Yithi ukwi-soiree ene-pink champagne cocktails kunye ne-guacamole engaphezulu kunokuba uyazi ukuba wenzeni, kwaye uzibona uzamla phakathi kwako konke ukuxubana. Okanye mhlawumbi umi phambi kwesipili sakho sokuhlambela - usebenzisa i-lipstick yasebusuku- kwaye kuyakuvela kuwe ukuba ungene eteksini kwaye uyibhuqe edolophini yinto yokugqibela ofuna ukuyenza ngobo busuku. Nokuba yeyiphi imeko ozifumana ukuyo, umbono wokungenisa isiporho sele ubambekile engqondweni yakho kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe uyenze kwinxalenye yekofu yasebusuku.
Ngelixa abanye abantu benokuziva benetyala kakhulu xa bebaleka ukuhlangana komhlobo okanye iindlela zabo zokwahlukana kwi-bash xa imikhosi yayinokubona kwangaphambili ukuthenga ubumelwane bewayini, ukuba awuyiva, ngekhe uyikhohlise . Kodwa kukho iindlela zokubamba umnqwazi wakho kwaye uphume emnyango kwangoko ngaphandle kokuphazamisa ezininzi (ukuba zikhona!) Iintsiba. Funda kwaye ube liqela lobuchwephesha eHoudini.
1. Zithethelele kwangaphambili
Ukuba ulungiselela i-shindig yakho kwaye ikubetha ngaxeshanye ukuba ungathanda ukuhlala kunye nokuthatha amaTshayina, setha isiseko sebheyile yakho ngokwazisa umphathi wakho kwangaphambili. Nje ukuba ungene kwigumbi labo lokuhlala kwaye uqale ngokususa idyasi yakho, mabaxelele ukuba uyakufuna ukuphuma ethekweni kwangethuba, kodwa awunakulinda ukuba wenze uninzi kwezi yure zilandelayo.
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2. Sukujongeka ngathi ujonge iwotshi
Ukuba uyabhabha ngembotyi yokudika ubonakala udikiwe, iindlela zakho zokugqibela zinokuhamba kancinci. Endaweni yoko, yenza umzamo wokubonakala ngathi unerhasi, kwaye xa ilixesha lokwenza ukuphuma kwakho umphathi wakho akasayi kuziva ngathi kungenxa yomoya. Yitsho into ecaleni kwemigca, ndiyaxolisa ukuba kufuneka ndihambe kwangoko. Eli liqela elimnandi kangaka!
3. Zama ukuPina umamkeli ekhitshini
Ukuba uthatha inxaxheba kumanqanaba okuqala epati, ukubhengeza okuhle kwakho kwindawo yokuhlanganisana kunokunika umbono wokuba abantu bayemka kwaye ibhashe ludud. Ukuyiphepha loo nto, zama ukubamba umphathi wakho ngelixa esekhitshini okanye kwiveranda (okanye ibhalkhoni, ipaseji, indawo yokugcina iimpahla - ufumana umbono!) Kwaye wenze okuhle kwakho apho.
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4. Dumisani iPati
Qinisekisa umbuki zindwendwe wakho ukuba itheko lakhe labethwa ngokudwelisa ngokuthe ngqo into oyithandayo malunga ne-shindig. Umzekelo, cela iresiphi yegazi yeorenji yegolide, yabelana ngendlela obuyithanda ngayo indawo ephefumlelweyo yePinterest, kunye nefawn malunga nendlela abazihlekisayo ngayo iindwendwe. Ukubeka umbuki zindwendwe ngothando kuya kubaqinisekisa ukuba awuhambi kuba i-soiree ilahlekile - lixesha lokuba uphume.
5. Kuphephe Ukuzithethelela Njengesibetho
Musa ukuxelela umphathi wakho ukuba uyahamba, baxelele ukuba uyaphuma. Ukuba ilandelwa kukuphazamiseka Hayi, kodwa ngoba! thintela idolo lakho lifikelele kwisizathu. Ndibathumele nje ngolonwabo, Enkosi KAKHULU ngokundimema. Ndiyithande kakhulu into yokulunywa kwe-cheesecake kwaye ipati yokudanisa ekhitshini yayimangalisa.
uluhlu lwazo zonke iingelosi
Kuyo yonke into eyiyo, umbuki zindwendwe wakho mhlawumbi ukucele ukuba uhlale ngendlela edolweni, naye. Abadingi ukuba ubambelele kude kufike ixesha lokucoca izitya ze-chip.
6. Shiya neQela lihleka
Indlela engenamthungo yokuzifumana uhlale phantsi uze ume kwaye uphume ngomnyango kwiqela elincinci kukukhupha ibali elifutshane. Yenze ibe linani elirhabaxa, elihlekisayo, kwaye njengoko ukufutshane esiphelweni sayo qala ukuma. Njengoko ufikelela kwincopho, bamba iklatshi yakho, wombe umphathi, kwaye uyikhuphe ngokubenza bahleke bonke ngepunchline yakho. Njengokuba besula iinyembezi emehlweni abo baxelele indlela ekwakumnandi ngayo ukuchitha ingokuhlwa kunye kwaye wenze ukuphuma kwakho.
7. Isiporho
Ngelixa oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuya kuba nomninimzi ophosa ngokungummangaliso ikhadi lakho lokuhlala kwindawo yokulahla inkunkuma, uninzi lwabantu lunokukhetha ukuba ulubambe ngomlenze ngaphandle kokuvalelisa. Indlela yokuphila ye-blogger uJoanna Goddard ovela kwiNdebe kaJo ukhumbula amava akhe okusingathwa, Kwisiqingatha sesibini sepati, abahlobo abanembeko bagcina esiza ukuvalelisa njengokuba benxibe iingubo zabo kwaye basinqwenelela ukuphumla-ngeempela-veki ezimnandi. Ekugqibeleni ndajika ndaya kuAlex, ndadideka, ndaza ndabuza, ‘Kutheni bonke bemka?’ Kwaye wabonisa ukuba abantu abaninzi babesekhona; kwavakala ngathi kukufuduka okuninzi kuba besityiwe kukuvalelisa kubo bonke abantu ababuyela ekhaya. Sukwenza ipati izive ingaphaya kwesiqingatha kuphela. Thatha nje umnqwazi wakho kwaye uphume.
Cwangcisa ukuChukumisa isiXhobo kunye noMsingathi ngosuku olulandelayo
Smooth phantsi naziphi na iintsiba ezinokubhukuqeka ngokuchukumisa isiseko kunye nomsingathi ngosuku olulandelayo kunye nokwabelana ngendlela oyonwabele ngayo itheko. Ungabathumela i-imeyile, uthumele isicatshulwa, okanye uhambe ngendlela yemveli kwaye uthumele inqaku lokubulela eliswiti ngeposi.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, iqhinga lokubaleka kwangoko kukwenza umsoli we-soiree azive ngathi iqela labo liyamangalisa. Yifumana ngaphaya kwayo kwaye ungatsiba kwakhona ubuyele kwikhabhathi yakho ngaphambi kogwayimbo lobusuku!
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