Ngaba Ukuba Ngumhombi kubutshintshe Ubomi Bakho baBungcono?

Ishishini lokupeyinta kunye nokuhombisa lihlala lifakwe kakubi - isiqingatha sazo ngabapeyinti kunye nabahlobisi ngokwabo.

Nokuba kukuqala kwangethuba, abathengi abakrwada okanye iintlungu zomzimba kunye neentlungu - ukuba ngumhombi yenye yeendlela ezingentle kangako umntu anokuzikhetha.

Kodwa ngaba ngenene kubi ngolo hlobo? Ngaba iqaqobana lamazwi lidala i-stereotype engalunganga? Sagqiba ekubeni sifumanise. Sabuza amakhulukhulu abapeyinti nabahombisi enoba ukuba ngomnye wabo kwabuguqula ubomi babo baba bhetele okanye akunjalo. Nazi ezinye zeempendulo esizifumeneyo.

Jon

Ngaba iminyaka engama-31 kwizemali, ishiye ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kunye nemiba yempilo yengqondo, ipeyinta iminyaka eyi-3 kwaye iyayithanda, kunzima kodwa uncumo ebusweni babantu xa uguqula igumbi, yeyona nto ingcono, iya kuba isafunda ixesha elide. kodwa ndonwabile andifanga. Ke ukupeyinta kubutshintshile obam kunye nobomi beentsapho ukuba bubengcono.

Brett

Andinakukhanyela ukuba andizange ndizive ngathi ndine-bipolar kunalo msebenzi. Uthando lwam kunye nentiyo yalo ifana ne-pendulum.

USam

Thanda urhwebo ukuthiya nje amaxabiso xa kuthelekiswa nolunye urhwebo nangona sishiywe siqoqosha i-shit yomntu wonke.

UTom

I-100% yanditshintsha njengomntu, umsebenzi, umhlobo. Ndinyanisekile ngakumbi, ndicinga ngabanye ngakumbi, ndincede ngakumbi apho ndinako. Inye into ibiyinto engalunganga, bambalwa abantu abaye bathatha i-piss kwaye ndiye ndafumana ichancers nam kwaye kwafuneka ndigxothe abantu abaninzi. Nangona kunjalo ngoku ndilapho kufuneka ndibe nemali ebhankini kunye neshishini elitsha endaweni.

Isityebi

Ufike emva kwexesha ebomini njengomsebenzi osisigxina. Ndisebenze ixesha elininzi lobomi bam kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo esekwe eziofisini-kuquka ukubonisana neenkampani ezinkulu zamazwe ngamazwe. I-fucking yayiyithiyile ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba ngendenze intshukumo kwiminyaka eyadlulayo.

UAlex

Eyona nto ingcono endakha ndayenza. Usishiyile isikolo kungekho GCSE kwaye engazi ukuba mandenze ntoni. Emva koko waqala ukufundela umsebenzi kunye noBagnall. Ndiye ndedwa i-noughties yam yokuqala- bekunzima kodwa ndinesiseko somthengi esifanelekileyo ngoku kunye nomvuzo oqhelekileyo.

UNick

Ndandinomphathi weshit kwiminyaka yam yama-20 xa ndandifunda ngoko andizange ndonwabele kodwa ndandisazi ukuba ndilungile kuyo. Misela i-solo kwaye awuzange ube nobomi obonwabisayo. Abathengi baphezulu kwaye behla kodwa ulawulo malunga nokuba zeziphi iintsuku endizisebenzayo kwaye musa nokuba ngaphandle. Andikho kuyo ukuba sisityebi, ndikuyo ukuba ndibe nobomi obufanelekileyo bomsebenzi.

uBen

Yithande. Ukusuka kumvavanyi weenyanga ezi-6 ekholejini, ukuya kwikhosi ye-2 yeminyaka, iminyaka eyi-1.5 yokufunda, iminyaka eyi-7/8 ndisebenzela umntu kwaye ngoku ndedwa iminyaka emi-2 yokugqibela. Ayizange itshintshe emhlabeni. Ubenomfana omangalisayo owandifundisa okuninzi kwaye wafika kum apho ndikhoyo ngoku.

Lawrence

Ewe...ndifumene umsebenzi wokupeyinta ngexesha le-Covid 19 (ndingumpheki kodwa andikwazanga ukusebenza kwindawo yokwamkela iindwendwe). Ndacinga ukuba ndikrelekrele njengoko ndandityhola umsebenzi kwisiza sokwakha kuphela ndafumanisa ukuba ndandisebenza kunye nomfama kunye nomqhubi wenqwelo-moya… ingenguye yedwa ogxekayo.

UMartin

Ndandina 15 yrs xa ndandiqala ukufundela umsebenzi. Ndenze imisebenzi emininzi ukusukela oko ukuze ndiphile kodwa bendisoloko ndinebhongo ngorhwebo lwam kunye nezakhono endinazo ngoku.

Barry

Ndiyaluthanda urhwebo lwam-ngabathengi abangenalo nofifi lokuba yintoni engena kumsebenzi ondilisekileyo ondibeke kude. Owu ingaphezulu kunokuba besicinga ukuba siza kucinga ngayo kwaye sibuyele kuwe sisibhanxa sobomi bam.

Jordan

Ndonwabe kakhulu ngokuhombisa esikolweni kodwa ndinqwenela ukuba ngendingazange ndiyiqalise.

Inombolo yengelosi enentsingiselo engama-222

Andy

Ukunyaniseka, ndaqala ngo-1983 kwaye ndisayenza, ndiyithiyile ngokupheleleyo kodwa iyawahlawula amatyala kwaye indinike inkululeko yokuya eholideyini xa ndiyidinga. Kodwa phantse kwiminyaka engama-40 kamva… ndiyayithiya. Ndingathanda ukuphuma kwizixhobo kwaye ndilawule izinto endaweni yoko kodwa ndifumane umsebenzi owaneleyo kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, abasebenzi abathembekileyo bokukwenzela umsebenzi kwaye baqhubele phambili le nto unentlungu eyakhiweyo yiGrail eNgcwele kweli shishini.

UJim

Kwafuneka ndifumane i-Apprenticeship katata esithi wayesoloko efumana i-apprenticeship umfana afundelwe umsebenzi, yenzeka nje i-P&D yayiyeyokuqala eyavelayo! Ndenze njalo yam 5 ewe 5 iminyaka! Hayi imizuzu emi-2 abayenzayo ngoku. Yenziwe imali entle - ngamanye amaxesha igrand yayiyiveki embi. I-Tenerife inyanga yonke ebusika, ke ndingathi ewe enkosi tata ndilungile kodwa iminyaka engama-50 ezantsi umzimba umkile, isibindi asisekho kwaye andinakulinda umhlala-phantsi kulo nyaka uzayo.