Kwezi ntsuku ndihlala eSan Francisco emnene, kodwa ndichithe iminyaka engama-23 yokuqala yobomi bam eChicago, isixeko apho i-windchill ye -20ºF (loo -29ºC) ijika ilinde ibhasi kumdlalo ogqithileyo. Ndifunde izinto ezimbalwa kule minyaka…
1. Qala usuku ekunene.
Ndiyathanda ukugcina indlu yam ibanda kakhulu ngelixa ndileleyo, kodwa nokuba awunjalo, utshintsho olusuka ngaphantsi kwezikhuselo luye kwilizwe lokwenyani kunokuba bubundlobongela. Ukulungisa le nto, xa ndingena ezingubeni ndilala, ndigoqa iipyjama zam kunye nengubo okanye imilenze kunye nesikipa ndazifaka phantsi kwezikhuselo kunye nam, ecaleni okanye ezinyaweni zebhedi. Abazange babe sendleleni, kodwa xa ilixesha lokuvuka kusasa, balungile kwaye banobushushu, bafudunyezwe bubushushu bomzimba wam. Ewe ndiyanxiba kwaye ndondlula ibhedi ngoku ndisesebhedini.
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2. Bambisa obo bushushu.
Ndiye ndadada iminyaka emininzi, kwaye ndihamba iikhilomitha ezimbini ndisiya ekhaya ukusuka echibini ngexesha lobusika bekholeji bendifundise iingcebiso ezimbalwa. Ngokuyintloko, kuya kufuneka ubambe ubushushu bakho. Yiba yiPocket yakho eshushu! Thatha ishawa eshushu, yome ngokukhawuleza nangokufanelekileyo, kwaye unxibe ngokukhawuleza. Ngale ndlela, bonke ubushushu bomzimba wakho buya kugcinwa busondele emzimbeni wakho. Ubambe ubushushu, kunokuba uzivumele uphole uze uzame ukufudumala kwakhona.
3. Zivumele ubanda, ubuncinci imizuzu emihlanu yokuqala.
Ngokwengqondo, le yeyona inzima. Xa kubanda ngenene ngaphandle, umzimba wakho unokwenza iingxoxo ezikholisayo kakhulu zokuhlala ngaphakathi endlwini: Kushushu! Kuyaphola! Kulapho itshizi likhoyo! Kodwa ngaphandle kulapho umoya omtsha, umthambo, imisebenzi, kunye nemisebenzi, kwaye ezo zizinto ezilungileyo. Nokuba uziqwebile ngokufanelekileyo kwimozulu, amathuba alungile uyakuziva ubanda kwimizuzu emihlanu yokuqala - kwaye yile ndlela ekufanele ukuba njalo. Ukuba uphumela ebusika obukhulu kwaye uzive kamnandi ufudumele, nje ukuba uqale ushukume kwaye ukhawuleze, uyakuba ubile amabhakethi! Kwaye isebenza ngokuchasene nawe ngeendlela ezininzi. Kungcono ukuba uzive upholile ekuqaleni, emva koko uhambe, yonyuse intliziyo yakho- kwaye mhlawumbi ukhulule iqhosha okanye amabini ..
Nceda qaphela: Andililo ugqirha! Ndiyintombazana yaseMidwestern kuphela ethanda ukuphuma endlwini kodwa ikuthiye ukubanda. Nceda ungeze iingcebiso zakho!
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