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Izihlandlo ezikhethekileyo njengoSuku lweValentine zinokunceda izibini ziziva zisondele, nokuba zihlala kubumelwane, iiyure, okanye iilwandle. Basebenza njengesizathu sokuphuma ngaphandle, kwaye njengezikhumbuzo zokunxibelelana kwakhona. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubucwangcisela ubusuku bomhla obubonakalayo kangangeenyanga okanye iminyaka ngoku, kulula ukuba ubuyele kwiindlela ezizanyisiweyo nezinyanisekileyo eziva ngathi zindala nje. UKiaundra jackson , umtshato onelayisensi kunye nonyango losapho, ucebisa izibini ezikude ukuba zibeke phambili ukutshintsha izinto ngokungazibandakanyi kwizinto ezifanayo suku ngalunye neqabane lakho.
Uyenza njani lonto? Unyango lwendawo yokuhlala lucele uncedo kunye nezibini ezikude ngokufanayo ngeengcebiso zazo.
Gcina Ncamathisela Bona eminye imifanekiso Ityala: UJoe LingemanUkuphatha uSuku lweValentine
Kuqala, yenza okwenyani kunye nawe malunga nento ofuna ukuyenza.
Umcebisi onelayisensi kunye nombhali we Akusekho Mlo: Incwadi Yolwalamano Lwababini UAlicia muñoz icebisa izibini ukuba zibe nencoko malunga nento ofuna ukuyenza ngoSuku lweValentine kwangaphambili kwaye ungathembi ukuba iqabane lakho liya kuyifunda ingqondo yakho. Ucebisa ukuba iqela ngalinye lithathe ixesha lokuzibhala phantsi ezakho izimvo zento ongathanda ukuyenza.
Sukuzihlela ngokwakho, bhala phantsi izimvo zakho, uyongeza uMunoz. Le nkqubo iyodwa yokuzinika imvume 'yokufuna' ulonwabo olucocekileyo lwayo inokukhulula.
Emva kokuchitha ixesha elithile uphupha usuku lwakho oluhle lweValentine, yabelana uluhlu lwakho kunye neqabane lakho ukuthelekisa amanqaku kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba zeziphi izimvo ozithandayo. NgokukaMunoz injongo yalo msebenzi kukunikhupha nobabini kuyo nayiphi na imeko eninokuba kuyo; ukuqala ukulindela ukwenza into eyahlukileyo kunye nokuzonwabisa kunye; kwaye ubeke ingcinga encinci, amandla okuyila, kunye nentsebenziswano ekubhiyozeleni unxibelelwano lwakho, ngaphandle kwesithintelo sokwahlukana komzimba okwethutyana.
Ukhutyekisiwe ekufezekiseni izimvo zobusuku bobusuku? Zama olu khetho ngokobungakanani:
Yazisa inkqubo yokufumana isipho esicingisisiweyo.
Abahlobo bam uKelsey Ferruggia noRohit Ravi baneminyaka emihlanu bethandana, ezintathu kuzo zichithwe kwimeko ekude. Bavumile ukuba ukuthumela izipho zokubhiyozela yayiyeyona nto ibalulekileyo yexesha labo bengahlukani. Ngomhla we-Valentine's Day, uRavi wanika uFerruggia isitshixo esenziwe ngeemephu zedolophu nganye. Ngoku akukho namnye kuthi ohlala kwezi dolophu, kodwa sisikhumbuzo esihle ngelo xesha sichithe kumgama omde, utshilo uFerruggia.
Ukuthatha inxaxheba kutshintshiselwano lwesipho kunokuba yindlela eyonwabisayo nenomdla yokubonisa iqabane lakho olikhathaleleyo. Njengomntu olwimi lakhe lothando lupha izipho, ndiyakuthanda ukulungiswa kwesipho esifanelekileyo kumlingane wam kwaye ndimbukele evula phambi kwamehlo am. Ukutshintshwa kunokusebenza njengento ekufuneka ujonge kuyo xa nithe nahlukana - kwaye uFerruggia ukhuthaza izibini ukuba zivule izipho zazo kwifowuni yevidiyo ukuze zibonane ubuso bothukile.
Shadeen Francis , umcebisi ngesondo kunye nobudlelwane, uxelela iTherapy Therapy ukuba ukufumana into ebonakalayo kwiqabane lakho kunokunceda izibini ezikude ziziva zisondele, njengoko zibonelela ngento yokubamba okanye ukubamba xa becinga omnye nomnye. Ucebisa izipho ezinje ngeempahla ezimnandi, izilwanyana ezifakiweyo, okanye iipilo zomzimba. Amanqaku ebhonasi ukuba into inephunga eliqhelekileyo, njengesiqholo / icologne okanye ivumba elithozamisayo, wongeza uFrancis.
Zimasa ikonsathi ebonakalayo.
Ngaphambi kobhubhane, iziganeko ezibonakalayo ezinjengeekhonsathi kunye nemidlalo yeqonga zazimbalwa kwaye zisekude kakhulu - ngoku ziqhelekile. U-Elise Gooding, isidanga e-California Polytechnic State University, kunye nesoka lakhe baya kwikonsathi ebonakalayo rhoqo ngoLwesine. Umdla wabo ekwabelwana ngawo emculweni ubanika indlela yokwazana ngcono kwaye banxibelelana rhoqo. (Bakwamamela icwecwe elahlukileyo veki nganye kwaye baxoxe ngalo!)
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Yonwabela ikhandlela lesidlo sangokuhlwa ngaphezulu koSondeza.
