kodwa, njengabaninzi abancinci ukuya kubudala obuphakathi baseMelika, asifuni ukuba sihlawule abahambisa ngebhokisi okanye siqeshise iiyunithi zokugcina ngenyanga ukuze sikwazi ukugqithisa kwizinto ezigciniweyo kwaye zishiywe ngasemva ngabanye. Kungcono sixelele amabali abo okanye sibonise umfanekiso wabo ngaphandle kokuba sihlale nabo kwaye sijongane nabo kwaye sihlawule ngokugcina konke. Oko. Izinto.
Kwaye umthwalo kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhule, utsho IBoston Globe . Inani labantu baseMelika abaneminyaka engama-65 nangaphezulu liqikelelwa ngaphezulu kokuphindwe kabini, ukusuka kwizigidi ezingama-46 ukuya ngaphezulu kwezigidi ezingama-98 ngo-2060, ngokwengxelo ka-2016 yeWashington, DC esekwe ngokungenzi nzuzo kwiPopulation Reference Bureau.
Njengaleyo iqhekeza elimangalisayo kwiGlobe uyaqhubeka nokwenza ulwandlalo , I-crux yokwenyani yomcimbi ayizizo izinto, nokuba kunjalo-zonke iimvakalelo ezijikeleze isangqa sobomi. Izizukulwana ezindala ziyakwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abancinci bengafuni iimpahla zabo, kodwa loo nto ayenzi ukuba utshintsho lungabi luxinzelelo. Endaweni yokuxhoma ngokuqinileyo, nangona kunjalo, iingcali zicebisa ukuba bazame ukuyitshintsha imeko, kude nelahleko kunye novuyo, ngokusebenzisa loo china intle kwisidlo sakusasa semihla ngemihla, okanye ngekristale egolide-erimenyezelwe iti yomkhenkce.
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