Alice othandekayo,
Ndihlala ndedwa kwisakhiwo esikhulu esihlala esixekweni kwaye ngesiqhelo oku kuya kunika inqanaba lokungaziwa, nangona kunjalo, isibini esitsha sifudukele kwiyunithi esecaleni kwaye abayi kundishiya ndedwa. Ndiyingeniso kwaye ndikhetha kakhulu ukuzigcina kum. Ndonwabile ukunqwala ngentlonelo kwaye ndibulise ngokukhawuleza kwabanye abahlali endibona kwi-lobby okanye ilifti, kodwa andisiva isidingo sokungena kwiincoko ezinde ngalo lonke ixesha ndiphuma emnyango wam. Abamelwane bam abatsha bavakalelwa ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Bahlala bezama ukuqala incoko kunye nam kwaye bandimemele. Andinamdla wokwenza abahlobo abatsha kodwa nam andifuni ukuba krwada. Ndingabuyela njani ekubeni ndingaziwa?
Ozithobileyo,
Inye kuphela yesihlwele
JOOTC othandekayo,
Mna, mna ndinotyekelo olungenisiweyo ukuze ndiqonde ngokupheleleyo ukuba ufuna ukuhamba malunga nosuku lwakho ngaphandle kokwenza ingxoxo eholweni nanini na xa unelishwa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungqubeka kwesi sibini. Kodwa inyani kukuba inxenye yokuba ngumntu olungileyo kunye (nokukrokra) yinxalenye yoluntu - ewe, isakhiwo sakho luluntu - siyasifunxa ngamanye amaxesha kwaye sincokole imizuzu emibini malunga nekati okanye umntwana okanye imozulu. Kufuneka okungenani wenze umgudu xa bekubandakanya. Ngaba ngenene ufuna ukuba kwimeko apho ufuna uncedo lommelwane ngenye imini kwaye ukwazile ukubahlukanisa bonke? Hayi.
Ngoku, ukuba ulungile akuthethi ukuba kuya kudla isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye uhlale kunye nesi sibini ekhaya. Xa bedada isimemo, ungazama ukusiphepha xa unakho okanye, ukuba bayanyanzelisa, yithi, Enkosi kakhulu ngesimemo, kodwa andikwazi ukusenza. Bayakufumana ingcebiso.
Khumbula, yiba ngumntu onokumfuna njengommelwane: uchubekile, unolwazelelelo kwaye uzolile, kwaye ngethemba baya kulandela umkhokelo wakho.
Uthando,
UAlice
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