Ungonwabela isidlo kunye kwifowuni yevidiyo nangaluphi na usuku. Ngosuku lweValentine, hamba konke! UJackson ucebisa ukuba umntu ngamnye abeke indawo yakho yokuhlala ngendlela enesini, kunye namakhandlela, isiselo esimnandi kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa. Yonwabele ngokungathi ukhona ebusweni, uyongeza. Musa ukoyika ukusebenzisa iholide njengesizathu sokunxiba, nawe! U-Munoz ucebisa ukuba unikele nge-formalwear ukuze ungene kwimood yomsitho.
Ngokubhekisele kwimenyu, zininzi izinto onokukhetha kuzo. Ungabusebenzisa ubusuku busuku njengethuba lokupheka iresiphi efanayo (amanqaku ebhonasi ukuba wenza njalo ngefowuni yevidiyo!) Okanye u-odole uhlobo olunye lokutya kwindawo yokutyela yalapha. Ukujija, sebenzisa inkonzo yokuhambisa ukutya uku-odola ukutya komnye nomnye, ngaphandle komnye umntu esazi ukuba bazokufumana luphi uhlobo lokutya. (Ixesha lokuqala kunye nomlingane wam senza le nto, sobabini sagqiba uku-odola ukutya kwase-Thai, okusenza sihleke kwaye siziva sisondele.)
Thatha iklasi ekwi-intanethi kunye.
Ngenxa yobhubhane, uninzi lwamashishini emfundo kunye nobuchule ngoku abonelela ngeeklasi ezibonakalayo. U-Airbnb uwandisile amava abo amava akwi-intanethi , ezibandakanya yonke into onokucinga ngayo, ukusuka ekutsaleni ibhingo ukuya kwiiklasi zemixube. Uninzi lwamagcisa asekhaya kunye namashishini amancinci abamba iiklasi ezifanayo okanye iiseshoni zabucala kwi-Zoom. Qiniseka ukuba ujonga uluhlu lwakho lwasekhaya ukuxhasa abadali kwindawo ohlala kuyo.
Bukela imuvi kunye.
Ukubukela imovie kunye ligrail engcwele yemihla emide. Kuba zininzi iindlela zokusasaza kunye nezandiso ezinje Umnxeba , izibini zingabukela imovie efanayo ngaxeshanye. Le yindlela elungileyo yokuziva ngathi ukwindawo yemidlalo bhanyabhanya kunye neqabane lakho okanye nibukele imovie kunye ekhaya, amanqaku kaJackson.
U-Munoz ucebisa ukuba umntu ngamnye enze i-popcorn ngokwahlukeneyo kwaye apholise esihlalweni asithandayo okanye esofeni. Thatha i-snack oyithandayo, zigalele isoda (okanye isiselo osikhethileyo), kwaye ubethe umdlalo ngaxeshanye kumdlalo bhanyabhanya okanye kwimarathon.
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Enye yeenkumbulo zam endizithandayo nomlingane wam yimva kwemini xa sasizula sijikeleza idolophu yaseManhattan saza sabuzana Imibuzo engama-36 ekhokelela eluthandweni . Nokuba kudala uthandana, le mibuzo iya kutyhila into entsha malunga neqabane lakho, elikhulu okanye elincinci. Unako kwakhona ukufumana imibuzo kwi Asingabo abasemzini Ngokwenene , umdlalo wekhadi owenzelwe ukunceda abadlali ukuba babenokwenyani, ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.
Ukwenza umgudu wokwazi iqabane lakho kunokuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho kunye nokwandisa ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo. Unxibelelwano olunzulu luhlala lwakhiwe ngaphandle kwemvakalelo yokuba iqabane lakho ngokwenene uyazi wena, kwaye ekuphela kwendlela enokwenzeka ukuba wenza umkhwa wokwabelana, uFrancis ucacisa. Ukuthetha ngezihloko ezisemngciphekweni njengeemvakalelo kunye namaphupha yindlela yokuqhubeka nokuziva ubandakanyekile kubomi bomnye nomnye ngaphaya kokubalisa okwenzeka mihla le. Ukuthiya amathemba okanye amaphupha ngekamva lolwalamano lwakho kunokuqinisekisa iqabane lakho ukuba utyale imali ngokuqhubeka nokukhulisa ubudlelwane.
Funda omnye komnye.
Ukufundela omnye umntu kunokubangela iinkumbulo ezingathandekiyo zokufunda ngeentsuku zakho zesikolo saseprayimari, kodwa ungakuvumeli oko kukuthintele ekwenzeni iinkumbulo ezintsha nezingcono! U-Munoz ucebisa izibini ukuba zigone kwiibhedi zakho ezahlukeneyo kwaye zifundisane ukufunda, nokuba ziyimibongo yothando okanye inoveli oyithandayo. Ngalo msebenzi, unokufumana inqanaba elitsha lokusondelelana.
Nokuba wenza ntoni, wugqibe umhla wakho ngenqaku lombulelo.
Kuyenzeka ngokupheleleyo kwizibini ezikude ukuba zilawule ukwahlulwa okungapheliyo ngexesha lobhubhane ngokuzimisela, unxibelelwano, kunye nobuchule, UGqr. UMartha Tara Lee , umcebisi kwezobudlelwane, ugqirha wezesondo eklinikhi, kunye nomsunguli we-Eros Coaching, uxelela iTherapy Therapy. Ingcebiso yakhe: Ukuphelisa yonke iminxeba, iseshoni yevidiyo, okanye ukusebenzisana noxabiso lokwenene okanye ukwamkelwa kweqabane lakho. Umzekelo, uGqirha Lee uthi babelane ngoluphi uhlobo lwazo osaluthandayo; eyona nto uyonwabeleyo yengxoxo yakho yeyure enye, njalo-njalo ... Gcwalisa ibhanki yakho yothando kuba eli lelona xesha lingaphezulu kunanini na elifuna ukuba sibonwe, live, kwaye sithandwa.
