Yilelo xesha lonyaka xa abantu abaninzi bephumelela, kwaye beqhankqalaza bebodwa, kwaye befudukela kwikhaya labo lokuqala okanye 'lokudala' lokwenene. Kuyinto enomdla, kwaye mhlawumbi isoyikisa kancinci, ixesha, ligcwele ngamathuba kunye nemingxunya. Nazi izinto ezimbalwa endinqwenela ukuba ndizazile xa ndandisisihombisi esitsha, yonke loo minyaka idlulileyo.
1. Musa ukuthenga yonke into ngexesha elinye.
Indlu yakho yokuqala yindawo entle engenanto, kwaye kunokuhenda ukuyizalisa ngezinto ezintle kwiiveki zokuqala. Kodwa ukuhombisa, njengezinto ezininzi, kunokuba nomvuzo ngakumbi xa uthatha kade. Khumbula ukuba awukho kwishedyuli, kwaye ikhona kuphela izinto ezimbalwa ozifuna kwangoko . Yonke enye into, ukulinda kuya kukunika ixesha lokufumanisa ukuba ufuna ntoni, ugcine ukuthengwa okukhulu, kwaye mhlawumbi ufumane nesiqwenga seediliya esilungile.
2. Khumbula ukuba umbala awuyiyo yonke into.
Ukusuka kuphando lwam lwenzululwazi (okt, ukuthetha nabahlobo malunga nokuhombisa), ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba abantu abaninzi, xa besenza indawo, bacinga kuqala ngemibala yaloo ndawo. Nje ukuba bakhethe imibala-yithi, luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kunye nesilivere- kwindawo yabo, yonke into ihlala iwela kwindawo ejikeleze leyo. Isofa eblue, itafile yekofu yesilivere, ityali kunye nomsebenzi wobugcisa kunye nezibane ezihambelana nazo zonke ezi zinto.
Anditsho ukuba ukuthanda umbala kubi- enyanisweni, umbala yeyona nto ibalulekileyo malunga neendawo ezininzi ezinomdla. Kodwa kukwakho namagumbi amaninzi amahle apho umbala kuphela kwe-aksenti, okanye apho kungekho nto ingako umbala oqaqambileyo kwaphela. Kwaye kugxila kumbala kuphela, hayi ezinye izinto ezinje ngokuthambeka kunye nomlinganiso, inokunika indawo ikhathuni, iklasi yamabanga aphantsi. Endaweni yokukhetha isikimu sombala kuqala, zama ukuqokelela iifoto zamagumbi onomdla kuwo kwaye uchonge ukuba zeziphi ezifanayo. Okanye khetha enye okanye ezimbini ezithandekayo kwaye wakhe igumbi elibangqongileyo. Ngokwendalo uya kutsalwa yimibala oyithandayo, kwaye usenokufumanisa ukuba igumbi linombala ‘okhangayo’ ngaphandle kokuba bekucwangcisiwe kwaphela.
3. Awudingi ifanitshala eninzi ukuze wenze indawo yokuziva ugqibe.
Ifanitshala yincinci nje encinci yento eyenza indawo ivakale ngathi, kwaye uyakufumanisa, ukuba umbe nzulu kugcino lwayo nayiphi na ibhlog yoyilo, ukuba iindawo ezininzi ezinomtsalane eneneni zinefenitshala encinci kwaphela. Le yimpikiswano yokuhombisa kancinci (jonga # 1!), Kunye nokunikela ingqalelo kwizinto malunga nesithuba onokungaziboni kwangoko-izinto ezinje ngeerug, kunye nobugcisa, kunye nonyango lwefestile kunye nezityalo. Ukuba ufumana ifanitshala ngokuthe chu, kwaye udibanise izinto ozifumeneyo kunye nokuthengwa kwezinye izinto ezenza ukuba uxube, uya kufumana ibhalansi eyiyo ngaphandle kokugqitha.
4. Akudingeki uhlawule kakhulu ukuze ufumane iziqwenga ezisemgangathweni.
Mhlawumbi xa ubona la manani kwileta yokunikezela, wawucinga ukuba usisityebi, kwaye emva kokuba uhlawule irente kwinyanga yokuqala ebandayo, inyani enzima yaqala ukuseta. Kulungile kuba akufuneki ube sisityebi ukuze ube izinto ezintle. Ukuthengiswa kweCraigslist kunye negaraji kunye neevenkile ezingenamsebenzi kunye neevenkile ze-antique kwaye mhlawumbi nogogo wakho we-attic zizinto ezintle, kwaye ukuba uneliso elihle kwaye uphaphile, unokufumana izinto ezininzi ezinomdla.
5. Izinto ozithandayo zinokutshintsha.
Ndiyazi ukuba uziva, xa uphumelela ikholeji, ukuba ubengulomntu uza kuba nguye kwaye lomntu unguye ngoku ngumntu oza kuba ngunaphakade. Ndiyayazi le nto kuba nam ndaziva ngendlela efanayo xa ndandineminyaka engama-21. kwaye into oyithandayo inokutshintsha, nayo. Ithetha ntoni le nto kwikhaya lakho? Ngenye, ungachithi ngaphezulu kwinto enye kunokuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali luza kuvumela. Vumela uhambe nothando lwakho, kwaye mhlawumbi wenze iimpazamo ezimbalwa, kwaye ungayithathi ngokungathí sina. Ngokuhombisa, njengobomi, isiqingatha sovuyo kukufika apho.
